Nahm

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  1. @Elton By loving them you heal yourself and see & close your gap. Ask @mandyjw about this. She’s mastered it really.
  2. @TheUniverseIsLove I started working full time when I was 13. Hard to say if this stuff went on in my childhood home or not. If you don’t like the channel, change it. The universe doesn’t want, it’s unconditional. That’s why you’re here. You’re all ‘it’ wants.
  3. @ivankiss ? @assx95 ‘Breathe purpose’, even. Meditation, every morning, without exception. Emotion arises, energy in the body to be released. Write about how you feel, now. Not about a past or future, a self or another. Take no thing for granted, nothing is hidden. Thoughts are things. The only trap is believing your own mind, which is not a thing, merely the claimer that there are things, and not even.
  4. @DrewNows If Zach De La Rocha forms another band that’d be a sweet name for it.
  5. @mandyjw Well everything’s funny now. Neat how the tradition of capitalizing the first letter in a sentence hides the usage of pronouns. Good you’re home btw. Beautiful ‘thing’. Individuation is funny.
  6. @mandyjw Just some ‘cheater’ who’s got it all backwards.
  7. That’s you playa. You are the pure Goodness this place is. The dreamscape is actual, yet all for playing.
  8. @Raptorsin7 And ideally lightening the mood there.
  9. That’s lovely. I’m not saying don’t do that, but if you want you can notice you’re doing that as an answer or remedy for the very suffering you’re denying. That would require self honestly in seeing that you are suffering, that there is ‘that which being in nature’ is the solution to. In truth there is no such thing as not your true nature. ‘That’ is you. You’re believing you’re the one who goes out into nature and puts his / her mind at ease, the individual separate human self, and all of ‘that’ is “this other thing”. There is a stage where one fools oneself in such manors, and there is a stage where one inspects the actuality of suffering, and of “things” & “that”. The suffering is attachment to thoughts, while you blame the state of the world not realizing your illusion, by not inspecting the nature of thoughts. Because you believe those things exist, you believe the suffering is at the fault of those things. This is a stage of avoidance of inspection of the truth. Try to notice the deep seated belief that someone else could, should or would prove to you that we are all one. See the shortcoming in that logic. If “we are all one”, you are that one, and thus there is no one else which could prove this to you. Inspect or don’t, always up to you because you are creating your reality. Sure, but that’s not actual. It’s awareness completely duped by the “if” of the finite mind. The actuality is the sun’s temperature is perfect, thanks to you. But you have no idea of this at all, which is in some ways very funny. There’s no argument, you misunderstand, assume & project that there is someone else present here arguing with a you. That’s a belief, which you are creating as you go, without inspecting and realizing you are. You are creating “this”. Not a “my consciousness”. There’s no such thing as consciousness. See if you can notice the opposite perspective is equally true, by noticing the defense of an idea / concept, which isn’t a thing to begin with, and thus can’t even actually be defended. Because it’s not actually a thing, it can not be random or orderly. Try to notice the “stuckness”. Random and orderly are thoughts. One can not think perception, any more than one can perceive thought.
  10. The 5meo of tear jerkers...
  11. @Raptorsin7 Well I’m just making shit up on the fly.
  12. @Jed Vassallo Please keep me in the loop when your book is done. I’d love to read it. Sounds right up my alley.
  13. Open mindedness isn’t changing beliefs, it’s no longer believing your thoughts, and inspecting as to what’s actually true. Open mindedness is a metaphysical term, not just psychological. Empty the cup of beliefs. It is presently jam packed full. When you’re talking about psychedelics, the mind, consciousness, subjective, objective, God, yourself, etc, you’re talking about your beliefs. In not realizing this, you’re creating a sort of ‘master big picture belief’ about an ‘unimaginably infinitely complex objective reality that happened to produce beings of consciousness like us, but can not be known subjectively’. All of these beliefs only serve the single belief, that you are separate. All suffering arises from that one belief. All limitations appearing across all facets of your life arise from that one single belief. Everything you’ve talked about in this thread can be known and understood completely, but it’s all in the actual inspection of the screen and projector, so to speak, not the movie. It’s the most worthwhile endeavor, and requires actual open mindedness, inspection, and self honesty regarding beliefs. You could start with the belief that experience is in parts, which could be ‘random’ or ‘in order’. Or just ignore what’s said here. That’s the real beauty of experience, you’re creating it, so it’s always up to you.
