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Success is the best ‘revenge’. Whatever you put your focus on, you get more of. Let him have all the rope he wants. It’s simply not your problem, unless you’re engaging it as such. Up to you.

@Elton One person feels better, more assured, believes in their self and their dream...and tells another...your calendar fills up with the love, trust, and honesty given. Here’s a good example for a reference, as well as a “coach of coaches” if you’re interested in his services... https://www.kiloby.com/ The greatest life coach that has ever lived recommend this book to me, and I was surprised to find how easy & effective the right questions, and creating the space for another can be. https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Questions-Coachs-Powerful-Asking/dp/0979416361 The NCA site. http://www.nationalcoachacademy.com/best-life-coaching-books My site is in the signature below if you want to check it out as another reference. I started this around 2 years ago, and it is going far better than I could have imagined. If you have any questions pm me anytime. Also, @Emerald is a life coach, and I’m sure would be happy to help as well.

Yes indeed. Write any characteristics & features that come to mind...brown eyes, funny, light hearted, genuine, etc. Have fun with it. Visualize. Imagine that it is already the case, and allow yourself to feel light & easy about it. The universe is unconditional love & unconditionally loving. The analogy of a vending machine comes to mind. Imagine you push the button that says “I want X partner”....and because the “vending machine” is not thinking, is not dualistic, is not contemplating or judging...out of the machine comes the matching vibration - “I want X partner”. Comparatively, imagine pushing the button that says “brown eyes, funny, light hearted, genuine, beautiful”...and that comes out of the “vending machine”. The board matters, the ‘exercise’ of it matters, but truly it is awareness of your vibration that matters, the sureness - and the awareness of choosing thoughts which are in alignment with what you are wanting, and willingly, swiftly, letting go of thoughts which are not aligned with what you want. Feel the difference, with that which you are wanting in mind.... Wondering if it is coming. Thinking it is coming. Believing it is coming. Knowing it is coming. Knowing - it is already done, and there is only to enjoy the coming of it, the unfolding, of what you are wanting. Write the traits, as many as you can think of. “I gotta be careful what I wish for” ... There is only one source, and there is no source of “bad”. Source = Goodness. Sooo Good. Source is absolute, infinite Goodness. You don’t need to be careful what you wish for. You might say that is like “trusting”, which is an unnecessarily added “middle-man” if you will. It is unnecessary, because you feel. As you choose good feeling thoughts, and line up with the receiving of what you are wanting, it does come. When you choose to focus on a thought which does not feel good to you - that thought is not aligned with source, and as such - is like a toaster, which is not plugged in. It is not “electrified”, it is not “powered”, or “supported”. That unwanted feeling thought - does not tap into the creative power, the unconditional love, the source of all that is. Again...it’s about the board, and feeling & conscious choosing, but it’s really about your vibration. It’s ultimately about you, discovering This, as you. You might also ‘frame it up’ as .... unconscious creating, vs aligning thought, feeling & source = conscious creating. Enjoy each and every day, have fun in feeling the alignment or discord, of each one-at-a-time-thought chosen. This entire universe is designed around this - around your choosing of good feeling, true for you, source-Goodness-supported - thoughts. You are a creator, and this, you are creating. Like a spontaneous painting, which you have painted yourself as a charactor into, and are thus able to experience the painting 'itself', as “reality”. A “feeling mantra” perhaps.....Satisfied with what is, with now - with this - and eagerly, enthusiastically, excitedly, passionately - wanting & creating more. Truth, Source, via feeling, is Guidance within you. Every being has this guidance within, and there is no one you could be, no thing you could do, no where you could ever go - and be without that 24/7. Goodness is never “off”, never absent, never not present as sensational guidance & unconditional love for every one. ??♥️

