Tyler Robinson

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  3. Posted

    24 minutes ago, Eyowey said:

    It's only weird if you try to get attention from women who don't want you. You can tell by their body language if they want you or not. 

    Sometimes women aren't good at giving off the right signals, just saying. We don't like to walk around with angry faces. And often a polite gesture like a smile is  made a big deal of and taken as a positive signal. 

    Being a woman is doubly hard when men expect to be spoonfed on every emotion and gesture. 

    You're sometimes expected to read a woman's mind. How do you achieve that? Talk a lot with women and you'll get into tune with how they feel just generally. Most men don't even do 3% of this. How do you achieve this? By befriending a woman who wants to be your friend. I can give you hundreds of examples where men plainly reject women who want to be friends because they don't see any sexual value in it. Yes of course, there's no sexual value, but that's not the goal. The goal should be mental value. By being around women who are just friends, you get to learn the female psyche better, you get to observe female mental patterns of behavior, you understand why they do what they do, then it's much easier to read a woman's mind. Otherwise you stay clueless to what a woman might be thinking and always do the opposite of what she wants. 

    The whole idea of relationships is not using women to gain something because they aren't coin slots in a vendor machine that produces Pokémon cards. The whole idea is intimacy and being in tune with her body, mind and spirit and flowing with her, through her and let her do the same to you.

    Most men don't want to put a dime of effort into understanding women, they sit and complain incessantly about how women are so difficult to understand and then mess up their relationships. These men expect sex to magically land from the skies, they want sex to be served on a silver platter. Oh yea really. 

    Most men don't understand that a woman needs a proper game, and I don't mean manipulation and playing mind games, I mean proper seduction, if you fail to seduce a woman, you can't get her, if you want to learn seduction then see what turns a woman on and note it down, to learn what turns on, be friends with a lot of women, watch how they talk, get to know their preferences in men, watch them talk about their boyfriends. 

    I'll say frankly that most men hardly ever bother to understand women but want women falling into their arms like some Hollywood movie.

    Winning women needs hard work and creativity and dedication to the female psyche. 

    It needs learning the art of seduction. A woman is not going to be attracted to you even if you are a high quality male who doesn't know the art of seduction. 

    The bad guys who are manipulative learn this art quickly and that's why they win

    Also if you feel it's intimidating to seduce a woman, that's  because you have catastrophized the idea of seduction to be something magnanimously difficult and impossible courtesy your insecurities that lie to you and warp your sense of judgement. Seduction is quite simple if you learn how to connect with the woman you want and develop deep listening skills, you'll automatically read her body language and know the right thing to say. 

     

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    1 minute ago, the_void_of_chaos said:

    @Tyler Robinson @Gesundheit2  You can use Upwork for hiring freelance developer. Hire a professional with good rating, submit the money in escrow...if you don't like the work, tell the dev to fix it and if you still don't like it, your money is safe, you don't have to pay. Also, there are no hidden charges when submitting an app to Google Play Store or Apple App Store. The developer just needs an account (which obviously he has), complete the app, show it to you and if you like it then you can approve for submitting for review. The app store will review the app. When it's approved (note that app store will know if the app has any hidden features or virus in which case it won't get approved), you can create your own developer account which costs ~25 dollars for android and 100 dollars for iOS and transfer the app to your account. The source code will also be included so if in future your app needs some changes, you can hire the same person or some other freelancer. Also, freelancers don't cost much...if you want to hire a professional freelancer, it will cost ~500-1000 dollars. Also, there are agencies you can work with...high reputation, senior developers. But given the site's UI, I don't think it will be a great idea to build an app for it.

    Well that's good. I'll leave it to Leo and watch his opinions on this. 

  7. Posted

    At the end of the day, there's charity, there's hope and there's empathy that bonds humanity together. 

    I wish to work for abused women in the future, for psychologically abused people who are confused like me, for women who have been victims of domestic violence. 

    My own road to my sexuality hasn't been easy and filled with challenges and confusing perspectives and issues.. 

     

    I want to be able to guide other women who deal with similar issues with their sexuality and find it difficult to open up due to taboo and social shaming. 

    Maybe I can be a pioneer for such women for their sexual revolution. 

    Free women from the judgement around sex, that's a long term goal in my mind. 

    Free women. 

     

  8. Posted · Edited by Tyler Robinson

    33 minutes ago, KH2 said:

    @Tyler Robinson

     @Tyler Robinson 

    Monthly subscribtion app with Discord-like chat? I'd take that

    Another coffee please

    You might have to buy your own coffee, because the day you host a monthly subscription for this forum  is the day you lose all the freeloaders who spend their time here which is the majority populace. xD

    Half the population is broke or unemployed or looking how to make some money. You think that they would pay monthly for an app when they don't even regularly visit this place. 

    Yea lol, your strategy is a sure shot way of losing half the forum members. 

    The other half will be lost to splintering off by random Discord groups. 

