shahryar

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  1. I was wondering what do you guys think would be an entrepreneurship approach like if our first objective happens to be making more jobs not for the sake of entrepreneurs sake, in fact how do you think NGOs s or government can make massive amount of job opportunities?
  2. Im hoping to find out new ways of making career for unemployed people , getting help from your contemplation about this topic
  3. excuse my language what I ment was career
  4. dont let it go if you think you dont know consider it as a contemplation exercise
  5. youve mentioned the root cause that holds you back your problem is simply becoming tired soon so, work on your job and skills to pay bills , but before starting life purpose work on your stamina and hit the gym and clean you diet this way you will have enough energy to start your life purpose and not be tired while doing it
  6. vladimir you have miss conceptions about passive income creating a reliable and stable passive income probably takes lots of work such as what leo has done so making that alone needs creative juice and its also needs a giving value approach cause you cant make money without giving real value
  7. if you find some of thos unnecessary then simply dont do them the ones you do has to serve youre purpose for example cleaning house serves our purpose by keeping us healthy and raises our disipline and give us more self esteem so this is an example for purpose of chores
  8. every time you try to contemplate on a question ask about the answer you reached to is it a stereo type or a label made by the society or not cause are mind doesnt want to contemplate to find its own answers its just want to answer and the easy ones are labels and judgements
  9. test your back with MRI and ct scan maybe you have herniated disc ,and buy an orthopedic seat cushion, also hit the gym and reinforce your abs and back muscles and keep doing stretch every day
  10. its not that you should find the reason you should make it the art form that you create is an extension of you also the art does not have to be traditional art or something that we know as are whatever you creat out of creativity not productiveness cause creative stuff has to be something original and new its equivalent as having a baby although you can say screw all that and there is no meaning to that but so there is not meaning to life either thats why we chose personal development to make meaning
  11. 12 angry man ( understanding how something that seems so true can be wrong even though it has a lot of proofs) Forrest gump ( consistency and hard work works even though you're not smart enough) city of god ( how environment shapes most of people) the usual suspect ( how deceptive are the situations we face) Leon (there is no black and white in ethics ,its gray) Intouchables ( true friendship)
  12. you definitely need to know about politics in personal scale in order to know what is better decision and applying what policy to your work and relation and plans would work the most for you, also surviving in the society need political skills I recommend you to read 48 laws of power by robert green but also be aware that most politic theory are Machiavellian and can be categorized in red stage of civilization your goal has to be in the state green orange or turquoise so be aware of what it is that your learning its mostly feeds the ego but about the politics in the bigger scale I think its a matter of interest I personally love politics , you should have an overall understanding but I dont think its necessary for your growth to know everything about it, although some important skills are mutual in both such as systems thinking my opinion is that social democracy is the best way to govern just look at countries in Scandinavia and common wealth countries and some Europeans who have social democratic systems they are more fair and civil right have been recognized and the wealth is redistributed so viva social democracy
  13. I think what you doing is stuffing yourself with self help content without practice you're tendency to self actualization is wrong you're not supposed to be always in the learning and decision making state these are important but you should first determine what are your goals then if you have theoretical foundation dont go through reading more and stuffing yourself just start strategising and timing you certainly lack time management abilities dont do 4 hours personal development and just 10 minute doing college assignment while you need the opposite start keeping journals about how much time you are putting on what and why? and also stop acting like victim of ocd we dont care about what we cant control take responsibility about what you can
  14. can you tell me more about sun gazing and what it actually is?
  15. you are full of pessimist ideas about yourself , start with positive affirmation write on the wall that you are good with girls relations and intimacy write that you are independent and not needy and have confidence and remind yourself daily about them and trust is not something that you should have in the first place its something that has to be built so dont blame yourself for not trusting but in order to examine your friend give them a shot so risk one time and see what is their reaction if you find the compassionate and understanding trust more and let it be built this is actually through game theory in long run the one that risks for first time but after that acts after what is the action of the other one wins and if you have problem with risking for first time initially recognize that its a phobia meaning being scared for something that is not necessarily real then imagine in your mind that what would be the worse that could happen if I say that problem most of the time you'll find out that even the worst reaction imaginable isn't that bad to avoid you to try
  16. consider that its not about not knowing what to do, I know that I lack consciousness and I need to be doing meditation but sometimes its goes too deep that I wont recognize time
  17. what is the best way to come out of deep unconsciousness you've probably experienced times when you go in deep unconsciousness for hours and even days there are days that we dont do anything and we are just in our head and there are just glimpses for doing daily chores which in this state even some of those wont be done. the person is extremely unconscious that even though he/she remembers for example that meditating helps doesn't actually start doing it for hours. this situation particularly deepens when you have depression or have been in a break up or thinking about sex I am a determined human being who knows what are his goals and strategies and has a plan that tries to stick to it whit decipline I also watch all Leos free video content on you tube so I know about mindfulness and being in the moment and practiced them and I have improved alot thanks to my beloved coach Leo gura whom I consider as my brother or my self nothing and everything spiritually speaking, but I some times fall into this trap of deep unconsciousness and cant help my self although Im well equipped with theory, this situation is rare but hurts me a lot some times I dont do my urgent activities so what is your solution to this problem? have you ever been in this state? thanks for participating
  18. I believe you should set your self respect and self esteem as unconditional ones, the problem of letting go of what you've planned for and motivated your self for some days goes back to your lacking of consciousness so when ever you think you should be doing something that you wont 10 minutes of meditation immediately will raise your consciousness to a functional level this way you can do your chores and start to keep journals about your activities to build discipline and good habits. staying functional needs maintenance of focus and consciousness which is what you really lack, also have some activities that takes courage to do so, for instance cold shower, its a binary option either you do it or you wont and that will raise your ability to execute your plans
  19. Life is a game play to win do what is right not what is easy