That is some elegant honesty. I find it very moving & I feel that I do understand it. I also feel that I understand how to overcome it. If you watched the first half of any movie and turned it off, you’d think it’d sucked. All the build up, tension & problems, with no resolve, no self discovery, no self realization, no insights gained, no hero’s journey completed. If you watched the second half though, it’d all make sense. Congrats on getting through the first half, and on realizing you’re a seeker. Imo, that is the greatest, and most noble thing a person can be. The Truth will indeed set you free. In the very second the path ‘clicks’, you begin feeling better. I hope that is here & now. There is a ‘way’, and it has been around for a long, long time. The second half can be where you realize you have been creating emotions in response to the outside world, circumstances & events. This is initially to good to be true, to see. Don’t dismiss it easily, it takes time. It’s certainly not your fault. This living in dissatisfaction is in large part the way of the world, and what it has taught you. It never felt right, never resonated, because it’s garbage. It never resonated with me either, and I also tried a whole lot of stuff. I found this is because emotions are not created relative to the outside world, but by being in alignment, or in discord, with your inner being, via feeling. In believing thoughts, we label feelings, ‘guilt’, ‘anger’, shame’, ‘hopelessness’, etc. If we didn’t label them, if we inspected them, if we listened to them, we’d hear a whole different tune. It’s humbling & difficult, but it is true. It’s a lot to expect one to figure this out, given the present collective human conditionIng. You’re already in the right place though. Keep making posts, keep inspecting. Don’t accept the labels, though you see others do. Don’t write off your feelings, though everyone around might be doing so. You are right, what you’re saying, is right. Even if you’re feeling alone, and that no one understand what you are realizing - you are right about what you’re finding. There is true, lasting happiness, but it can not found in, or derived of, an outside world. The more we expect this to be the case, the more we find ourselves suffering. The happiness is within you, this is precisely why some thoughts feel good, and some thoughts do not feel good. You are experiencing the relativity of each thought, relative to the source of you. You are a creator. When you align thought, with the source of you, that which you are wanting is created. The source of you is Good. Thoughts which do not feel good to you, do not have any ‘backing’ because there is no source of “bad”, and with these not-good-feeling thoughts, nothing gets created, sans suffering. Listen to the suffering, listen to feeling - not thoughts about it. Choose thoughts that feel good to you. Trust in yourself, in spite of everything & everyone behaving to the contrary.

@VeganAwake Totally agree...but.....why do this...(if you don’t mind me askin)

With respect to what you said there it’s best if I decline to answer. ??

@VeganAwake What’d ya share that for?

@Vercingetorix How’s you foundation; Diet, fitness, daily practices, inspecting beliefs, aligning source-feeling-thought? How’s your creatorship; dream boarding, letting go, allowing the dots to connect? How’s your mindfulness of self love, & relationship love giving? How’s purification going?

Quite a few a priori beliefs are needed to believe death is actual in any way.

@TrynaBeTurquoise Nice.

@abrakamowse Nailed it. Lol

References to the subconscious mind is the mind’s sneaky way of referencing to what one is unconscious (sub, below conscious) of, but is actually self referential thinking as what’s referenced is “outside of consciousness” (no thing is within, and no thing is outside of self).

What appears to be the context of that, is only appearance. (Shortage, time, lives, doing, repeating). None of that is actually “happening”, as “happening” is also a mental projection upon infinity, which is itself infinity. Notice it appears you are moving your hands and fingers...but you can not pin point that you are.

No, I mean from & between my parents in reference to my childhood. Grand parenting is entirely different. No, but I support them. I see distinctions between being, and the actions & behaviors of being. Also, yes, in the sense, none of the distinctions are absolute. lol. Zen devilry is like the Hulk realizing he’s just always angry.

@fridjonk It is! So true. It’s like here’s what the colors look like through turquoise / nondual.

@fridjonk Sweet! The last couple episodes bring it in pretty close to home man. I think you’ll love it. Then grab the tissues and check out Won’t You Be My Neighbor.

@zeroISinfinity I am the devil.

@Florian Awesome. Keep in touch with me if you will, love to hear from you on the boxing future front. I love boxing. Next life for sure. Clean up that diet - emotional mastery & boxing will thank you.

My parents were / are entirely subject - object perspective driven, dogmatic, and therefore in self-denial of their belief in judgement. So there are let downs, anger, outbursts, misunderstandings, not being understood, self imposed illnesses, yada yada...suffering. I’m well aware each of my kids are creating their reality, and that nothing I can say could be as effective as the feeling that is source within them. So I appeal to that. So, from on onlooker perspective, my dad was angry, and I am patient. (I’m not really patient, I just have seen through what it “is”). At the same time, I am only the way I am, thanks to my parents, while of course, I don’t actually have parents and I’m aware my kids don’t either. (And they do)

@fridjonk Maybe you’ve reached a new place, where what you “classified” as your “comfort zone”, isn’t really what you find comfort in anymore. Might be one of those sneaky tricks you mentioned. You might be the peace, if you will...the comfort. There’s a lot of comfort knowing you can just decide.

The Messiah. New series on Netflix.

They certainly can. Relatively speaking, I had no idea I’d be doing the work that I am now. It was not where I was headed at all. I was just trying to find out what reality is out of curiosity. Honestly, I can’t even say I got a “life purpose” or even an idea. It was just - this is what’s happening now. I think this iPad came about the same way. Now of course, it’s obvious for me this is where I was always headed. Where did I even think I was going really. Lol. Sometimes in a solid trip, you feel the whole puzzle, and realize thinking was going only from piece to piece, not realizing how, or that they did, fit together perfectly already.

@fridjonk What’d you find ego intelligence and devilry to be?

@bejapuskas Yes. The difference in a nutshell is anger & patience, and we’re equal.

@WelcometoReality ??♥️ It does seem so...“happiness” is keeping all the write’s off’s in place, my ego, my mind, my thinking, my childhood, my area, my culture, my brain, my life, my parents, my job, etc. HAPPINESS is what let’s them go. “Reaching” higher states.......meh.