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I can hear you guys, when your next argument comes up, and she says she’s sick of your shit...and you’re like “you’re sick of my shit?!?!”

@carlowillo yes. Focus on the stomach breathing.

@jse I don’t know anything about that.

@Dodo that’s awesome.

@expeditus it’s a matter of looking at it differently, being mindful the sadness comes from how you’re looking at the situation. State the situation, then state it’s opposite. And yet, sometimes I’m already too deep into a perspective, I just cry and let it out. Sleep. Try again. I have found the toughest things to change my perspective on related to the misunderstanding of love, as in, it was to come from someone else. It’s nice when it does, but attachment that it should can set me up for some major sadness.

@Joseph Maynor it’s just an illusion dude.

@tecladocasio

@tecladocasio maybe you’re becoming aware of what is beating your heart. ime, this is why the heart is so often associated with love. ❤️

@egoless sounds good man. As always thanks for the interesting convo! ❤️

@Afonso why the psychedelics then? ? ?????????

@Matteo great work! Psychedelics, or a few more years. Study qm’s too.

@egoless it’s ok in any case. Lots of people live perfectly happy lives “being just the brain” so to speak. There really is no right or wrong. ❤️ Opinions are for fun.

@egoless self inquiry is to discover what you are, not to prove something. It’s a process of transcending right & wrong, not a method to reinforce being right. The example of listening to someone else is the opposite. What have you seen in your glimpses?

@ExodiaGearCEO yeah. Both. Take care of your family, discover your life purpose. You can always start another company, and you’ll have the experience of having started one already. It’ll all work out fine. Meditate every morning. Slow things down a little. ❤️?

Liberation of self.

@egoless yes! The truth is not on a forum. It’s what you are. You’re right that you should not be looking to the illusion to show you the truth. I would suggest not reinforcing your paradigms with people who are in the same paradigm.

@egoless Ronald McDonald will tell you their hamburgers are good, psychiatrists will tell you their pills are good. The ego will tell you you’re a physical separate person. It’s up to you to do the work to transcend, it has nothing to do with me. I don’t even exist. You are not perceiving perceivers. To you, I am an illusion, and you’re asking about the truth. An illusion can’t tell you the truth, that is the nature of an illusion!

@Joseph Maynor the ego has conflict because it wants to be right. Let go of being right. Values are subjective, everyone can have their own.

@egoless research quantum physics. Everything is nothing. Empty, nothing.

@egoless proof isn’t accepted by paradigms. You have to transcend your assumptions. I would just get off the forum for five minutes and study quantum physics, or do the practices, or anything that helps you, if you are serious about your progress. (Nonfluffy version)

@Hermes Trismegistus perhaps you were not meant to work your life away. I know i wasn’t.

@Sahil Pandit yes!

@Hermes Trismegistus do what you want, what you like. That’s no trouble.

@lmfao write down your “why’s”. About what you want in your life, and hang it on the wall. Nice and big so you can’t miss it. Hang it where you’re normally online. It’ll remind you of your deeper self. It’ll make it so much easier.

@doucey24 nuerotic is usually a term for one’s history of negative thinking. If you’re seeking the truth (nothing wrong with that at all) then you haven’t experienced it yet and don’t know what it is yet (nothing wrong with that either). But, consider, you are fearing something that you don’t know even what it is. The problem isn’t the truth, or it’s potential, the problem is the fear it’s self, which is just the result of lazy thinking. I find writing things on paper, and putting them on the wall - things I want to stay focused on, and be without resistant thoughts about - works very well.