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I don't know the books that helps with that, maybe the six pillars of self esteem. If you stay conscious of how those thoughts are unnecessary, it should sort itself out, but it will take some time. You will still have them, but you will hear them more as a guidance than an blame.

I don't want to spam the forum with an another thread. (If you think it's innapropriate I will hide the message). Compassion is rising at an exponantial rate, and I'm starting to fear it goes way out of proportion. Sometimes when I read some of the story in here, I literally cry, because there is just so much sorrow in them. I never been able to feel such emotions, let alone to be compassionate, and I don't know if I could control myself if it continue like this, I could just lost it and get way overboard. I wouldn't be so concerned if I didn't plan to start learning a martial art this year, but since at some point I could literally kill someone in 5 seconds, I think I should take some notes

I recall a day when I got home from a job I hated. I was thinking stupid shit all the way home, 0 silence time. Not a single second I was inconscious.

What do you mean by moralizing ? Can you give us examples ?

You could learn not to be so attached to him, while still being in the relationship You don't have to flunk the relationship, especially if it is great and you both grow a lot from it, just explain the situation and that you want to take some space to handle the attachement issue.

Why would it be an obstacle, explain plz.

Maybe I'm his reincarnation ... YOU DIDN'T THOUGHT ABOUT THAT, DIDN'T YOU ???!!!

Some post I shared on /r/NoFap that I think would be interesting to post here too:

You can compliment him, he has no soul, dead inside ! DEAD DEAD DEAD !!!

Because for a newbie, the finger (concept) is more important than the moon (truth). Until he realize the finger will never be the moon. And since most people confuse concepts for reality nowadays ...

Even the desire to realize the truth ?

MAYBE MY LIFE PURPOSE IS TO BE A STAND UP COMEDIAN WITH A SLICE OF SPIRITUALITY IN IT ????????????????????????????????????? No idea how can that be done lul

Oh you already live out of it ? Cool

Stop feeding our ego !

Nahm right now:

Why ? This seems to be the perfect forum to help people with that, if helping is what you want to do after enlightenment of course.

Stay strong brother, you can do it

Ok that's interesting, I'll see

So you can't do semen retention properly if you want to have sex ? So tantra is just bullshit ?

@Charlotte There was no time during the experience right ? Also check this, it will help you: https://www.trinfinityacademy.com/courses/enlightenment-1-part-1-introduction-course/ It's from that course that I started to see that everything was made of the same thing as me, and seeing the "soul" of everything

How did it feel ? Were you conscious of the body ? Or were you totally out of space, like in a sort of totally empty field with just consciousness being conscious of itself ?

Can you sense one coming ? Because If you can, I will make some poster where I write: "You aren't the shit" "This is temporary" "Don't start teaching stupid noob" etc ...

Thank you dude, I thought this was safe.

Whatever you decide to do, always take at least 1 hour everyday to find your life purpose or to work on it everyday. It's easy to get lost in other stuff that seems WAY MORE important. I would recommand the life purpose course from Actualized.org, it's really worth it, but if you find an another one or want to do it on your own that's ok, even though I don't think It's a good idea to limite yourself like that.