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@Shanmugam It seems to me people are each coming from their relative past. The path forward is the undoing of the relative path up until they decide to pursue spirituality. The meeting them where they’re at, I suck at that, but that’s the way to help. Ester Hicks seems to have mastered this. I think I understand what you’re saying, that it’s either seeking truth, or feeding ego. Ever since experiencing absolute, I just want to help people with suffering. It’s a win win to me...love that is.

@Shanmugam wise words man! ❤️ The paradox of existence and non, resolves all being absolute.

@Max_V That’s awesome! ❤️ It means you’re doing the ‘work’, and seeing through some of your bullshit! Very happy for you Max!

@Shanmugam well said! Some ask through aggression without asking, because the anger convoluted the mind, and I hear the question, and I see you hear the question. Questions are much easier to hear when you are the answer. I know where we are all headed, and while there’s no rush, I love to play any role I can in expediting. We will never run out of love, but we can try, for eachother’s sake. In consideration for only me, yes, absolutely I agree with you, but it’s relative to what is best for the other who is seeking to know the self. It’s fun though. Ultimately, binary or not doesn’t matter. What matters is only what is relative to the person seeking to know their self. If they say the oneness experience is it, and they hold it to be binary, they fool themselves and can waste years or even the rest of their life in ignorance. If one experiences ego death, but not their absolute nature, and hears it is not binary, they are inclined to continue. If someone experiences the void, and holds to binary, the rest of their life can be spent unknowingly justifying the void is the absolute, if they do not hold to binary, or being right, maybe they keep going, and experience the absolute. No shoe fits all. It is not as simple as binary or not, it is relative, until it is absolute.

@Maxx For most, absolute is at their physical death, and that is fine.

There is an ample amount of people, on this forum, who are ‘stuck’ in their assurance that their experience was ‘it’, and are not moving on the path. “It”, is ultimately binary, but that would not be known until one experiences absolute. If you experienced absolute, you would know this.

@StephenK Experience the absolute. Then you can see through this. There is no other way. This is why the word absolute is chosen. Otherwise, we’re just dogs chasing tails.

You’d have to give a little specifics about your job if someone is to help you see the light in it.

@Shin

@Shin I’m the egg. No wait, the chicken. Wait, hold, let me think about it. ......ya, I’m the egg. No, definitly the chicken. Well, maybe I’m the egg. Wait, no, in hindsight, I think I’m the chicken. Yeah. for sure. I’m the egg. ?

This is the intention - your intention - to experience being Alien, you had to employ a mechanism which prevents you from knowing you are God. God is so intelligent, that God can even not know God is God. What the actual fuck man. ?This is how you get to experience the reversal of this. As convincing as it is, that you are Alien, a body & brain, etc - because you are God, there can not be a perfect “convincing”. The illusion is God, and therefore so many breadcrumbs and and tracks had to be covered, hidden. What an adventure the rediscovery is!!! I mean, seriously, can you even believe it!!? The truth of no history covered with the illusion of time, the truth of no birth covered with the illusion of a developing ego, the truth of no life covered in illusion of death, the truth of no death covered by the illusion of alive. The truth of light covered in the illusion of dark. The truth of the “superposition” covered with drywall!!! LOL. The genius of it is just ineffable. ? It can only be explained, with silence - with fucking silence ahhh haha haha Can you even imagine something that can make something which is nothing out of it’s very self which is it’s self and has no idea it is it’s self and appears to nothing as something while it is nothing?!?! Seriously, just seriously, what the actual fuck. That is impossible except that it IS! ?

@Shin Yes!!! Much easier to open the mind than the heart. The mind can be exhausted into collapse, but the heart is an entirely transcendent matter.

The problem with referring to enlightenment as binary is reflected in so many “I’m enlightened now” posts. One can mistake the void, the nothingness, the meaninglessness, the visceral oneness, the “seeing” of relativity, the revealing of the illusion, etc, for “it”. The danger with this binary message is they go no further, because these experiences liberate from the material paradigm, and sure seem to be the pinnacle, never having actually experienced the absolute, the only self, the being, the love that all is. Then, sure, it is binary. But that verbiage is not worth the trouble it gives one on the path. And still, there are no ends nor beginnings, so all is an end and a beginning.

So funny how all this maya is called “matter” and we congeal in it ? , all the while what ‘matters’, is why. ❤️ Science is hilarious!

@Kevin Dunlop Instead of bliss, consider love. Develop your love, do the practices, think of the best for yourself, and those you know. Thoughts of love. You don’t have to help a single person with anything. After contemplating on that for a bit, you’ll probably want to. Things like depression and anxiety can be a little contagious. Careful, and allow some recoup time for yourself.

