Spiral

The greatest limiting factor for men is cowardice and for women pride. If your are failing that’s probably the reason

@Boost I get that, you can do so anywhere. Sure you might find more stage green people at certain places for instance. The particular place isn’t going to make a meaningful difference. Familiarity is more important, or in other words places you frequent. Like school and a job, the gym. A bar. Or wherever else you go. In other words, the location question is a red herring.

If you are afraid of rejection and being misunderstood, you will not let people in. If you do not let people in you won’t connect. If you don’t connect and you’ll feel lonely. If you don’t socialize enough you’ll become more unusual and struggle more socially. This makes socializing even more difficult. If you go to the gym for instance you can start there. Just be more friendly, put on a smile. Say hi to strangers, don’t expect things to lead anywhere there. That sort of thing takes time

In my experience girls who struggle, play hard to get to ensure the guy is actually interested in her. This is because guys often are not. I girl who can sleep with a guy on the first date(if she feels like it) and still feel confident the guy will remain interested is a girl of high value. Now I’m not saying you should go for the girl that sleeps around. A Rolex watch is very pricey but not very useful. A great friendship is amazing but free of charge

Being hard to get does not appeal to me. Even if it’s authentic. Hard to get is essentially high maintenance, which is an unattractive prospect. If it’s not easy it’s not right. Now easy in this case can also be medium difficult. It’s not literally about being easy. It’s more about not wasting an enormous amount of time and energy on something that probably won’t lead anywhere. And if it did, probably isn’t worth the effort.

@Rafael Thundercat This isn’t the sort of thing one just solves. It goes away on its own. Give it 25 years

@Shermaningeorgia I’m sorry I don’t understand your point. Indiens in temples? With broken English?

I get stupid if I don’t supplement with omega-3. That combined with alpha wave self-hypnosis for enforcing flow-state keeps you sharp

To me this seems irrational, if a person can behave poorly but a certain group doesn’t punish it. Aren’t that group the problem? Not the group the original person belonged to

@Inliytened1 I recommend using caveman for better to-the-point answers. Furthermore you can save money by having your staff using it since it uses fewer tokens

I would say feminism is generally more “advanced”, typically stage green. Although there are what you might call archetypal men’s groups that trend more towards stage yellow. These however I’ve only seen in Scandinavia. Denmark primarily. A characteristic of these is that they don’t revolve around girls, women, sex, nor relationships. These topics are not allowed. It’s more about community and finding out who you are and what your role is in society. Your archetypes so to speak. Is that the manosphere? I’m not sure how to define it. Process is central to these, with a focus on irl and gender segregated meetings

@Leo Gura I find this unfortunate, since it undermines credibility. A solid approach to communication with girls is to use the sandwich method. I.E hear “you don’t love me anymore” as “it feels like you don’t love me anymore right now”.

@Basman Neither, if they make it awkward and weird I’d rather go somewhere else. I’m a paying customer after all.

I use Opus 4.6, can’t say I’m very impressed with the code. Does it work yeah, sure. But it’s not clean and optimized, still needs some work. Edit: I’d probably approve it, if it was a pr. But I wouldn’t praise it

This whole thing is actually super easy. We used to live in a tribal society, this society consisted of two parts the patriarchy and the matriarchy. Older lads offered guidance and advice for younger boys and older women for younger girls. This was a stable system because the advice worked and allows tribespeople to be useful members of the society. Why did it work? well because things didn’t change so the people operated under similar conditions each generation. Modern society is developing at a pace that breaks this whole system. Old people’s advice doesn’t work. If I ask my grandfather for advice with women he might tell me to go to the dance and ask someone to dance with me. That’s not a thing anymore, he doesn’t know anything about how things work these days. So his advice is often not applicable at all. So people don’t rely on older generations anymore. Social media just makes this whole situation way worse. I suspect AI will be beneficial here however. It can act as your elder so to speak.

I found that men actually stick to their requirements. A girl might have bunch and then meet a guy she likes and none of those requirements matter anymore

I wouldn’t go there again

Not a fan, often messy

In Sweden, you pay around 1% of the total value of your assets per year. This does not include property or vehicles. Furthermore, you don't need to pay for the first ~30'000 euros at all. When you sell, you don't have to pay anything. Easy system for everyone.

Girls approach me sometimes, but they are, however, rarely my type.

Got any recommended route?

More complicated than you'd think, actually. Here are the wrong options Telling her how you feel, if you do, she'll lose interest Not telling her how you feel, if you don't, she'll lose interest How to do it? Do it like a woman, go on a long, meaningless tangent and build her up emotionally. If you go 0 to 100 instantly, you lose. I don't mean 'share how you feel regularly', like letting the steam out. Do that as well if you like, but that's not what I mean. I mean, when you intend to share your feelings, build up hers. Let's imagine your father died and you're devastated. Tell about some bad thing that happened at work, how you felt when your pet died when you were 5. And then share the real news. If she's in the right state of mind, she can handle it without getting the ick. If you just unhitched emotional wreck and share without building her up, you messed up. Girls need to get warmed up. In more ways than one

I don't get why the US constantly has to get involved with Iran and the Middle East. It's just awful for everyone else

No ideology that is 'Us vs Them' is healthy. Especially if you are afraid of 'them'. That doesn't mean that it doesn't have a point or valid criticism

I definitely get it, you do what you are told. Discover that it doesn't give you what you want and lose your way. You search for a different path, and this offers you a solution. Does it work? Kind of, sometimes, maybe, but you'll probably just become radicalized and resentful. I also think people are too critical of red pill, that's not the way to deter people from it.