Nahm

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  1. @PsiloPutty Wow can I relate to this. I tried A LOT. Here’s what I’ve found- He’s you anyways, so it doesn’t matter. Internally speaking, let it go. The name of the game for you, is acceptance. Total complete acceptance. This, like all things, is perfect as it is. Enjoy it as it is. He’s supposed to experience the life he is experiencing exactly how he is experiencing it. Something happened to him that, relative to his current consciousness, was not fair, and that shaped his view of himself and reality. For him, this is perpetuated with repetition; same environment, same people, same thoughts, same emotions - same conditioning. If there is anything you can do to help him, it’s getting him out of his environment for a day, or a few days. Get tickets to a speaker, or go camping for a couple days, something like that. Don’t expect this helps him a mile, expect an inch. Consciousness is a game of inches. (Psychedelics can move us miles, but he’s not ready for that).
  2. @Sukhpaal I’m intrigued. I never had a fear of this, it seemed like a path of liberation and freedom. To me, you’re projecting fear on to something that is beautiful, and rewarding with every step. Can you talk more about the fear?
  3. @grrmz Confusing because it sounds like you’re saying you’re with them, and then also saying not with them yet.....? Use simple scheduling. Block off a couple hours a day for practices, reading up. You mentioned depression....are you eating healthy, exercising? Listening to positive speakers on emotional intelligence? How old are you? Relationships come and go. The right habits rid you of depression, that’s for the duration. That’s more important right now. Do the work on yourself as the priority, so you can enjoy relationships.
  4. @-Rowan There’s explanations in the beginning of each meditation that might be helpful. Also, click the link at the bottom. It’s a pretty decent resource with around 30 meditations.
  5. @calibrate check this out. Short & sweet article. https://www.wearesalt.org/10-benefits-of-breathing-meditation/
  6. @PT89 It’s illusionary man. You’re made of atoms. Kill an atom. See? Nothing.
  7. For those who are more serious about waking up.
  8. @LastThursday Intersting to read. To me it’s one dream. Honestly, you had me at 5-Leo.
  9. @Key Elements Having seen to the bottom of me, now when someone is mad, angry, or frustrated, it is obvious to me that it is with their self, not the subject matter they think they are mad about. Their thinking angers them, wether they know it or not. I’m loving learning deeper nuances to help people get back to good, and be preventive in the future with this. Likewise, any such tension dissipates inherently with simply sitting through it, revealing they never needed to get angry to begin with. I’ve been able to help people in my life with this and I love it. After writing 3 books and then scrapping them, I’m now half way through one that I am in love with. I’ve had ‘meetings’ of awakening with people, starting with what answer they wrote down to the question “what are you”? And walking them through sight, thinking, awareness, and being. It’s been an amazing experience to be part of. Seeing mine and others choices made from past experiences, vs from a place of liberation is amazing. When someone is in a state of doubt I can help them see it’s from identifying in a false manor, and it’s awesome. I’m more charitable in regular typical ways, and ‘spontaneously’ with strangers and it’s very fun. I see sleep, diet, exercise, etc as relativity to the body, and am without emotional identification, so all that stuff is very easy and very enjoyable. I’m fulfilled and happy anywhere, doing anything, with anyone, and also alone. I’m having fun 24/7, the content just changes. I only see the win win in relationships. The manipulative approach vanished. Likewise, it’s very obvious when someone is ‘selling’ something, or pretending it’s to help or give, but it’s in truth of selfish motive. Seeing relativity, no randomness is awesome. The predictability of things and people is facinating. Knowing a life’s experience is contingent upon an individual’s consciousness is mind blowing to me. I’m learning how to communicate that and loving the process and insights as they happen. And OMG, husband, son, brother, friend, and parent wise - ?❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ One moment after another of love and opportunity. Intuition...awesome. Paranormal is normal and relative....reality is not consistent, though it appears to be - relative to individual consciousness, is delicious & I never would have believed this. Living as being what I already am, without separation, without the falsities that gave me so much trouble in my past life is priceless. Just that there is this thing, this guy, which can express this love, in this life, is amazing. And then that I am everyone, everyone is me, and it’s all play, and there is no past or future. Realizing that there is a ‘Santa clause’ is wild. Whole bunch more but this already looks arrogant. What about you? @Key Elements oh...and playing guitar and singing at venue’s, aware I’m alone is the funnest most emotionally awesome thing.
