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What is the lie (if you are able to state it).

@StillSearching Ya. Why does it fit you so well, to have chosen a girl who is insecure and experiencing low self esteem? What is it you think you could ultimately need from her for you to be happy?

@Mikael89 Maybe it’s just more simple than you’re thinking. Maybe believing in something like....I don’t know...that a girlfriend is already on the way, one who will be so great with you, and loving the universe for knowing that. Simple. Kids do this without thinking.

@Charlotte Embrace your greedy bitchness, the one who loves the nicotine, Love “her” to death! NO CONSCIOUSNESS WORK while going through withdrawal! Keep it simple - “it’s the withdrawal”. It’s not you, it’s not the past or future, it’s the withdrawal. Drink water constantly, it helps diminish the oral / hand habit. Peeing all day is better than putting on 10 pounds. L-Theanine, HTP-5, can be very helpful mood / I will murder you - wise.

That’s true. You’re right. You are looking smart. Sorry about that.

Letting go. ♥️ It’s more powerful than could be thought.

@Manjushri What hurt?

@Aquarius Is asking why looking for meaning? Stop and ask why you’re looking for meaning first. You can’t realize for other people. WHat is the meaning you give to “relationships”, and “friendships”? Why are you making friends?

@Silvester Are you conscious, or are you consciousness? If you’re conscious, who / what is conscious? The very word is telling you the inherent nature is a con.

@Aquarius Just simply trace the meaning. Go ahead and pick any thing.

So you can keep believing in scientists.

@Viking You’re talking about your thoughts & beliefs when you’re deciphering ‘real’ here. Otherwise, your beauty would be readily apparent. Watch The Hurricane, with Denzel. You’ll like it.

@Mikael89 So when you stop and consider what you want, you see you have no beliefs holding you back?

@Aquarius Find the source of meaning. ?

@SoonHei ☺️

@SoonHei It?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SBeW1NkoykE ♥️

@Andreas The meditation serves to allow thoughts to subside, via relaxing the body, and attention on breathing from the stomach (attention is removed from thoughts). Meditation positions you to have clarity, to inquire. Then with a clear mind, you can inquire into the nature of the neurosis. Also though, meditation could in and of itself serve to surrender the self image, thus ending neurosis. But there is much to be said for understanding the nature of overthinking. This solidifies that if and when it begins to resurface, it is easily identified, understood and let go. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neurosis “In Horney's view, mild anxiety disorders and full-blown personality disorders all fall under her basic scheme of neurosis as variations in the degree of severity and in the individual dynamics.The opposite of neurosis is a condition Horney calls self-realization, a state of being in which the person responds to the world with the full depth of his or her spontaneous feelings, rather than with anxiety-driven compulsion. Thus the person grows to actualize his or her inborn potentialities. Horney compares this process to an acorn that grows and becomes a tree: the acorn has had the potential for a tree inside it all along.” I’m happy to try and help, but it’s all relative to what you want. This.... Is that all you want? Less of what sucks ass? You just want less of what you don’t want? Lame. What do you really want?

@Andreas If I had something, first thing I’d consider is what is it’s opposite. If you have neurosis, and it doesn’t feel good - great, you know what you don’t want. It served you. No need to focus on it Now that you know what you don’t want, you know what you do want, and it’s the opposite of neurosis. If you’re interested in changing from experiencing what you don’t want, to what you do want, it might behoove you to google what you want.

@Andreas What’s the opposite of neurosis?

The thought there is an obstacle.

What is the screen’s perspective on: random, and not governed by anything?