Nahm

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  1. I am is not a thought, you’re the source of thoughts. This is why false thinking never feels good - or, not feeling good let’s you know the present thought is false. “Pointless” is a thought, and it’s on the inherent foundation of “point”. Let point & pointless go (duality - thinking). Create instead of ‘figuring out’. You can think your life is pointless and false - but that’s just a thought, all thought of I am is false. You’re not lost, it’s not possible. I understand what you mean though. If you want the alignment of well being, eat to the tune - and when your beingness says the current thinking is false, llisten immediately. Linger & dwell, and you pay the price, every time. The thinking you are ‘Post 1k” is thinking. Let it go. It creates a dualistic mental frame, so you (perspective wise) are certain to lose in either case. IT’s rooted in comparison, which inherently false thinking.
  2. If you are the creator of reality are you a person - therefore are there other people? Is there a source of negative, are you able to attract for ‘other people’? How does that play out relatively with other people in your experience?
  3. What is the understanding of all this? Does one arising thought have anything to do with a previous arising thought? If so, what connects them together?
  4. @Surfingthewave To unstick someone from identification with one perspective which they believe is the truth.
  5. @KP_Spirituality27 Great share. Thanks!
  6. I believe you. You’ve mastered zooming in. Doesn’t sound like you’re ever zooming out / deeply letting go / relaxing the mind & body. You have a lot on your plate, like everyone. Everything you’ll ever accomplish - why do you want to do it? Happiness, and for the experience, right? The big joke is, happiness & experience are here, now. So if you want, you can enjoy it. You only ever experience this one moment. You won’t experience “all that stuff on your mind”. Just this moment. As that stuff is experienced, it’s just this one moment too.
  7. @D3mko Who cares if he gets mad. Does that have to have anything to do with you, really?
  8. What was your birth like? What is death like? Is that experience, or beliefs?
  9. @SQAAD The problem is not existence, it’s the belief in the ego. Never being born is already the case. The suffering is rooted in the belief you were born, are this separate physical person, and therefore will die. These beliefs color perspective with falsity,... and suffering. None of that is your actual experience though, it’s a thought / belief story. All is well, everything has always been ok, and always will be. Inspect it yourself. @Serotoninluv nice! Like trying to tell someone how to get to where you are, without being able to name a second location or point of reference.
  10. @How to be wise The Work serves to connect the dots ‘between’ the sought after peace sub, and emotional realization sub. There’s no duplicate mod feature though. If you want to, copy & paste the same post there, maybe? Then I’ll feature it as well.
  11. @JohnnyBravo The Work doesn’t touch on memory so much as realizing how our beliefs are causing our suffering.
  12. @David Hammond I don’t have ‘pin’ power or I definitly would, but I featured it. Great idea. Thanks!
  13. @How to be wise ♥️ Explanation of the process......http://thework.com/en/do-work Judge your neighbor worksheet......http://thework.com/sites/thework/downloads/worksheets/JudgeYourNeighbor_Worksheet.pdf Facilitator guide.......http://thework.com/sites/thework/downloads/worksheets/facilitationguide_Eng.pdf "I am the perpretor of my suffering - but only all of it." ~ Byron Katie ~
  14. Can you be aware of the ego at play here? Can you have a dose of that medicine, to begin curing yourself? “It’s your own fault, because you insist you can not have a girlfriend”. Hopefully all this being “right”, being “the king knower of all facts” is fulfilling, and keeps you warm at night. I found arrogance to be thin, defensive in nature and unfulfilling, but of course, you can believe whatever arising thoughts about “your self” you want. You can also realize the obviousness that you are aware of thoughts. So a thought about you can not be true. Because, once again, you are the awareness, aware of, the thoughts.
  15. @Mikael89 Are you sure? It seems like there is a huge ego there - making claims about “facts”, and “knowing better”, etc, etc, etc. Don’t believe me though. The suffering is always clear & honest.
  16. http://thework.com/en/do-work https://www.amazon.com/Six-Pillars-Self-Esteem-Definitive-Leading/dp/0553374397 Those could be helpful. I realize now, you aren’t really suffering.
  17. All just arising thoughts, awareness is aware of. Have you considered your sexual orientation might not be for woman? It sure sounds like you desire to be a woman.