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@Mikael89 Don’t try to do it in your head. Our egos are too tricky. Use a pen & paper. Write down what you want, as clearly as possible. Then write down anything stopping you, and any reasons you can’t. Then look at each reason and ask how you know that’s true. Write the opposite down. Ask if that is true. If you want to do this, but you just can’t do it now or today, write down when you want to do it as a reminder, and let it go.

@Highest I can never see the Truth.

Do you believe there is a “humanity”? Do you believe there are separate, physical beings? Do you believe there are “objects”? Do you believe there is “energy”?

@thesmileyone You’re trying to experience something you think is horrific, and wondering why you have anxiety?

@kieranperez On another note, how’s your journaling going? Finding any releases of unwanted emotions? Is it easier to understand when you see how you’re feeling on paper?

@JohnnyBravo @lmfao No drug sourcing. Thanks. https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/7-guidelines/

Law of Attraction: What do I want?: A girlfriend. What beliefs are in the way, causing resistant thinking? That I can’t have a girlfriend. You can choose the girlfriend, you can choose the belief. In any case Michael - you are getting exactly what you believe you should get. (Or not get) If you want a girlfriend, every thought which says you can not have a girlfriend, must be inspected. You can choose the girlfriend, you can choose not to do the work of inspection. In any case - you are getting exactly what you believe you should get. (Or not get) You might even discover, that you have a belief, that you are above doing the work that many other people with girlfriends, did. Inspect that belief. Or don’t.

The tongue can not taste itself, happiness can not find itself in a ‘thing’. Tell me a thing which is comparable to you. What thing is more facinating, more amazing, more of a miracle - than you, just sitting there? What thing can LOVE? What thing can dream? What thing is compassionate? What thing is empathetic? What thing can share? What thing will you find, which is more - then you? What thing is joyful? What thing - is peaceful?

You could become a pilot, you’d need to learn a lot, address the fear of heights (if you had one), get in your flight time, and obtain a license. What is it you feel you need to learn, what fear would you need to address, how would you get your experience / ‘time in’, to be a boyfriend? “It might be possible.. but we all know it isn't going to happen” How do you know that’s true - that you know what everyone knows? How do you know it’s true, that you know what will or will not happen? Direct experience of having no success with the opposite sex. And of how the whole human specie and society works. Is that really true? Is it true that you know how the whole human species and society works? What did you try that did not ‘work’, what did you learn, what did you then try differently?

@Mikael89 So what’s your evidence that God does not want you to have a girlfriend?

@Mikael89 Do you see there is truth in the perspective, “I can have a girlfriend”?

Right. Beliefs = Limits.

Why are you asking me? What is your answer? WHo would you be without the belief “I can’t have a girlfriend”?

Who would you be without that belief?

Oh, I see, thanks. How do you know that’s true - that there is no girlfriend ‘out there’ for you, ‘already on the way’? How do you know that?

@StillSearching What are you currently doing to enable her to continue not to address her low esteem?

What is the lie (if you are able to state it).

@StillSearching Ya. Why does it fit you so well, to have chosen a girl who is insecure and experiencing low self esteem? What is it you think you could ultimately need from her for you to be happy?

@Mikael89 Maybe it’s just more simple than you’re thinking. Maybe believing in something like....I don’t know...that a girlfriend is already on the way, one who will be so great with you, and loving the universe for knowing that. Simple. Kids do this without thinking.

@Charlotte Embrace your greedy bitchness, the one who loves the nicotine, Love “her” to death! NO CONSCIOUSNESS WORK while going through withdrawal! Keep it simple - “it’s the withdrawal”. It’s not you, it’s not the past or future, it’s the withdrawal. Drink water constantly, it helps diminish the oral / hand habit. Peeing all day is better than putting on 10 pounds. L-Theanine, HTP-5, can be very helpful mood / I will murder you - wise.

That’s true. You’re right. You are looking smart. Sorry about that.

Letting go. ♥️ It’s more powerful than could be thought.

@Manjushri What hurt?