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@Tony 845 You are puzzled by your belief in enlightened people, and separate beings. That puzzle is a distraction to the real puzzle, you. Just take one minute to consider...how is that someone else could be enlightened? Doesn’t enlightenment denote, everyone is One? Obviously, only you could become enlightened, because only you are holding your beliefs.

If you do the exercise, it is revealed to you just how simple this problem is to rectify. Just write down what you currently believe is true, the judgment essentially. Example: Bill should be more considerate to me. Ask if it’s really true, that you know what’s best for Bill. Then flip it around onto yourself...”I should be more considerate to Bill”. Ask if that’s true, if there’s any truth in that perspective. Then flip it again....”Bill should not be more considerate to me”. Ask if there’s any truth in that perspective. Then ask yourself...”What do I need from Bill so that I can be happy with Bill?” Then ask yourself...”How does it feel to realize I have made my own happiness contingent upon what Bill does?” And.....”Who would I be without believing Bill should behave the way I want?”

@peqkno “Kai-Fu Lee is a Taiwanese venture capitalist, technology executive, writer, and computer scientist.” - Google. Hmmmm...I wonder if he has any personal interest in people hearing, thinking, and believing like he does.

Leo discovered he is The All That Is, and it is Love. He discovered he can do whatever he wants, and it doesn’t matter. He has chosen to help everyone in the world discover this real Joy and Peace, and you’re thinking there is something more worthwhile he should be doing....? Define for yourself what that is that he should be doing, and do that!

@StillSearching What if you literally completely accepted her as she is, without seeing her as having a problem she needs to fix, or a change she needs to make? What if you were your business, and you let her be her business? What would that look like?

@SoonHei Love that channel, it’s a shame they’re (he?) aren’t investigating first.

@kieranperez When you write how you feel on paper, the eyes see it, and the mind understands it more. The videos are not a journal, that’s taking you in the opposite direction. Journaling is not a struggle, nor is it difficult. Living in fear of sensations because of beliefs is a difficult struggle. It effects the entirety of your decisions and life experience, as well as your health & well being. Writing down your obstacles, and then asking if they’re true would help you become aware of some beliefs you hold which are making life a difficult struggle. Chronic avoidance of sensations, such as learned as a kid, feeds constant fear, which is constant overthinking, which some people label as a ‘disease’, or as ‘something wrong with you’, or as ‘not normal’. This often feeds into the fear to experience sensations, thus blinding the mind from understanding any of this is going on. But when the mind sees it, on paper, understanding begins, overthinking lessens each day, heart rate begins to go down, stress level goes down, nueroplasticity goes up, body becomes less and less tense, more peace is present, love is more readily felt, more understanding and empathy arises, more social ease arises, clarity begins to become a reality, the vision of what I want appears possible, the details seem to fill in by themselves as I go, as I believe in myself, my dream for this life is materializing, it always was. I was in the way. Or don’t journal. Lots of different things work for different people.

@Mikael89 Don’t try to do it in your head. Our egos are too tricky. Use a pen & paper. Write down what you want, as clearly as possible. Then write down anything stopping you, and any reasons you can’t. Then look at each reason and ask how you know that’s true. Write the opposite down. Ask if that is true. If you want to do this, but you just can’t do it now or today, write down when you want to do it as a reminder, and let it go.

@Highest I can never see the Truth.

Do you believe there is a “humanity”? Do you believe there are separate, physical beings? Do you believe there are “objects”? Do you believe there is “energy”?

@thesmileyone You’re trying to experience something you think is horrific, and wondering why you have anxiety?

@kieranperez On another note, how’s your journaling going? Finding any releases of unwanted emotions? Is it easier to understand when you see how you’re feeling on paper?

@JohnnyBravo @lmfao No drug sourcing. Thanks. https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/7-guidelines/

Law of Attraction: What do I want?: A girlfriend. What beliefs are in the way, causing resistant thinking? That I can’t have a girlfriend. You can choose the girlfriend, you can choose the belief. In any case Michael - you are getting exactly what you believe you should get. (Or not get) If you want a girlfriend, every thought which says you can not have a girlfriend, must be inspected. You can choose the girlfriend, you can choose not to do the work of inspection. In any case - you are getting exactly what you believe you should get. (Or not get) You might even discover, that you have a belief, that you are above doing the work that many other people with girlfriends, did. Inspect that belief. Or don’t.

The tongue can not taste itself, happiness can not find itself in a ‘thing’. Tell me a thing which is comparable to you. What thing is more facinating, more amazing, more of a miracle - than you, just sitting there? What thing can LOVE? What thing can dream? What thing is compassionate? What thing is empathetic? What thing can share? What thing will you find, which is more - then you? What thing is joyful? What thing - is peaceful?

You could become a pilot, you’d need to learn a lot, address the fear of heights (if you had one), get in your flight time, and obtain a license. What is it you feel you need to learn, what fear would you need to address, how would you get your experience / ‘time in’, to be a boyfriend? “It might be possible.. but we all know it isn't going to happen” How do you know that’s true - that you know what everyone knows? How do you know it’s true, that you know what will or will not happen? Direct experience of having no success with the opposite sex. And of how the whole human specie and society works. Is that really true? Is it true that you know how the whole human species and society works? What did you try that did not ‘work’, what did you learn, what did you then try differently?

@Mikael89 So what’s your evidence that God does not want you to have a girlfriend?

@Mikael89 Do you see there is truth in the perspective, “I can have a girlfriend”?

Right. Beliefs = Limits.

Why are you asking me? What is your answer? WHo would you be without the belief “I can’t have a girlfriend”?

Who would you be without that belief?

Oh, I see, thanks. How do you know that’s true - that there is no girlfriend ‘out there’ for you, ‘already on the way’? How do you know that?

@StillSearching What are you currently doing to enable her to continue not to address her low esteem?