    Kudos to an empty forum. xD enjoy your coffee. Lol. 

    Your idea is like charging homeless people to sleep on the streets. Brilliant!!!

    I think the best thing I love about this website is that it's for free. Leo couldn't have been more charitable. 

    On the flip side if you assume that you are going to improve the quality of this place by charging people, you also have to be ready to morally compromise with the fact that you will lose a lot of people who are a part of this community and who genuinely need help. You might have an improved more competitive forum I agree, but you're also causing a subset of people to lose the benefits of free help, if that sits right with you. There's very few stuff out there which is both good as well as free and you have no idea how valuable it is for people who desperately need help, maybe they need a place like this more than you do. 

    There are loads of wonderful paid places on the internet that you can pay for and explore. 

    Maybe leave a few places free for the homeless and the destitute. 

    I don't know if Leo's decision was out of charity or business or both, but either way it is hugely beneficial. 

     

  9. Posted

    1 minute ago, something_else said:

    What's creepy is going out specifically to approach women at a grocery store.

    But a lot of immature men actually do hang out in malls, grocery stores and parks to do just that. They call it day game. They literally ask out a woman and when she walks by, they approach the next woman. It can be annoying and so shallow. Having a man bump into you accidentally at a grocery store is not a bad thing at all, it can in fact be a nice experience once in a while to have a gentleman help you with groceries and then connect with you. But the random immature guys who bug every girl at the store, they can actually make the whole experience unpleasant and one can feel invaded. These men also tend to have a pestering mentality and they act very entitled and get angry when a woman ignores them. 

    I would recommend that men should have the basic social calibration to approach a woman hanging out at a club. That's far better and less hostile/creepy. Everything has it's own place and time. For the reasons stated above, day game is kinda shallow and creepy most of the time. 

    Just my 2 cents. 

     

  10. Posted

    @Gesundheit2 I'm not sure if the app can be made available for free. I'm not sure about the hidden costs like hosting the app on Google Play Store or Apple Store. I've seen most apps being pay-for-play or pay-for-subscription so I'm assuming they are some hidden costs apart from just developing an app. 

    Making an app is more like a business unless you are providing the app for free. For example my Twitter app is totally free. But that's because the costs of the app are born by a large corporation like Twitter, they won't need subscription fees to cover up costs. Most small businesses need a paid subscriptions. 

    Leo is providing this forum for free which is already a great great privilege to all the people here. It's a service not a business. I guess if he has to make an app, he might have to charge people for a subscription. It can surely become a lucrative business, this is something that Sam Harris did with his meditation app, but that's because Sam Harris wants to run a business off meditation and spirituality. Leo is not looking for making money off the advice he gives here which is just the greatest free gift ever. 

    I don't know if the app can be completely free. Maybe not. I'm just happy that this forum is totally free of cost to me. 

     

  11. Posted · Edited by Tyler Robinson

    18 minutes ago, Gesundheit2 said:

    Mainly the company that I work for. And/or if I'm on some freelancing site, the admins of the site.

    Random devs are risky. There are no guarantees.

    My whole point is that you can hire a company to do the job instead of a person. Having a single person contract like the "cup of coffee" developers is very risky. Through a company, it's much safer although quite expensive. The company bears all the risk. If I make a contract with a person, even though he is affiliated with a company, I'm taking a risk if he is working independent of the company at low charge, since the company is not involved in the contract, they are absolved of any responsibility. Hiring companies to do your job is always expensive versus hiring a single person no matter the level of expertise. I've never known companies that charge low fees for app development and maintenance, so far not in my personal experience dealing with the app market. 

    If there's a company that charges low, I would still be skeptical of their overall reputation because maintaining a company of software developers is not a cheap thing at all, most high quality highly trustworthy software developers ask a high pay, so to maintain a consistent supply of these developers has to be a pricey thing. Most software developers monkey jump from one company to another to get higher pays, so it's extremely hard to keep them unless it's a high end biz company. Which basically means high costs to the client. 

    It's a lose lose situation either way. 

     

  12. Posted · Edited by Tyler Robinson

    19 minutes ago, Gesundheit2 said:

    I'm a professional web developer

    Whats the guarantee of your profession? If I want to hire your service, why should I trust you? Anyway I can know if I can trust you other than actually risking my trust? 

    I've been approached by many devs who talked about hacking for a minimum fee and I said a big NO. 

    Leo works on high integrity. The last thing he would want is someone who breaks the very foundation of his organization - integrity. 

     

  15. Posted · Edited by Tyler Robinson

    Things to avoid. 

    • Porn 
    • Weed
    • Guns 
    • . Keeping python as a pet 
    • Gossip
    • Discord cults 
    • . Junk food 
    • Unsaturated fats 
    • Chiropractor 
    • Sleeping with many people 
    • Andrew Tate 
    • TikTok

     

     

  16. Posted

    5 minutes ago, Gesundheit2 said:

    @Tyler Robinson It wouldn't need maintenance beyond the initial release and developer support. It's just a simple forum app, not a super complex corporate app like Facebook or something.