  10. @Samra Hi. I look at my finger, and laugh so hard I have to stop. The impossible miracle that appears as a finger is too much for me. Maybe it’s the Isness of it. That it is so ‘finger’. That’s it’s the whole thing, just there as one finger. I would love to see your impression / artistry of this. I appreciate it. ❤️
  11. @Ether That was an answer. It was very funny. Laughed for weeks. Inappropriately in many settings. Interrupted my ‘life’. Took a while to assimilate and acclimate capacity.
  12. @Ross Wake up earlier. I was with a buddy of mine who didn’t meditate and Deepok Choprah, and Deepok told him “If you don’t have time to meditate once a day, you should be meditating twice a day”. It’s hard to value and prioritize meditation because you’re mentally wrapped up in your life. I get that. The whole world is wrapped up in being the whole world. People aren’t kidding though when they say you’re literally in an illusion, a prison you can’t see or touch. The change in experiencing life can’t be put into words. It all starts with one decision, to meditate first thing, every morning. Not on faith, or out of guilt, not even to better anything - but to see for yourself. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=TAjEKZ1MzFY
  13. @jwkspeck I might be outta place here, not sure, but, I am curious. So much conversation on the forum about reality, illusion, enlightenment, embodiment, Absolute, Truth, “done seeking”, “order and fragmentation”, etc - and someone in our community actually goes balls deep into it and no comments on his/her post? No questions? Not even an ‘atta boy’? A word of relating? Nothing? Someone’s missing something. Is it me? It must be me. @Faceless @Shanmugam @Joseph Maynor @Saumaya @SOUL
  14. @Barna I’m sorry, that comment was just meant in humor. My bad. I should put the humor emoji.
  15. Profile....touch or click the picture and choose a new one. Account settings.....signature....to add some wisdom to you posts. ?
  16. @cle103 If I was the decision maker in charge of hiring at a company making products aligned with your option2, I’d hire you in a heartbeat to perform option1.
  17. @Principium Nexus Very nice! Your illustrations are so clean and ascetically pleasing btw.
  18. @LRyan You’re really kind, thanks. I also think, in this do nothing upon waking, that a dream from the night reveals it is showing you what you’ve been ‘keeping on your mind’, after some time, you won’t dream anymore / living in the embodiment, the mind is not trying to reconcile two states, just resting in one. You’re definitly on the right track, questioning all this, honestly communicating. Very happy for you. I know you’ll be where you want to be, because I see your approach. ❤️
  19. It might be helpful to look at this a different way. The peace, calm, love, bliss that you want to “get back to”, has been there all along. It never leaves and returns. It is all things, it is you. The shiny things and dilemmas of the illusion can so easily trigger our thinking about it. Then it’s even easier to unconsciously identify or form a preference, a thought. I am finding deeper embodiment by proactively surrundering preferences. Food for example. I eat what is best for the body. I honestly lost preference for taste a while back. Not that I don’t appreciate taste, but “consciousness” as in beingness, is all, taste is illusion. So I surrendered it. Fitness is the same. I surrendered my preference and do what is best for the body. Relationships are the same. There is an epiphany of no self, and there is a ‘life’ of selflessness, and no, or as little as possible, preference relative to “my” body mind being the center or point of the relativity. I am finding this to be embodiment, and it is blissful. Ironically, the relativity of all ‘things around the body mind’ is revealed, as in a trip peak. I also have found that all is forgotten during a night’s sleep. When I wake up, I sit and do nothing. Staying in the all is forgotten. No talking, no watching anything, no thoughts. Within just a few minutes the bliss fills the body mind, as it is empty, void of subtle conditions. The nature of unconditional love is unconditional. It is unconditional to the bod mind, so only in complete surrender is it present. So essentially, try, upon waking everyday, complete surrender, complete body and mind surrender, before any activity at all, even observing. When there are no conditions of the person body mind, then their is only unconditional love. To your previous post, consider there is no soul, no human, no dimensions, no God, no universe. Nothing. It’s hard to communicate the full extent of nothing in body mind, and therefore no preferences or concept of these things, but that is when what is unconditional can be. It is always being, it’s the ‘anything added’ that get’s our attention.