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Im curious to know if the video is really that powerful to shake my head as Leo says in the intro. I was about to watch it, but took leo seriously since Im trying to improve my social life, money, physique and personality.

@Nahm Thats what I thought. I dont remember exactly how Jed Mackenna said in one part, as after his enligthenment he was kinda upset. Like it was boring and it was not so different as he thought compared to his previous zombie mode life. Yes suffering was gone, but he kinda liked the zombie way too. He said it in a way kinda regretting permanent enligthenment. Which also makes me wonder why he went anonymus. Also, no enligthened being will ever sell enlightenment as something he regret, that would be dumb even if he did. Yet, I have caught several spiritual teachers trying to lie and manipulate to trick others. For example, Shunyamurti and Osho. Im not denying their love, light, truth, genius, etc. Actually, thats the part that compensates and hides any negative aspect from their followers. After all enligthenment is not for everybody. In the sense not that he cant achieve it. But, that it might bring even bigger problems that might backfire later on due to the world we live in right now. See, if you get enligthened in this time era, you are a pioneer of spirituality basically. You will have a harder time going on in the world and surviving. At least initially, which is the hardest part that sets up everything else. If 50% of the planet was awoken, getting enligthened would be alot easier and convenient to everyone despite their location and life situation. The later generations we have it easy as to not getting lost and alone in the world if they awaken. So yes, the collective plays a crucial role here.

Working in vain because of enviorments influences I cant change by now.

Yes and the site is laggy.

I thought it was going to last at least for a week...

This and the getting laid videos are going to be the most seen on actualized.org

Man, online dating is even harder than going solo. Is just so random. You cant rely on it. You gotta treat it like an extra candy someone just gave you.

@Leo Gura Even though thats true, you are getting to a point with your realizations that your advice wont work on ppl because only you will understand them. It will be you talking to you in youtube alone, as it always was. Back to the source. And then back to self development videos. Lmao.

So that she could persuade them to do hard work for them I guess. There has to be a balance of energies like everything in nature. A man cant be passive and masculine at the same time, same for women. Its actually nice when you think about it. Its a team work. I work hard during the day, then I bring you the survival value, I get pussy (procreation value from you), we are both happy and keep going with our survival.

Watch closely to Ralph face body language as he subtly reacts when being called on his own BS. Not to judge the guy as I actually like his vibe. But see how delusional one can get even in Truth/Spirituality.

Just rewatched this gem which I didnt got to appreaciate at that time as now. It would be cool to see more memes or even a parody series of some show or anime that interconnects all the latest material from actualized.org. It would definitely keep the audience hooked and motivated.

I rarely get nervous with women, except for the perfect personality matches with mine. Specially if they are pretty hot too. Such personality type is the free girl, open minded, sexual and Intense, party type happy girl. (Sagittarius zodiac). It has occured 3 times with three different women of this kind, where all i have to do is just be. Its like they want me to come to them without trying anything because its so perfect, but my mind simply goes really serious. I dont do anything, but my mind automatically gets serious and somewhat tryhard. And tries to impress, etc. The chemistry and attraction is so strong I sometimes have to pretend am not into them in order to not make social situations awkward cuz people can feel the strong chemistry through subtle subcomunications. This happened various times with a milf friend of an aunt that is 36 in a family situation. She is so free and doesnt hide anything, yet I felt strange being so open of our chemistry just through looks in such settings. The same happened with this type of girl that is the bestie of my sister. These girls dont hide the fact that they like me, but if I recíprocate the same way then it may look weird and ppl around us will start talking sht which I dont have energy to deal with. I have not escalated because of shyness since I dont want ppl around us to notice anything. This creates confused feelings in me when am around them and they also get kinda confused since they feel I get somewhat serious for no reason. But, how can i stop getting serious? I dont know what to do, Its completely automatic. What I fear is fckng up these perfect matches, since they are close people of relatives. Have you dealt with something similar?

@Nahm Makes sense. I noticed I had a belief triggered around them. The thing is, it is so unconscious and automatic is hard to even pick on my awareness. Its like i sometimes get to see them hidden with an invisible coat, so it feels like a its actually me. Its hard to make the distinction so fast.

