Spiral

You already are immortal, although this is the wrong subforum for that

Stop contacting her and don’t be friends

If your work is good enough you find that most people will work more than needed

Perhaps you should consider marrying someone?

Men allowed it to be legalized, but I suspect that’s not quite what you mean.

I don’t see you why two 15 years old can’t sleep with either other. That’s how I works in Sweden

Don’t focus on women, that’s a trap. Focus on yourself and women will come naturally. Think of it like getting a job, it’s better to have a great cv than trying to trick the employer you are better than your cv indicates. Getting in shape and great physical health is a great start.

Haha I like this one

Passion and suffering is the key to real friendship. Meeting up for a pint is nice but typically doesn’t lead anywhere meaningful P.S I’m awful at making friends so take my advice with a pinch of salt.

@something_else Yeah of course. I consider promiscuous sex unethical in general. Whenever you are using people as a means to an end, you’re acting immorally.

@actuallyenlightened If I wanna sleep around and live in a big city. I try being anonymous, you can give false name(or none at all) and restrain from providing contact details. I don’t however.

I’m probably not going about this in the right way. I buy none alcoholic beer(sneaky style). I just don’t wanna have the conversation with my friends.

I completely agree with you here, but I’ve never really understood the appeal. Do you know the reason?

Assume you are always wrong to some degree. The human mind isn’t capable of fully understanding reality.

@shree Happy wife, happy life. That how it works unfortunately. It’s boring and you don’t care. I get it, I also couldn’t care less about those things. However relationships require work to work out.

I don’t have a good time with other people when I’m in a bad mood. Others don’t enjoy my company either. If it’s serious I would cancel and maybe try next weekend instead at least if it’s a first date. First impressions only happens once.

I have gone there with gay friend of mine. While I really had a fun time, I wouldn’t go there without none-straight company.

What’s wrong with pretty women? Or hot women? You seem to use the terms interchangeably.

It’s a matter of preference. It’s usual in business. It can be a wonderful thing, for the shamanic archetype not so much.

I find it sad that lasting relationships is kinda rare and that so many kids have to grow up in single parents households. Like I was.

Only a poor product or service requires marketing.

So a regular relationship?

I’m awful at texting. Which is ironic because I write for a living and critic others writing as a hobby. I’m so bad at texting that people point it out, guys and girls. I’m typically described as boring or something similar. I also really dislike texting, I find it boring. One could argue with that people doing things they find boring are themselves boring. Something that really bugs me about texting is that I often have to “carry the conversation”. It makes me preferably not want to have it at all. Are you good at texting? What makes a good texter? Do you enjoy texting?

@meta_male Yeah it worked out fine, I’ll probably hang out with her again. I’m great with conversation in person it’s really just the texting bit that I’m struggling with. We did make out and she wanted to hook up.

@meta_male I don’t really date at all. In this case it was setting up a meetup with strangers. While it isn’t people I look up to(nor down on) it’s so common I must be doing something wrong. Like for instance We ended up chatting on an anonymous forum. The reason was that both of us wanted to have a meetup and she asked me to tell her more about myself. I told her my age, gender and that I was new in town(it’s not clear in that forum). Minimalistic absolutely but we’ll get to talk more on the meetup. That was super boring apparently.