Ajax

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  1. A good relationship is very intimate and personal. You need to feel your partner. You will not get the same experience behind a computer screen.
  2. It's your game, whenever you feel ready. I am sure you want to be the best for your family. Keep working on yourself and you will know when you are ready. It is not about age it is about development. My father was 54 when he had me and he was perfect!
  3. We need to put less money in education. Not by budget cuts but by being efficient. With Cloud storage and technology, it would be rather cost effective to standardize education and create interactive computer modules. The core classes should be in developing critical learning skill. Like reading, writing and arithmetic, and other learning related skills. Eventually, when these skills are learned and even mastered, each student can start taking modules to explore their interests and have a path to explore their fields of interest. Courses that do not include technology should be socially centered like small group critical thinking, debates, short speeches and talks and having a variety of non-mainstream activities that are social and noncompetitive, such as LARPs. An efficient standardized education system, that maximizes learning and thinking skills will reduce to eliminate privileged education by socio economic status and facilitate a more inclusive school system. Poor kids will get the same education as rich kids. It will reduce costs due to a more balanced distribution of government funds. Less costs for all the textbooks and school supplies and many other costs due to efficient spending. As for putting income into neighborhoods... I don't know I haven't put much thought into that. What are your own personal thoughts on the subject, not the ones of your political party? Many of us are SD yellow and up. I think it is time that we start relying on and cultivating and promoting our own ideas. It is time.
  4. Why do people confuse God with a Ruler? *beware of deconstruction*
  5. Hush you! Trying to get the boy laid! lol True, but you have to think about jobs, rent, life purpose, financial security, more bills, transportation, making the time to go to clubs. After college, you have to do many more adult things, which makes it harder right? Most of the things you have to worry about in college is getting good grades...
  6. It's great to feel special there is nothing wrong with it just make everyone around you feel just as special because they are.
  7. People like fapping more than fooding (unless starving). You are just asking to fail. You do not need to screw around with your integrity (which I define actually following through with your commitments). I rather have less "sexual energy" than less willpower because I failed to be impeccable with my word.
  8. Nice, I like it. I would add methods of collaboration including the effects on production, industry, work hierarchy, social hierarchy, fair distribution of profits... I don't know quite how to include it but the observance of practices and policies that maintain the best possible opportunities for all, including the methods to ensuring the prosperity of our planet's support system (sustainability, eco-management/regulation, etc...) It relates to the administration, prioritization, policies, research and identification and strategic handling of problems related to the community at a macro/micro or individual level. Well, when your (half-black. 1/4th white) 9-year-old daughter comes home from crying because kids keep calling her a racist because she would rather be alone and read in silence because kids are always berating her for being weird (plus she just likes to read) ... You kind of get disillusioned about all this racism talk. In fact, if it is not a specific incident (like videos of police brutality) ... you start to really question, what the fuck is going on here.... Most of the time (not always), when I look at racism, I see... Bias, narrow-mindedness, suppression, unkindness, hostility and the like that is present. Same old toxic human behaviors that used to be present during the Jim Crow era and decades after... now repackaged into and new label called racism. As for equal opportunities... I can look at the Cesspool of Bullshit written on this forum and almost shit my pants to think what goes through the minds of people who are not on this self-improvement/spiritual path. Can't make the horse drink the water, as the saying goes... But you can sure hear him bitch about how hard it is to get water. I think "systemic racism" is nonsense.
  9. If you are bad at sex, you must worry about your reputation. College women want a bold, fun guy who is not afraid to serve das weißwurst. Many don't want a relationship; they want sex like you. It is part of the college experience. Think about it. College is the best chance you will ever have to get sex. Getting women will get much harder after college. Don't waste your chance with fear and worry.
  10. @Danioover9000 Have you done any studies on drugs/medications and body languages? I am thinking about when you observe people who take antidepressants. His body language is out of ordinary to say the least. Being on some sort of drug will explain it. I found someone with similar expressions to him. There appears to be very little facial reaction. I find it mysterious. I don't know if it is antidepressants or what...
