Tendani

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  1. That is a tough situation you are in, but you can overcome it. I know is hard to deal with it , because it seems like negative thoughts are stronger than positive thoughts, There is method that i use my self to overcome negative thoughts, & you mentioned that you sometimes catch yourself thinking about bad stuff. Now you are aware of that, is a good sign that you want a change. What you have to do is SERIOUSLY look around you, & notice what is influencing you to think the way that you think, you could be influenced by your Past(what happened to you before) or by your surrounding area (who do you hang around with and who do you look up to) Try to be aware of what do you watch on TV and who do you listen to. To get rid of the negative thoughts, you have to think of the positive things, i know is easier said than done, but just do it. Think of what you want the most, be like a chilled again, imagine good stuff. The more you focus on good, the bad stuff, slowly start to disappear. If You Hate to be Poor, then don't even think about it, Think About been Rich
  2. It also depends on your surroundings, what type of environment you grow up in, who do you getting advice from as a teenager. Nowadays a teenager can equip her/him self with a life changing personal development materials from as young as age 14, & if you started to develop your self early in life, when get to be 25 you will be a bullet prof, you could take on any challenge that comes to your way. Now we the internet, all the information that we want is on our finger tips, Lets come together and show our young stars the benefits of starting to take care of the biz early on. At some point i do regret that i didn't start to get busy before i was 26. But hey, i am doing my best now to pay for those years that i have wasted, as a young star. Real Results you Can Start to See them, As Early as You Want!
  3. I think your Goals are not align with your purpose, you should ask yourself why do you do what you do? The reason why you want to do what you want to do it must be bigger than, what you will loose by not doing it. You can not be where you want to be, if you always keep on quitting stuff. Find your the reason Why, you wanna do what you wanna do.
  4. First thing first, you have Guts, i like that you want to build the life of your own, at your terms. I would suggest that you continue to focus on food delivery for now, because you need to pay for rent and other bills. but must always keep in mind that delivering food is transitional job, is gonna help you to take you from where you are to your main Goal. As you said is gonna be like 4hrs a day, you will have enough time to build what ever you want to build, after delivering those food. To create passive income is a good way to create financial freedom, there are lots of opportunities out ther , all you have to do is to decide which way you wanna follow. Once you decide that, nothing is going to stop you from getting to your goals, the other quickest way to get to where you want is to model somebody. Find someone who is already doing what you want to do and learn from them. Some times it might take time to find what really works for you, but don't stop just keep trying, till you find it. The more you try, the quicker you will find what works for you.
  5. Most people have big goals and big dreams, but sometimes it seems to be out reach for majority of people. One would have the ambition to achieve their goals, but they don't know how to make it happen or manifest that dream, Is like what ever they are doing is not enough to attain that dream to become reality, It does not matter where you are and what you have, All you have to do is, to start where you are with what you have. The powerful ting is to get started, even if you have no idea how you are going to start, just began no matter how small the step, But you must be willing to do what ever it takes to reach that goal, Sometimes you will have to do these transition jobs to get to where you want to, Sell T-shirts if you have to, but don't let that take the focus away from your Dream. You only gonna be happy if you do what you love, so stay focused at you dream If you keep your eyes on the prize long enough, and you are willing to do what ever it takes to achieve it, all things are possible. Willingness to work hard for that one thing in your mind, no matter how hard it is, you gonna make it.
  6. Don't let the day go by and you only find out that you did not learn single new thing that you didn't know yesterday, Make it your goal to learn new stuff each day, and don't be afraid to fail because if you scared to fail you won't learn a thing. we make a mistake and we learn from them. Learning new thing each day can change your whole life, after a year you could be a different person with a value at your job, at your company and at your life in general. If You'll Learn Every Day You'll Grow
  7. First you need to ask as many people as you can, ask them what is their biggest fear in life and why they are scared. every body has fear, we all scared of something, but what do you do at that point when you feel that you are scared to do something. every time i m scared of doing something, i know that i have to do it, i just go on & just do it. FEAR IS NOT REAL, DON'T LET IT STOP YOU.
  8. Now you are going to stop acting like a kid , because you noticed that you act like one, but the is nothing wrong putting some playful some times in your life, you don't have to be always serious in life, is ok to make jokes sometimes but you must check the time and the place when doing that, Every time when you talk to someone, read their personality first, and then you'll know what to say to them. Play but think of what you say first, IS THIS GONNA BUILD A STRONG RELATIONSHIP IF I SAY IT OR NOT ?
  9. Like they say, the harder i work the luckier i get. The is no other way around hard work, you have to dedicate your self 100% on what you do so you will get the results that you want. Most people dont want to work hard they just want the good results, which is impossible if you are not working hard. I don't know any successful person who does not work hard, yes they work SMART & Hard at the same time that's why they get good results out of what they are doing. if you put in more hours of work than most of people, you will get more than most of people get. If you have a talent and you do not dedicate your self to be better than you are, you are not gonna make it to the top. At the other hand some one who has no talent and is working very very hard to be the best on whatever their doing, this person is going to win and labeled as Lucky and Talented in the eyes of the public. If you want to be that guy or that lady who is always on top of their game, you must work hard more than every body else. If you put more hours on your work, study, practice or anything else worth doing , you will be ahead of 99% people in that industry. Achieving Greatness is just all about hard work
  10. That only become the truth if you start believing in it, the society made people to believe that your name will be shape your behavior. Your personality comes from within, not from the out side but if you believe you name will shape life, that is not going to happen. you chose how you want to lead your life, not your name does that. The name is just something that we have to use to call things.All am saying is the name has nothing to do with our personality.
  11. That feeling you have, it happens to lot of people, what i can say is follow your guts not your mind, because your mind it will trick you and try to convince you to follow the shining objects and not show you whats feel right or connected to you. And if you feel that you wanna do affiliate marketing, go ahead and do it and pay close attention to all the details, learn about the business and maybe you could find your true calling while doing that, because on been affiliate you can chose which niche is good for you. Sometimes it takes time to find out who you really are and what your purpose is. You dont have to look far to find yourself, and to find your purpose and gift , you are a Gold mine yourself. It may not happen tomorrow but don't stop until you find it.