  14. Don’t believe thought stories about awakening & chasing enlightenment. Love is The Truth and is always present, now. (1) If when you talk about yourself and or your life, it’s “depression, anxiety, anger, self doubt, frustration, worry, boredom, jealousy, blame, resentment, overwhelment, insecurity, guilt, shame, fear, despair, disappointment, dissatisfaction”, etc. And (2) When you talk about enlightenment, it’s “real happiness”, “the answer to my problems”, “when I’ll be happy”, etc. Your main belief at play is that there are two. Number 1 has no truth to it at all, zero, and that’s why it feels terrible. Stop repeating that story, or you’ll continue creating suffering. Don’t analyze it, don’t figure it out, don’t give thoughts about it attention at all. It’s dilutive of feeling to continue focusing on what doesn’t feel good, while expecting to feel good. Number 2 is the truth, which is you, and that’s why it feels wonderful. Stop repeating the story about it being some other thing in the future, or a thing to figure out, or a thing someone else could or does have... or you’ll continue creating suffering. Don’t think about it, don’t strategize about it - relax, feel the body, breathe from the stomach. Be present in seeing, hearing, breathing and feeling. When you’re complaining that you feel terrible....it is that you are complaining, which feels terrible. The attitude of “I don’t feel good enough”, is why you don’t feel good enough. The perspective that “your life sucks” is why the experience of your life sucks. By the time you’re speaking such, you’ve already believed & repeated thoughts about yourself & life which are not objectively true, but seem true subjectively to “you”. Speaking it reinforces and recreates it. Meditation every morning is great for relaxation and allowing reactional living via attachment to thoughts & retelling the same story of unwanted, to dissipate. Instead of believing the thought narratives about yourself, others, the past or future, remain present with feeling & breathe, and release emotion. Don’t believe any thought story about releasing emotion, it has nothing to do with thinking. Get out of the way so to speak, so the body can release. Don’t think & talk about how. Silence is most honest & clear. There’s nothing for “you” to do. There is only for “you” to do less - to stop talking about yourself & your life in ways that don’t feel good, and are not aligned with what you want. When “you” do, or rather - when You no longer do...happiness & love is very obviously ever present. “It” always was - You always are. Yoga is very good for breath-work and the allowing of releasing emotion from the body. Neglecting the body as such, is suppressing emotion, and insures over activity of the mind in a million and one attempts of thinking, to feel better. Feeling can not be thought. Feeling is guidance about thought. Thought is for creating the life you actually want, and contributing to the general well being of this place. Don’t continue poking yourself in the eye with it, use it properly, in it’s proper place of creation creating.
  15. @Raptorsin7 (1) When you talk about yourself, it’s “depression, my life’s so bad”, etc. And When you talk about enlightenment, it’s “real happiness”, etc. (2) Your main belief is that there are two. Number 1 has no truth to it at all, zero, and that’s why it feels terrible. Stop repeating that story, or you’ll continue creating suffering. Don’t analyze it, don’t figure it out, don’t give it attention at all. It’s delusional. Number 2 is the truth, which is you, and that’s why it feels wonderful. Stop repeating that story about it being some other thing, or you’ll continue suffering. Don’t think about it, don’t strategize about it - relax, feel the body, breathe from the stomach. When you’re complaining that you feel terrible....it is that you are complaining, which feels terrible. The attitude of “i don’t feel good enough”, is why you don’t feel good enough. By the time you’re speaking, you’ve already believed things about yourself which are not true. Things about being not good enough, unworthy, etc. Speaking it reinforces and recreates it. Meditation every morning is great for transcending reactional living via attachment to thoughts. Instead of believing the thought narratives about yourself, release emotion. Don’t believe any thought story about releasing emotion, it has nothing to do with thinking. Get out of the way so to speak, so the body can. Don’t think & talk about how. Silence is most honest & clear. There’s nothing for “you” to do. There is only for “you” to do less - to stop talking about yourself & your life and those who love you and care about you in ways which does not resonate with your being. When you do, or rather - when you no longer do...happiness & love is very obviously ever present. Always was. Yoga is very good for breath-work and the allowing of releasing emotion from the body.
  16. @AlwaysBeNice I mean there’s no religion.
  17. The self help stuff you mentioned. You said it ‘worked’. Take a minute to remember what you did, and implement it again. That’s a way to go about things, if you need a way to go about things. But there isn’t anything you need to do to feel better at all. You’re believing there is, because you have beliefs about yourself which aren’t true, and therefore don’t feel good. Reality’s an unconditional mirror. You’re getting what you are wanting, and feeling how you are wanting to. It’s always up to you. There are no laws, nobody else has a hand in it. When you’re ready to let bogus beliefs about yourself go, you will. When you’re ready to stop being afraid, or to address your fears, you will.
  18. Yes, in the sense it feels good. Do that. (Lovingly drops a Hoosiers call back)