Spiral

If someone asks you for your number, just tell them that you have a boyfriend (even if you don't) . I usually tell people I have girlfriend, works like charm

Zen riddle: "He seeks an entry-level job to get experience but, he can not get an entry-level job without experience" -CH

Stop watching porn and you will remove the problem with el Stop watching porn and that problem will go away. You will also get more motivation to get laid if you stop.

Because you are needy and attached to her.

Is this something you all talk about with people regularly? I personally avoid it, perhaps I'd mention that I have an interest in psychology or spirituality but generally that's it. Not really meet anyone whom i felt really resonate with it, if anything I'd help a friend get laid.

Age is just number I'm a mere infinity years old myself, although I suppose that a really a number

1. I feel like doing pickup for sex or for find a girlfriend is probably not the best approach, definitely the most common but not the best.Do so to learn social dynamics, have fun and meet new people(and in turn get over your ex). If you get laid well good for you but having this as a goal is going to make things feel harder and more serious.I would also start in a party or club environment rather then on the street. 2. This method might do the trick 3. I assume you do not view porn, making female friends really helped me and like@Damir Elezi said exercise does wonders for you.

@The Monk Depends how old you are, if mean that you are also 18 then yeah go ahead. Regardless I would avoid drug parties.

I'm sorry, I made this thread looking for character traits not physical things.

@egoeimai @Annetta I assumed it was a joke, guess not.

wow dude

I also find "guy topics" boring. Because of this i hang out with girls more, not sure if this is the best solution, but that is how I do it. Although I recognize this not being your problem. I do know some people who have your problem and in my experience it is because they never go past the small talk. Conversations look like this: You both greet each other and then you ask and answer questions intill one of you get bored of the conversation. Solution: If someone ask you were you are from, don't just say "New York", talk about the neighborhood, what you think about the city, if you were born somewhere else etc. Try express yourself emotionally as well, although try not to make very answer too long, I would not talk for more then 20 seconds. By doing this you'll introduce more topics and open up a little bit, making conversations more interesting. Best of luck

It's counterproductive to try to learn game from a male(your own) prospective The average guy might think this way: If a girl hot said "Hi, sleep with me " he would probably sleep with her, therefore he should say that. That would obviously not work, with the majority of girls. That being said, I would not primarily try to learn game from girls. While they know what they want, they are less likely to know why they want it(because they most likely don't seduce women for a living) and obviously haven't spent much time developing these traits. You also are likely to misunderstand what the attractive aspect is. Example: A girl tell might you that she wants a guy who can make her laugh and you might assume she means a guy who is good at making funny jokes. While being able to make funny jokes is definitely a positive, that not really what wants when she says that(even if she thinks so herself). I don't want to spoil it, but it's a more complicated than that Haha, want kind of thinking is that?

@Nahm Would you not call it selfish to get into a relationship, seeing no long term potential and only doing so for personal growth?

Easy, next time you meet her: Say hi, can i talk with you for a minute? Don't wait for a reply just bring her with you, when you are alone with her.... ask her out for ice cream/coffee or something She says no or you did not like her after the first date? find somebody else

Do not consider learning a waste of time, especially human physiology.

Imagine the confidence you would have if you truly embodied it

I do very often rely on my intuition, but if you are exposed to much of, let's say players. You'll at some point get burned and think everyone is a player. I have on multiple occasions been wrongly assumed to be a player/fuckboy by female friends of mine and i'm not even promiscuous, although they did not seemed to mind either way

For how long are we talking?

Good, this is how dates are suppose to be, hopefully you will be able to be like this always and forever

1. If she really rejects you, don't try again. 2. If you want a girlfriend, don't go around kissing girls randomly, make them earn it. 3. If you don't want a girlfriend and just want to be promiscuous, don't care about what girls think of you, but make sure they know what you are after, aka don't be fuckboy. (I would recommend trying to find a long term relationship, but you are young so i will not expect it of you) 4. Girls like decisive guys make a plan and stick to it, but if it makes sense to be spontaneous do that. Good luck and have fun

That's pathetic, don't you have any sympathy for other people at all? You are not special at all, you just happen to get really lucky.

Nicely put

Haha, why do these threads so often escalate into insults or even get sexual?

If it from a stranger or someone inappropriate, creepy... regardless he probably likes you.