Spiral

@Nahm Would you not call it selfish to get into a relationship, seeing no long term potential and only doing so for personal growth?

Easy, next time you meet her: Say hi, can i talk with you for a minute? Don't wait for a reply just bring her with you, when you are alone with her.... ask her out for ice cream/coffee or something She says no or you did not like her after the first date? find somebody else

Do not consider learning a waste of time, especially human physiology.

Imagine the confidence you would have if you truly embodied it

I do very often rely on my intuition, but if you are exposed to much of, let's say players. You'll at some point get burned and think everyone is a player. I have on multiple occasions been wrongly assumed to be a player/fuckboy by female friends of mine and i'm not even promiscuous, although they did not seemed to mind either way

For how long are we talking?

Good, this is how dates are suppose to be, hopefully you will be able to be like this always and forever

1. If she really rejects you, don't try again. 2. If you want a girlfriend, don't go around kissing girls randomly, make them earn it. 3. If you don't want a girlfriend and just want to be promiscuous, don't care about what girls think of you, but make sure they know what you are after, aka don't be fuckboy. (I would recommend trying to find a long term relationship, but you are young so i will not expect it of you) 4. Girls like decisive guys make a plan and stick to it, but if it makes sense to be spontaneous do that. Good luck and have fun

That's pathetic, don't you have any sympathy for other people at all? You are not special at all, you just happen to get really lucky.

Nicely put

Haha, why do these threads so often escalate into insults or even get sexual?

If it from a stranger or someone inappropriate, creepy... regardless he probably likes you.

We do have certain biologically decided character traits that can differ from person to person, but otherwise not really, it's mostly based on our past.

Emotionally not all, but I am secretive about my past. I have been burned before, so I'm very picky regarding whom I tell certain things.

I don't follow a specific pattern. Wake up at 09.00ish Works out and meditates, basic morning stuff) and waste time 12.00 cooks/eats lunch 13.00-16.00 studies uni stuff. 16.00-23.00 spends time with friends/girlfriend (dinner at 18.00ish)or have a look on the forums/youtube. 23.00- ??.?? Have "swedish fika" with one/two of my foreign female friends or study or have movienight or girlfriend. Repeat.

I don't care much for enlightenment either, i meditate, learn and i try to grow. Would i happen to get enlighten because of it, well i would not complain. That's awful

“Happiness is not about what the world gives you - happiness is what you think about what the world gives you." -Google Executive

A method i like to use is, being selfless without anyone knowing, this way you avoid people whom try to use you.

Have you tried it? Currently in a relationship so i would feel bad if i registered.

Have sex out of love and skip the porn. Even being promiscuous is better than porn, but i would recommend doing neither.

It's a REALLY important part, but only regarding the mentally aspect, in other word it really seductive from a primordial aspect (I.e. sexy) If you got it and take care of yourself (physically),than yes it's probably enough for most women/girls. Even i find detachment really appealing for both friend and partners, but i don't know if i like men are sexuality/romantically attracted to it. I can imaging some responses might say that "but looks also matters", yes of course they do but confidence and detachment can overpower looks to a big degree making it a really powerful addition to any men's arsenal of traits. But being desperate and insecure is really unattractive regardless what you look like.

yes , unconditional love is mostly about empathy and sympathy, have sympathy (or pity) for him, for how his life must have developed to make him this way. Healthy and happy people don't treat other like this. This is a insight you can't simply read about, you must experience it yourself to truly understand, preferably by self observation. If you fully embodies unconditional love you will be unable to feel anger or hatred towards other people regardless of what atrocities they commit, forgiveness will be like breathing.

While i agree with @Arkandeus , you can practice these teachings in other situations that are not crucial to your future. Bring in up with the student union, or possible some authority figure. Awful if it effects you learning negatively.

Naww the universe is predetermined anyways, it's not alive and therefore got no any desire for optimization. But there is more to life than this universe, a much older thing, eternal in fact. It is perfect, infinite and even conscious.

Studying is best done in up to 45 minute intervals, then a let's say 10 min break and then repeat. Studying for hours on end, will give diminishing returns. If you start to procrastinate use the 3 second rule get back on track. How long have you meditated for, and to you have a concentration practice? Monkey-mind is a fierce beast, that can take a long time to tame.