Shin

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  1. A good example would be these kinds of breakup: The guy or the girl leaves the other because he wants someone more aligned to what he/she is. For example, a girl who's an artist, and an extravert, while the guy is an introvert and is deep into spirituality. Both of them could be happy together, sure, but they could be way more with a more appropriate persona. So if the girl/guy leave the other because of that, you can't really blame him/her, you should be happy for him//her and for yourself, because not only you can realize this, but you probably realize other stuff about yourself that you could improve to be a better match, even for a more appropriate partner (like being more open sexually/more funny-playful etc ...).
  2. When you experience Shakti (infinity) for the first time:
  3. You can receive deep love without loving yourself, but there is 0% chance that you will maintain it (or even feel it) if you don't love yourself. And when I say love, I don't mean being narcisstic "oh I'm so smart" "oh I'm so nice" "oh I'm so sexy", no, real love, like you really really love yourself, You forgive yourself, you pumper yourself, you trust yourself, you are kind to yourself, you push yourself, and the most important one, You are totally fine with your sole company.
  4. That's what I was planning to do next @Toby Ok, I tried it, let's just say that porn and traditional masturbation seems silly now INFINITE PLEASURE HOLY SHIT !!!
  5. @Evilwave Heddy Couldn't stop laughing for a good minute
  6. Stumbled on this video I plan to watch during my work out, what a coincidence
  7. You got the most powerful ability that a human being can have, Whatever happens, you'll be able to get through now
  8. Might want to read that: https://livingdharmanow.wordpress.com/2011/04/04/meditation-mondays-sick/
  9. Explain more, because this and this Doesn't make any sense.
  10. Search from the scripts on the website, not on youtube, you'll find it quicker (use ctrl+f) Here https://www.actualized.org/categories/enlightenment or here https://www.actualized.org/categories/foundational
  11. Nice chocolate. EDIT: Sorry I only slept 2 hours this night, I'm exceptionally stupid when that happens
  12. This is very interesting to read, and also extremely truthful, thank you This part is critical: And this one:
  13. Ahah, so true A quote that might help:
  14. One exercice to experience infinity (well only glimpses for now) that works very well for me, Is to walk in a city and frequently stop in a no thoughts state and observe all the people, living "their" life. The best results I got was in crowded areas, like a train station/giant market, or a square.
  15. If a woman seems interested, you ask her out, you don't continue to text, especially on Tinder. She probably thinks you're a pussy by now (at least inconsciously), or she has found an another guy that excites her more than you, so try with another girl and don't wait too long this time (5-10 messages max from each person). @stevegan928 If you already have a date with her, don't talk too much to her anymore, just a bit everyday to imprint your presence in her mind. If you talk too much to her, you're saving less and less informations that you could share face to face, you don't want to do that. I thought she was done with you and that you didn't have any date, my bad I'm tired so I probably misread your post
  16. You might want to see a specialist, because 2 years for a girl you never been with seems neurotics, especially if you are meditating 2 hours everyday.
  17. Do you meditate ? If you don't, watch this video. Might seems totally off-topic, but it isn't, I've been at your place https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xRAZFzEx1d8
  18. You need an ago to function in society, the goal is to be so disentified with it that you'll see it as a tool. The higher self is more like the ideal ego to carry the mission that the universe gave to you.
  19. "Everything you want is on the other side of fear" - Jack Canfield "Keep doing what you love, and all else will follow ..." - The Universe
  20. "Love is the bridge between you and everything" Rumi
  21. That's the problem right there, you now think I'm defending her because your ego needs a nice counter argument. The reality of it, is that I don't, I'm just trying to help YOU. Why would I care about her ? You said it yourself, she could be a fake, "she" could be a guy ...
  22. I would suggest to deeply investigate what you're feeling right now, because it is extremely egotic to impose your beliefs on other people. What are you trying to do ? Making her realized that polygamous lifestyle is bad, why are you doing that do you think ? Maybe you're doing that because you think women should be treated like princess and they have no right to be dirty and sex driven ? Maybe you think (very inconsciously) that you're not worthy of her, and so your ego goes apeshit to hide his old scar ? Seriously think about this, you're not gonna be able to really grow if you don't. @ajasatya Thank you