  11. Spam, lots of Spam. It gets so bad; you barely pay attention to your email. The more you read it, the less time you have. With less time- you half ass things more. Eventually, you get used to do things half-assed. It becomes a way of life. That's my half-assed theory anyway
  12. Polyamory and Monogomy do not mix, it is not a match. Move on. If you can't leave your partner, don't be promiscuous. If the urge is too strong, you must leave. Being an Adult is doing what you know you have to do. You have character defects, build your character.
  13. If you were to simplify the phrasing it to... It is what it is. It is god's will. You see, in its most simple form, it is assuming that everything happens is because God decides it to be that way. That has been the Viewpoint of just about every Organized religion. If that is True, why do you wonder why does God allow bad things to happen? You could say it's God's Will. But that is not a good enough answer. How many people Give him the title of Ruler, because he allows things to happen? You see, now you have somebody to blame for bad things. Funny isn't it?
  14. why do you presume a design? Why are putting the idea that it is a design in the first place? It could be a creation of chaos, and you identify it as design? What is this design? Is it a pattern that you recognize in your consciousness, have you recognized it in the entirety, including the complete recognition of chaos? If so? Who rules the chaos? If it is chaos, how can it be ruled? If it is designed, how can it be chaos? Is ruling a design of the chaos? Or only of the design? Could it be that your identification of Ruler is that which you can perceive of design, and the fact that you don't perceive that you are in control. Is your ruling over your perception of design. If so, you would rule that there is a ruler, wouldn't you, because your character has a rule about ruling, right?
  15. What does that have to do with God ruling over you, the world, everything. Just because your consciousness is not controlled by you, you make a leap that God is Ruling with a will that you know is a will because of Psychedelics?
  16. You didn't answer my question directly. I asked you how you know God has a will. How do you know a Will has anything to do with reality, or dream or existence or void with awareness?
  17. What makes you think God has a Will in the first place?
  18. By having the abilities to make a speech. Learning. Practicing. Doing. Haha I will be a sport and get more specific. 1. Know the goal. Which is to have a message and make sure that message is understood as easily as possible. 2. Choose the topic. Find the message. I use the "so what method". The so what method: Discuss the subject with a friend. Have your friend say "so what, why should I care?" Affter everything you say. This forces you to cut the bullshit and get to the point that matters. This can be done as a mind experiment. 3. Find a template that best communicates your message. Fill the template with information relevant to the message. ( I created my own). 4. Refine it as much as possible. Simplify. Make sure the core message is understood, in multiple ways. 5. If you have not developed the ability to do the speech, practice the speech until it's easy to do. I could breakdown, define, simplify, refine and simplify, then beautify this forum post further but my texting finger is getting tired on my phone so I gotta stop... Lol
  19. What if pain was an orgasm by God? At the moment of "death" the orgasm hits it's climax?
  20. If I give you a swift kick in the behind, remember it's in your mind. Always remember there is no suffering. It is just an illusion. It is all love. ?? Suffering is love.
  21. Go ask for a refund. God has a wicked sense of humor. Didn't you know laughter is magical? Why are you being so selfish. God creates everything, let him have some fun. God needs clowns to make him laugh. Be a little understanding, please. Tell me what you were doing on December, 14, 2021 at 16:01:32 what were the clothes you were wearing? What did it smell like? what did the air taste like? I could ask you about hundreds of details about your experience right now. You could answer every question. You are only conscious at this moment and only this moment. Most of the time you are conscious of your eyelids when you are conscious at all, when you are sleeping. How long does consciousness last? That's how long you have to experience your dream, the rest is just an imperfect recording. As for your complaints get in line there are plenty of people of waiting. About 7 billion in fact. No wonder God torments us, we are driving him crazy with complaints.
  22. I think by sorting important from unimportant facts. I articulate by explaining my point as simply as I can. "Genius is making complex ideas simple, not making simple ideas complex.” — Albert Einstein