It did not gave me the first %, which lowered my results, lol. I think it glitched in order to hide I might be a psycho

Does Sadhguru & Frank Yang look like pussies to you? I mean, they dont look macho, but they look aceptable to society. If your enviornment, like mine is judgemental on feminine energy, then compensate your character. Wear masculine clothes and colours, use larger clothes, grow a big beard, use masculine accesories/ symbols, get buff, get tattoos, get a masculine haircut, use masculine sunglasses, get masculine associations to you. Drop feminine self-images. Drop all self image if you can, until you can be conscious alone. If you see yourself as weak or feminine, others can perceive that self image of yours through intuition. Try to cut all feminine associations to you. Like some type of music or things you like. (dont leave any of these feminine stuff you might enjoy, just dont share it with average people). Have a thin, but loving masculine self image. By all these, you compensate your image to society into fitting in to their eyes. It will be the perfect mix of sweet energy and masculine look. Still, not all will like you and thats perfect. Too much meditation will make you uncapable and too passive for the world. Save meditation for private space alone. The thing with meditation is that people want to take advantage of you when they feel that innocent energy. Approach primarily through presence and concentration/contemplation. Here you can be still and active. And dont forget to hiss and fight if you need too even in the path. Then you can burn that karma again. But dont let things pile up before its too late.

Just to let you know, both are equally important. Structure: The strength of your mind's frame work (personality strength). Which also translates as confidence. Content: the type of your personality. Likes and dislikes. Your style, energy, nationality and anything else you can add into it. Basically concepts and meanings. What is crucial about content in socializing more than your own content, is being good at reading the social content for contextualizing the situation. I struggled with Structure (confidence in the past) and thought the extreme of only one being particularly important. Well, I actually did quite well without having that much confidence to be honest. Now that I have more pride, many girls dont like that, but at the same time they do on a sexual level. Having too much pride creates a frame of somewhat more war between you and the other. I would say in my experience that Structure is even more important in person and mid/long term. The reason confidence is necessary is not just because its attractive. Its attractive because it is useful. It makes you capable of doing many things for survival. Anyone trying to get good with people. I would say is better not to focus on the content first. Focus on your structure strength (confidence) by accumulation of experiences, habits and knowledge to build a solid ground in your mind. After finushing the path of building confidence, you dont have to think about it anymore, nor even try. The confidence is automatical and unconscious. After confidence is built, you can place your awareness on content inside social situations. Then after getting that solid Structure, you can focus on creating a strategy, changing your style, being positive, learning how to pickup, neg, shooting interesting openers, playing games, seduction, etc. Leave all that for later, you will waste time doing it all together. Content. Now about content. It is just as crucial as the Structure, specially at the pickup and beginning phase. Because it is what intrigues the girl for getting to know you. In person, Structure has more value. Vía facetime both have the same amount of value. But via text content has somewhat more value at first. So, the only way to get a girl out vía text is if practically if you have a great ig profile. Even thou you might waste alot of time. The way ig works is the following. First, having no expectation of if you will get the girl out. When doing a pickup, you cant even be thinking is pickup what you are doing. You just approach. Follow her, then see if she follows back. If she does, now you can text her in order to appear at the top of her dm. But before texting her, see if you really like her. If thats the case, like at least 4 pics from her in order for her to notice you in her notificacions and check your ig while knowing that you are interested in her. The reason for going for ig instead of dating sites is because you can comply actions without having to talk. Like following and liking her pics. After this, you can send one post you like from her vía dm and comment something you like or unique ("This is a vibe"). If she respond, you then answer vía voice note to create more attraction and comfort. All of this has to be done from a source of simply wanting to do it. You cant feel like she should do anything (expect to go out with her). Through this, you can continue uploading stories for her to like you more and you commenting on hers. The only thing that will create the possiblity of both of you going out is if you did all these without hurry/expectation and from an attractive/we frame. She has to feel in the way you talk that you feel attractive for her to also get attratcted unconsciously. You literally have to imagine/visualize a new frame, practice being into it and then snipe it out onto her. Only after sufficient attraction and comfort, she will proceed to go out. It will be obvious. Other wise you are just gambling into loosing. Social media gives you more control but takes alot longer. In person, everything is at ligthing speed but just as fast you can fail too. All of this is easier said than done and takes patience, non-compulsiveness/relaxation/self completeness/non expectation/inner space. Language can be tricky in dating too, specially when learning from others. There is stuff that only you will have to figure out.

Give it a try and just quit if you dont, lol. You might encounter an old millionaire who gives you extra money cuz he doesnt even know what to do with it anymore. Or an old millionaire lady (I had a friend that bought his first car thanks to a lady vía chat, to whom he gave videoservices as a side Hustle) . Your self esteem will go up, since people will worship you. Basically, it depends on how you see it. If you just do it for fun it can be a positive experience psychologically. Dont quit your job and test it out first. Dont forget being a live sexcam model too Now that you put the topic, I should consider trying this sometime too, lol.

