Shin

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  1. I got again the Lucky draw, I got the exam on the only class I studied, again From what I've seen, even in the worst case scenario I should have something like a 7/8 There is one thing I learned this past year, it is that whatever happens, no matter how painful an ending ends, there is always Something great after it. We can't see it because we wanted this Relationship or this job to continue to work for us, so bad. The thing is, it's not about what we want, it's about what we need to raise in consciousness. This almost never comes suffering, not that we should chase that, but it's through tough challenges that we grow, not in our comfort zone. It should be obvious, but from what I'm seeing, lots of spiritual seekers thinks enlightenment is about pleasant expériences, while in fact it's just about raising your consciousness. Which is done by seeing all the suppressed stuff in us, and facing all our fears in the real world, not just in our head. So you can't expect it to be joyful all the time, it's not how life works. Once you see and accept that though, the moments of suffering are accepted and goes away faaaar more quickly. So my advice for anyone reading this thread, the next time something "bad" happens to you, try to learn what this pain tries to tell you. Once you finds the reason, and not the excuses your mind will try to give you, Then you will be able to accept it, and let go. If there is suffering there is always misconception of what you think reality should be. You can't suffer and accept how things are, that's impossible Have a good day, I love you baby
  2. Especially the dead ones, because you literally can't argue someone who died for your sins ! «I know the TRUTH !!! Just let me check on my notebook for some juicy nondual concepts I didn't embody in the slightest ...»
  3. You can't teach something you don't know anything about. Unless you're awaken right now, you don't know anything except concepts in your mind. Not only this, but you might awaken only on the level of the mind, which is only half way. A lot of teachers are arrogant and teach on this level, you don't want to do this. That would be a distraction and wouldn't help as much as if you'd awaken on the level of the heart, too. Even at this point you should still not teach, and first embody this new awakening.
  4. If you have a really high libido, maybe doing semen retention would help. At some point you would get used to it and will have total control of your urges. Sex, masturbation or porn addiction makes sexuality way more frequent and casual that it is Imo.
  5. NOOOOO !!!!!!!!! JUST DO IT !!!
  6. You probably identify more to the tattoo guy and reject the beliefs/values of the woman. Usually you only reject what is still in conflict within you, so yes there is still work to be done.
  7. On a certain point of view it does ? More on the next episode ?
  8. Btw very few people can love, to love is to completely accept yourself as you are, while accepting the other person exactly as they are. You can't do this unless you're secure in yourself, until you experientially know that you don't need anyone to be happy. Until then you will be able to feel love, but it will momentary and rare, what you will experience 95% of the time will be attachment. Attachment is clinging to something, it may look like love, it may taste like love, but if you dig into the feeling, it is fear at its core. It is about possession, about locking happiness in your life, it doesn't even feel good if you're honest with yourself, there is way more pain than «love» in the end. You may succeed to lock someone, but only because you two are so fearful to be alone that you accept the misery that attachment is. In the end there is endless drama and suffering that limit yourself greatly in your self-actualization. This is the number 1 reason why people don't actualize, they cling to relationships that only makes them act inconsciously. Be very conscious in your own experience what you think love is for you. It is not what you think it is.
  9. Let's not forget the basics by being arrogant ☺ https://youtu.be/hbj4nLOPN8o
  10. Funny how when you stop trying, when you just be yourself, when you stop doing the things that doesn't serve you, when you just appreciate the moment, and when you just enjoy life, It all comes on its own. There is nothing to do anymore, except living and being as authentically and kind I can be. Being loving without expecting anything in return, just because I sense myself in everything. Accepting that I know nothing, that the only thing I am sure of is that I exist. Just fully experiencing what I experience. How stupidly simple it is, Of course it is, since it is already there
  11. I AM THE SPACE IN WHICH EVERYTHING APPEARS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  12. Emotions and feelings too. Everything we experience ?
  13. I think he's talking about the ego with other words. Even if he doesn't, shouldn't you be open to the idea ? Radical open-mindedness my friend ?