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I don't think you can do it with willpower alone ? Would be waaaaay too hard ?

Ahah no I really can't do casual sex, it really feels disgusting to me. I was happy for them, but at the same time I really wished it was over FAST ???

Yesterday I survived 45 minutes of my neighboor getting fucked. She moaned for the full duration. It was like this (literally):

It's a really nice field to know about the mind. Even if you realize your true self you will still have an ego, therefore a mind. Like Leo said Enlightenment is the beginning, even Shinzen Young had to go see a psychologue to resolve some problems after enlightenment so ... Nowadays there is psychologies that use consciousness has a tool to cure their patients. I don't recall the name, but it's in the book of @Shanmugam There is also an University who study consciousness in England.

It's not about making your ego life better per say It's about removing suffering prior to enlightenment. Enlightenment may or may not happen.

I don't even know what that sentence means ?

Who am I sucks because your mind will automatically make the connection: Who = personality What I am works better.

What are you gonna do with your life then ? Feel your suffering fully if that's the only thing you want to do. Maybe one day you'll be tired to make you suffer and actually get the balls to change your life. Because I tell you, all you say is bullshit excuses, it may be true now, but I'm telling you, you can become whatever you want. Attracting women IS EASY, you'll laugh at yourself when you'll see it, and honestly, if you can't deal with women you'll never be happy as a man. It's just not possible to be fulfilled as a man if you don't delve in your masculinity. You can lie yourself all you want about that, but it's true.

Actualized.org ! *checking the troll thread from Leo*

It's all in your head, you're deceiving yourself big time here. And you think you can awaken if you bullshit yourself like that ? No way, not gonna happen.

You seriously limit your chance if you don't get the balls to deal with your fear. Not only that, but meanwhile you seek you suffer way much more than you need too.

Leo is just testing who still loves drama in his forum. You've all been jebaited ?

The truth ! ?????????

As long as it makes people smile, it's far from a waste of time.

Well, she can become one. That's the whole point.

I actually talk to an average/below average girl. You know what ? She is way more attractive than most hot girls, simply because she is quite conscious and intelligent. So you're physical attributes are really just an excuse, how you look doesn't matter, you will still be able to attract guys. Maybe not the most successfull, because those have lots of options and will go for the «all package», but most guys would want to date you if you take care of how you feel in the inside.

You're starting to write the same kind of post as me. I'm concerned.

I am something like 30 days I think.

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I think I had a lucid wet dream where I resisted the first attempt to ejaculate, but not the second scenario.

It didn't change how you feel because you don't accept yourself.

I have a female friend that leaves in Alsace (I live in an another part of France now) and she is in a really crappy relationship. She knows perfectly well that his boyfriend sucks, and that he is even dangerous for her (he has been physically abusing her in the past, and continue to abuse her emotionally) but she can't break his heart she says. She has a very loving heart and don't want to hurt anyone, but in this case it is utter stupidity. Ofc there isn't just that, she is in college and needs his money too, well that's an excuse cause she could live with her mom. Now the second excuse is that she has dogs and can't bring them to his parents place because they have a dog that doesn't like them. I told her that her dogs are not that important compared to living without this guy in her life, but she doesn't agree ofc. I don't know what to do, it's been 3 months and she broke up once with him, he got away, then come back ... You would think that a girl like that would be inconscious as fuck, but she isn't. Any advices ? I need help, I can't let her waste his life like that

Become conscious as fuck. Then you'll know just by looking in their eyes.

Please don't stop.

Study introversion and look for the benefits of meditation video by Leo.