@Javfly33 Approach people in stores always first to warm up and get you in the mood. There you build momentum and confidence to get in a state to approach strangers. You have to be careful with approaching. It can fck up your self esteem if you do it wrong and blindly. Whatever you feel, the other will feel. Is not normal to force yourself into approaching if its not common so it will feel weird at first. Thats why you have to build up slowly that perception in your psyche. Only at first you might need courage. Then approaching strangers should be something so normal you dont even think about it. Also, you get anxious because you are expecting something from the other. Which means you are lackung security (confidence) in some area of your thought process. Remember that if you approach her with confidence you dont even have to talk much. Your personality, aura, physique, style, tonality, body language, eye contact, timing, state, etc. Is being communicated. All of that is doing more work subconaciously than what you say. But to realize this, you might need to see it for yourself first. Specially if you dont have a strong sense of identity as your subconscious structure does the work automatically for you. See, when you approach a girl thinking stuff and calculating it, you are putting your awareness inside your head instead of just the outside to read the social situation and her. Your subconscious is the one that should do the calculations to help you, not you consciously planning. Learn how to work with your subconscious.

It seems these things are becoming more common. Ofcourse I have heard this happened on occassions, but it surprises me as before coming to the forum I saw a vid of a big black guy who grabbed a girl's ass who was walking down the street while using her phone. The girl got mad and started punching the guy and the 7 foot tall black guy (NBA type) started punching her and just kept walking. So, I would not recommend you to punch these guys. You dont know how they might react. Just because you are a girl doesnt mean they wont smack you out. They might have a gun or knife. They can use the excuse that they just went to ask you for something and you started hitting them first, so they defended themselves. What you should do is get really angry at them to get them off you first. Have a knife, pepper spray, taser or even a gun. But just after whatever their act and getting angry, tell them you are calling the cops. "That you have a cop friend". And you should really try to have one for emergencies. If after that he comes at you again, try to run and scream so people around can hear and make him go away. Only prepare to attack if he gets close to you and you are about to get trapped. What makes you mad is the fact that you felt impotent and surprised. Welcome to the world, where abuse is more normal than you think.

Being completely undisturbed inwardly from morning till sleep.

Consider from which culture are the scorts you are picking. I find most euro and american scorts cold and with lack of empathy. If you can, try brazilian, colombian and venezuelan scort models. They are very friendly, open minded and sweet, which I love. I dont have problem attracting girls, yet I love scorts. I dont know why people see it as bad, I see it as something very positive. Maybe thats just me because im very sexual and really dont care being looked at as a fckboy or whatever. Fckng love good whores. You know how good it is to have a couple of scort friends and when you get tired of fckng with one, just switch to the other for some time? I know it sounds a bit rude, but hey im honest with my self and girls. What I want from women most is simply fun and fucking. And I even care for scort girls, is just that you save so much time, energy and drama, while getting exactly what you ask for . You who have to make it fun. I have not met an ordinary girl with the sexuality (experience) of a scort yet. Take out this idea of making sex something sacred. Is just animalistic desire. You give too much meaning to it, lol. You better say, what you want is making holy love not sex... Find one who suits you and become her friend. Dont generalize so quick. Telling you fckng a scort is bad is just as close as telling you money is Evil. You dont know what you are missing out .

@Molaric You will know when you are progressing without doubt. If you still dont know if you are getting better is because you are not getting better, but still has to keep going/repeating. Only force yourself to be in such enviornments like is the gym. Its a social gym. After you are there, you will work out as you wish but definitively will. Built a strong sense of identity by accumulation on knowledge, habits and karma. Thats how core confidence/strong personality is Built. Only from that ground you will feel confident in your own persona to make your personal decisions and not fall onto others frames and bs.

When you put expectations on yourself like becoming better at social skills and women, you pressure yourself and almost always fck up. The trick is that the self improvement has to occur almost unconsciously without intention of wanting to improve. The reason one improve is because of survival. If you truly were to see yourself almost dying, you would take action without much thought. Alot of courage and action will rise naturally. If you place yourself in an enviornment, without looking to get better at social skills, you will improve through time automatically. Either a job or going to the same club like its your home. You just stay there in social enviornments without looking for results and expectations. You will then truly improve alot faster. Then only after you have built some decent confidence and skill, you may intentionally start to aim with some expectation. Still, I dont use expectations. I let the enviornment make me improve.

I have seen how having too much knowledge in my head and not being distanced to it is already causing problems in my life. Including some mental unstablity. Not to even mention the karma problems I have got into cuz of it. Has something similar occured to someone here? Any tips to handle this properly?

Mindblowing guide to full enligthenment.