@Shin You know, it’s always all good. This is just another time, that a little confusion, a little purification is happening. Chill. You’ll be feelin fine soon. This is just some expansion, like a sore muscle that you give some rest to, it’s getting even stronger. And at the same time, I’m callin bullshit ?. Nobody this compassionate should ever feel other than loved, and loving. You are love itself dude, remember? Yeah. Take another look at these perfect compassion bombs, so well dispensed, it’s as if an angel sprinkled a little heaven dust, like Gordon Ramsay with a damn pairing knife, like Leo with that not being it - You’re amazing man. Look at this love....❤️ https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/18306-does-anyone-understand-sudden-depression/ https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/18221-please-help/ And don’t be all, yeah I know, but you didn’t really look at em. Look at em. We exist in the exact same way you exist. This, whatever we’re doing, this is it, and when we move on, that’s awesome too, and we’ll do something next, and it will be awesome too. The joy comes and goes, so does the pain, so does the blank state. Neutral is fine. Maybe get out, go to the grocery store or somethin. I bet, whenever you see someone, you feel what you are, and I bet it’s pretty awesome. We’re all just that kid, talkin like we know stuff. Lol. Don’t get serious on me Shin!

@Patang Well done! i realized then that life doesn't happen to "me", it happens for "me". That’s a deep one man. So happy for you. Thanks for sharing!

On the topic of God knowing Self.... When someone says you are kind, or good looking, or loving, etc, it feels good. When someone says you are an asshole, you’re selfish, etc, it feels ‘bad’. Then of course, with more awareness, when someone says you are kind, or you are an asshole, because we know we are God, we can easily see ether remark is relative to the awareness of the person saying it, not the person hearing it. What’s transpired is an experience of relativity of God to God, and not two people. Because we are God experiencing God directly, and the matter at hand is the awareness of this, wouldn’t the emotions be valid as responses of God pointing to the inaccuracies of our awareness (beliefs), because God is whole, God is love, God is light, so there is no relativity to trigger the question of what God is, to God, in the first place. It’s thinking which inherently has no truth, even for Einstein. Looking to thinking for what God is, is the same as looking at a tree for what God is. It’s obvious / self evident, that as it is, there is God. Other ways to state this - thank God for our ego’s. Ego is the very tool which shows us our self deception, so we can Self realize. Ego is the tool of liberation from suffering. Ego serves us by pointing to the truth, always, like a compass points north. The art is listening to the compass. Awareness on the inner pain is the breadcrumbs to be God again - doing this work while ‘alive’ - OMG!, that’s the best of both ‘worlds’, as good as it gets! Fear, evil, doubt..feel bad. We can listen to the compass, or we can start thinking about West, East, or South. But thinking was the root of it. North, True North, is leaving the thinking, for awareness of God within. Love. It’s always the most powerful, there is no gettting around this. Only the illusion that we are getting around it, by going South, East, or West. In the end, all roads were always going North. Looping back within Self. The illusion of evil is, so God can experience God infinitely, and yet, not at all.

@Mrkvn8 You’re implying sensitivity is like physical sensation. Sensitivity gained from meditation is awareness which helps us decipher our self deception. If you’re experiencing negative reactions from mediatation, it is not coming from the act of sitting there doing nothing, lol. It’s coming from not facin what you have become aware of. Push on through, let it go. Don’t sculpt the world around it to stay miserable.

@MarkusSweden Be mindful of the most intimate ways that maya fools us. The air you’re breathing, is literally not sustaining your ‘life’. It is sustaining the illusion that you are alive. So let go of calling it air that keeps you alive, and start thinking of it as prana which allows the experience you are having. May sound counterintuitive, but try keeping your focus on breathing from your stomach all day. The breathing is the direct connection to the truth in this manor. You are actually breathing God. Also, when the busy work life, etc, triggers you to think the maya is real, realize without that thinking, you would still be perceiving as maya. So when someone says something to you, just notice you have a reaction of going ‘into your head / mind / thinking’, instead, build the habit of staying aware of what you are seeing, hearing, feeling. Keep the awareness going ‘outward’ so to speak, vs going ‘inward’. This simple little practice is like a prisoner in jail scraping the wall a little everyday with a plastic spoon. Not gonna notice the difference right away, but after sometime, you’re free. Another thought for ya, and, not trying to freak you out or anything, I think this might be useful....if you want to experience actual really, any time, just simply close your eyes. That’s it. The illusion is that you can’t see because your eyelid is covering your eye, the truth is, there’s no eyelids bro, no eyes either. The point I’m trying to make is, this can help you to realize / recognize maya for what it is (lol, of course, isn’t).

@egoless Substitute the word God when you would otherwise use the word nothing. It helps us realize our idea of nothing is an idea. We don’t actually have an experience of nothing. This might, at least conceptually, reveal that when we let all beliefs go, and attention to anything “physical”, what remains is “nothing”, but the direct experience of this ‘not-anything-physical-no-thoughts-even-“nothing”, is God, and it is not what we thought “nothing” was.

@MarkusSweden There’s like 10,000 sects of Buddhism as well as Christianity. We could find some material to support just about anything we think of with either source. From my experience, there is just one being, so I supposed you could say it reincarnates, but I don’t see it that way, because the environment in which to reincarnate to is illusionary, and no being actually comes and goes / lives and dies. The being, be’s being’s, and everything the beings are experiencing, is actually the Being, appearing as other-than-the Being. If the being’s all realized they were all the one Being, I don’t think the concept of reincarnation would be around, as it usually implies individual souls and a false inherent purpose grounded in a hierarchy of spirit, but “each” is God already. And yet, at the same time, anything is possible, and there are mindfucks, so, who knows.

@Leo Gura Thank you❣️

Clear self deception anal paradigm. Jk

That is really funny. Pick a new pic for me. Whatever you like.