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@The White Belt Have sex. But get the idea of it’s “Best ness” off the pedestal. Spontaneity is better. Laugh together about it! The sex will be the better for it and your appreciation for each other will be more genuine and felt. Be sure to watch Leo’s vid on squirting! And don’t forget a report! jk

@moon777light Do some self work before the dating or you’ll end up with someone with low self esteem and it’ll potentially drain your energy. Happiness contingent on getting asked out or being pretty is no happiness at all. Discover what you really are.

@egoless The service provided, depending on what type of investor you mean, is anything from helping someone save & earn interest to pay for retirement, to investing in someone’s start up, to providing an office building or home for rent, as needed by someone else beginning their dream. An investor can even have a life purpose of helping others with life purpose. It’s all how you look at it. Is any of it ideal or unselfish. Yes. and of course no.

@Applejuice Yeah. Don’t do it when you’re at this stage of questioning stability. Do the practices.

@Dhruv For sure do it now.

@Phrae Relax in waves head to toe, keeping spine striaght. Your body will make adjustments on it’s own. Allow them to just happen vs overdoing keeping still.

@Viking Start the yoga. ☺️

@phoenix666 Yes! ❤️

@kieranperez @Charlotte You guys are amazing! Congrats!!!!!!

@lmfao Wouldn’t matter what anyone says. Do a month without, then you’ll see.

@Freakrik There’s a million ways to skin a cat. Being genuine, and having fun works well too. Consider Loa for this stuff too. Everyone gravitates to someone with a better disposition.

@AmarSG1 lookin in the wrong place. Look to the practices.

@Freakrik Sorry man, I’m just not inspired to look up the sources you mentioned to get an understanding of this. I appreciate you sharing. Direct experience is always the way to go, so so how this feels when you experience it. Then you’ll know. Maybe you’ll start, and end up laughing about it with your future wife. ❤️

“Considering” and doing meditation & self inquiry - it’s the difference between doing something , creating a life, living, and dwelling / suffering. You’re underestimating and undervaluing your freedom and influence on your reality. It’s a riddle, made by you, that takes years to unravel. It is a miracle in a puzzle in a puzzle in a miracle. You have to increase your very consciousness just to have a 1 in a million shot at a 2 second glimpse. Or you can just skip it and pass on the greatest mystery adventure in th the history of reality it’s self. What was your experience of being born like? What was it like being an animal? What was your experience of death like? Those are beliefs, not your experience. You haven’t scratched the surface yet. You haven’t started yet. Everything you can see and hear right now, that’s all that’s happening. On the other side of your walls, there is superposition / source / whatever word. Suffering is a symptom of a misunderstanding in perception. Your mind is trying to keep track of and account for the suffering of the world, potential nuclear war, what about others, projections of troublesome futures, etc - and it is acutely designed to process “reality” accurately - but reality is only what is within your awareness. That’s it. You only have to focus on and be aware of 1% of what you currently are attempting to be aware of. The videos are great, but their unified message is direct experience & discernment, not thinking about the videos - contemplating all that is you and your immediate environment right now. Without practices, without application of what you’re learning, nothing changes. I don’t mean anything personally, just aiming to appeal to the true you, the one who is asleep. You can do anything you think you can do. Do the practices. Get to a place where you know what you want, and you know you can do it. Death has nothin on that level of living.

@Freakrik I might be wrong, as I don’t know much about pua, but I think you were right when you acknowledged you were following a low conscious path. Would you do that under any other circumstance really? Sex drive is about as tough illusion / awakening wise as pain, but if you’re interested in the long term, follow your highest consciousness paths. Or don’t. Also true, there’s a female or two out there wanting to get picked up. Probably not wanting to be manipulated though. Cuttin people’s heads of is “facinating” too. Real personal growth and compassion for others is also “fascinating”. Just sayin man. What we think, we become. What we feel, we attract. What we imagine, we create. -Buddha (allegedly) Check out epigenetics, and the ability to “switch” genes on & off. Apply that realization to the survival impulse. Transcend it with more awareness & understanding. Do the self work. Females will step right out of the universe for you. Manipulative moves are steps backwards. Hope you don’t take this as judging. Just sharing from experience. Mine is no more valid that yours.

@Tearos Like the word consciousness is used for the human experience, and for the infinite, the term self actualization gets used to imply a descriptive set of skills & milestones/accomplishments in development leading to a self sustained mental equanimity, and it also is used to describe the existential realization of what the self actually is. Either one will retained help with the other, until there is no other.

@Aftermarket Could you add some references/ links regarding the offered content supporting nihilism? Thanks! ?? Or were you referring to posts from members and I’m misunderstanding you? Also, please refrain from directly swearing at people. Thanks again.

@pluto That is the best! ❤️

@Freakrik To each their own I guess. Weird to me. Manipulation in inherently unscrupulous. What about Tinder, etc? Wouln’t That be easier anyway?

@Truth Addict Ha! Just high on nonduality. Thanks!

@Freakrik There is no such thing as “living” or “dead” anything. It’s illusion, an appearance of “alive”. The death of the ego, is the full realization you are the all-that-is. It’s a cosmic joke, you were never alive, and you were never Freakrik. Have you experienced hell? Hitler? Yeah. Me neither. Lol. Have you learned yet, from a very wise teacher, to trust your own direct experience.... yet? ? ❤️

@Freakrik I don’t know man, if it’s hard to use your own words and describe what you’re planning on doing, you probably know you shouldn’t do it. Just breath from your stomach, and talk to girls. Be genuine. Ask em questions. Manipulation is another issue you’ll likely have to do work on yourself down the road for.

@Freakrik I’m completely ignorant to the pua world, so the references to teachers and jargon of the industry are lost on me. If you would, in ordinary language, what is it you are actually planning to do? I am “seeking first to understand”, and I appreciate your help.

@Freakrik Could you share what it is you’re talking about doing?