Shin

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  1. That's my point, and the worst part is that she knows that. But what can I or she do to unlock this situation ? I don't think there is one, so that's why I need external opinions before I give up for good, cause at that point it's just wasted time and energy.
  2. No relapse or you all became porn addict again ? ?
  3. I somehow knew this video would make a lot of people mad ?
  4. Unless you're an alien, that's not possible. And even then ...
  5. For sex ? I could fuck a 4 as long as she has decent tits/ass. Now the real question is, why waste that time for passionless sex ?
  6. I have new music drugs for you ?
  7. Even if it is, the benefits described in all religions and spiritual guides is worth 1000000 its price.
  8. Meditate more, there is no reason to feel awkward by wanting to be closer to your female friends. If it bothers them you just stop, but don't denial your desire to connect physically with them, it's quite normal and healthy !
  9. First rule of non duality club: Always assume there is more, and that you are blind to the truth, even if you really deeply experience it. Will save a lot of time !
  10. I can't breath from both nostrils at the same capacity. There is always one that is functioning at 75% minimum, if not 90% (the other 25/10%). It's not the same side everytime, it can change very easily throughout the day. It's also difficult for me to take really long breath in, and especially breath out, even though it's way better than 1 year ago. Is there anything that can be done here ?
  11. What do you guys know about that ? Is it bullshit or does it really is a thing ? This is so fucking hard guys, all the signs are there, but the situation is so complex (won't talk about it), and I can't do shit about it ! FUUUUUUCK ! https://thoughtcatalog.com/brianna-wiest/2016/09/18-signs-youre-experiencing-whats-known-as-a-twin-flame-relationship/ Holy shit this is crazy ?
  12. Hi guys, Out of respect for you, I create this post to signal that I'll leave for at least 6 months. I spend way too much time here, it became an addiction. For the last few months I were on the forum for 3/4 hours A DAY ! This is waaaaaay too much ! I'll only post threads here, and only if I experience a HUGE mystical/enlightenment experience, or the real deal (so maybe nothing). Don't listen to the naysayers (cut them off of your life if necessary). Listen to your intuition, even if it goes against everything your mind and emotions say, take a (some) day(s) off to be sure (beware of rationalization). Always look inward, never outward. If something happen, it was bound to happen, look at the lesson, and move on. Everything will be fine, as long as you accept and worship the present moment. Never skip your meditation practice, never stop witnessing your senses, emotions, thinkings. Every act is either an act of love or a desperate call for it, think about that when someone is a dick. It's already there. Now.
  13. Just a simple reminder. There is no YOU that will become enlightened. The only thing that stands between YOU and enlightenenment is ... YOU. There is not a personal self experiencing anything, it's just concepts, beliefs, physical sensations floating around. It floats around so seamlessly that it is really convincing that YOU exist, but in reality there is no entity there, it's just a sum of all this that gives you this illusion ... This is what meditation is for, to make you see this. The thing is, most people only do that in their meditation schedule. DON'T ! Do it all the time, everywhere, yes it will be awful, yes it will drive you mad, but it's the only way. Everytime you walk, talk, or do anything that doesn't require you to concentrate that much you should look at your mind, passively, without judging it, letting all the crazy thoughts out. Now you may think this is basic, that everyone knows that, and everyone knows this with a little research on non-duality, it's true. Now the thing is, do you know this, or do you KNOW this ? There is a difference between knowing something conceptually and experientially, in this case it is critical, because otherwise you won't understand deeply what you (the real you) have to do. You may do it inconsciously, even consciously sometimes, and you will forget A LOT, but in the end it must become a habit, What you really have to do, is to deconstruct everything you think is true, including YOU. Which means that every beliefs, every concepts, every stories (about you too), every memories, every attachements, every identifications have to crumble. Crumble in the sense that you don't even know if it really is true, if it really happened, or if you are really what you think and feel right now. You must doubt EVERYTHING Doubt what happened 10 years ago, 1 year ago, even 5 minutes from now Doubt what you know about politics, history, people and scientifical facts (even that the earth is round, yes ...) Doubt what your like and dislike (especially your dislike) Doubt what you feel, investigate your emotions, they don't mean what you think they do ... You must doubt there is even a WORLD AROUND YOU ! You must doubt you even exist as a HUMAN BEING ! YOU MUST DOUBT YOU EVEN EXIST AT ALL ! https://www.livereal.com/spiritual/practical-spiritual-experiments/spiritual-autolysis/ -Jed Mckenna
  14. Hi everyone, I would really appreciate some life experience from some of you. Is anyone had a Intj/Isfp relationship ? If yes, how did it worked/is working for you ? What are the things to be wary of, the things that make it works well ? In my example it would be a male intj and a female Isfp. Thank you very much
  15. Refusing to be with the person, because it's in its best interest.