Nahm

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  1. @MisterMan Pretty much man. You might even see that there’s nothing to bypass. It’s a filter you’re holding in place. You created it. You’ve just done your best with what you’ve had to work with, and no one could really blame you. You’re just doing your best. But you’ve been involved with that filter for a long time. It served you, but I think you can let it go now. It’s funny how we think we know what people are thinking anyways. We’re silly that way.
  2. @ctzonka Effort is a habit you’ve got, which has done pretty well for you. I believe what you’re looking for is the transition to effortless inspiration. I agree with going alone. You said you’re most happy when you’re connected with people....that love is not coming from other people, it’s you. Get away for a few days or so, don’t do anything. Don’t “effort”. See what’s there.
  3. @MarkusSweden Kind words man. Love U❣️
  4. @Ross It’s a tool for you to use in creating this life. No one is offering to do it for you. What you’re currently projecting onto someone else, is actually on you. It’s your life.
  5. @MisterMan You can just love other people. You don’t have to filter your love for people through judgments of what you think they think of you. You can just enjoy the loving. Thoughts & emotions are like the weather, relative to one’s past and always changing. Don’t look for the separation, the us & them, the him and me. Take a few deep breaths and feel the love and peace in your belly. Thinking is silly. Imagine you are everything, and alone, “judging” yourself. Lol. If you find you don’t like what someone else thinks, then you’ve just found the opportunity to deepen your love & understanding. “Other” is an illusion. The resolve, is Love. Unconditional love directly into your self. Then, your default, is love, and thought is nothing. Just silly.
  6. @LiakosN I didn’t realize it at the time, though I was dumbfounded to be hit by a car and not have a scratch on me (again, 75 miles an hour). All the windows blew out, the car hit so hard from behind, it knocked my car so hard into the van in front of me, that the car bounced off, flipped sideways almost 180 degrees, and hit the same car behind me again. The back number (station wagon) was literally up against the back of the front seat. Maybe ‘25 years’ later, when I realized I’m not “alive”, it came back, and was clear. I have a pic somewhere of that car after the “accident”, I see if I can find it and send it to ya. Let me just say too, yeah, this sounds dumb and crazy to everyone, I know that. Lol. There’s no assertion, no consistency, no matter, unless there is illusion. It’d be like if you went to Disneyland when you were 5, and didn’t remember it when you were 20, but then went there again at 30 and were like, oh, wow, ok, I remember this, this death, this Being.
  7. @Viking Ya, you can Just let go man. You been carrying that long enough.
  8. Detox the thoughts prior to the food choices, not the mirror.
  9. @Violina Lot of thought attached to meditation there btw. Don’t meditate to concentrate. Just be the breathe, let everything go. Let ‘you’ go.
  10. You read that a few times, you might tap into a cosmic laugh. Love you.
  11. @Emne Every song of every bird is your dog saying, be here now, with me.
  12. @MisterMan Makes sense, if you’re alone.
  13. @Silvian Too for vague for me. Not sure what you’re implying.
  14. @Barbarian Number 8 At least it wasn’t a stick shift.
  15. @cata Study the relativity to your person so you can begin changing your state of mind at will. That way you can chill when needed, and kick ass when needed. Use everything.
  16. @King of Hearts Change lifestyle. Cleanses & diets yo yo.
  17. @nour-cha93 To the degree you have inquired into yourself, you have inquired into others. If you’ve gone through, to nothing, you’ve done the same with others. You’d see their attitudes and actions for what they are, relativity, maya, you wouldn’t see them as negative, you’d see them as wanting to be happy, igonrant, and lost, like you once were. If you want to be unaffected by others, know thy self. There’s no assertion. Another person is not making you feel a single thing, it is your thoughts which make you feel “their” negative vibes. You can’t be free of this while you blame. If you want to see for yourself there is no assertion, give up ever needing to be understood.
  18. @Barbarian Number 8 I’m all about helping you out bro. PM’n.
  19. @Viking Holy shit! BOOOM! ? @Andre Quinonez At least it wasn’t like, a dog bark and a doorbell.
  20. @Mikael89 To you, every person is maya, don’t depend on a word anyone says. Every word ever said or written is not true. The earth could be round, could be flat, also doesn’t exist, and appears to exist - it doesn’t matter. Doubt is a word for thinking. The realization will not come from thinking. Inquire to see what is delusion, and what is True. Truth is silent, and incommunicable. It is mind bending, until your mind lessens, and begins to subside, then is gone. Like overthinking subsides in proper meditation, and is gone, and awareness is, you are.
  21. Self IN-quiry.......not Outside or Life circumstances inquiry.