    That's just a joke. Every app needs a lot of maintenance. Even simple apps. And like I said there's an ethics issue. Why and how would you trust an app developer? How do you know they won't break privacy guidelines for their own personal purposes? 

    App developers are notoriously known for scamming people/clients. 

     

  17. Posted · Edited by Tyler Robinson

    10 minutes ago, Gesundheit2 said:

    That would mainly depend on the developers who would make the app. If they know what they're doing, there wouldn't be that many bugs, and if there would be any bugs, they would be able to fix them easily.

    The website slowness is probably a server issue which would have the same effect on a mobile or a desktop app. The server probably needs an upgrade or something, and this will probably cost Leo some more money on a monthly rate.

    Actually maintaining an app also needs money. No? Research on that next time. 

    Maintaining an app is not cheap at all. Developers demand a ton of money for that. 

    And now please don't suggest some member should do this for free. Generally freelance app work is shitty in quality. 

    Plus this website is being maintained by Invision  community that maintains ethical guidelines and standards necessary for forum that I won't talk about in much detail because it goes against confidential privacy rules. 

    The same cannot be said of some low pay  grade random app developers. 

    Many apps have actually gone to shit due to breaking App framework guidelines. Look at the complaints Google play store receives - a million. 

     

    The surest way of totally destroying this website is to make an app. You have little idea. 

    Leo already knows about the app market - he knows its prone to unethical business, that's why he doesn't do it. 

     

     

  20. Posted · Edited by Tyler Robinson

     

    On the Subject of Simping. 

     

    I'm a female who is ready to connect with the divine masculine but the divine masculine is always slapping me in the face. 

    It's sad. I want to feel heard and accepted by a man. 

    I wish there was less simping and more understanding and caring. 

    Men easily flirt with women and want their sexual attention. They have no problem doing that. 

    But whenever a woman speaks, they just ignore it. 

    When a man simps me, it doesn't make me feel special and this is what a lot of men don't understand. They automatically assume that simping should make a woman feel special. Rather it's the opposite. Simping only makes her feel more objectified as though she is some doll that you should simply look at but this doll shouldn't say anything. Can you understand how that must feel? 

    Imagine that you are a man doll. A woman kisses you, rubs your body. But she puts a duct tape over your mouth. Now you want water and you can't ask for it because you are tied up. And the woman keeps kissing you, you might enjoy her touch for a while but after some time you'll be tired of this nonsense. You'll feel suffocated, smothered or stifled 

    This is how women feel when they are treated like arm candy. When you simp me. When you say you like me. I just become an object for you. Sure being liked is not a bad idea at all. But it's like standing there and posing for cameras. Sure everyone praising feels like a nice boost. But what happens if I'm feeling sudden pain in my tummy, what if the camera flash is hurting my eyes and I'm feeling intense pain and suffering. And none of the photographers are listening. Nobody is helping me. Nobody is doing anything. Everyone is simply continuing to click pictures of me like nothing happened. 

    Do you realize how a person feels in such a situation? Like nobody gives a damn if they are suffering. 

    That's exactly how a woman feels when you simp her, unless she is basking in the attention. Some women are like that and I'm aware that some women just feel good when they get attention. 

    But every woman is not like that. You have to be perceptive enough to know the difference between women. Every woman is not a stereotype. 

    When you simp a woman who is not looking for your attention, she can feel objectified, she can feel angry and smothered, not happy. It will apparently have a negative impact on her. Instead of feeling good, she comes out feeling ignored or pitied, not respected. 

    Respect comes from feeling heard, understood, addressed, feeling harmony, intimacy and the joy of friendship and connection. 

    If you don't want to genuinely connect with a woman as her true friend, then don't even simp her. Because you aren't doing any favor to her, you are just adding to her misery, you aren't empowering her. 

    So if she doesn't respond positively to your incessant simping, then you know why. 

    Deep down she feels miserable that you give her nothing but vacuous shallow empty attention. It's the misogyny of the deepest form and you don't realize it because you don't feel like a woman. 

     

  21. Posted

    It's so difficult to accept that men are men. 

    And that men will always be men and never listen to women.. It's such an ego thing for men.

    They are so butthurt when it comes to listening to women. 

    But they readily listen to other men, don't they? 

    Fucking bro culture. 

    I feel aggravated. I just don't know what to do. 

    I want men to listen to women and not act so tardy and stubborn. 

     

  24. Posted

    20 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    If you guys wanna start a mega-thread of bad trip reports, I don't mind.

    If you do it, it's much more effective. If I or any other regular member does it, then it gets swarmed by personal attacks and it becomes a shit show or it is rendered pointless. 

    So I expect you to do it, that way it's taken more seriously and it won't devolve into some nonsense. 

    Thanks.