Spiral

Another factor might be that foreigners are more open to meeting new people regardless of ethnicity. If I moved to let’s say Berlin. I’d wanna meet people to greater degree then if I’m in my hometown, since I already have friends there and so on.

You do most likely, like many others, spend too much time online. In person people will not ask nor really care about your sexual life.

Intelligence is about cognitive ability. It’s has nothing to do with knowledge or wisdom. Although intelligent people tend to seek out knowledge.

Different girls like different things.

I hold eye contact mostly when listening. A bit when talking also, typically fleetingly. Especially if it’s something important or something I want to emphasize.

Why not both?

Hunger motivates you to eat. Tiredness to sleep. Loneliness to make friends. This is the same. To better yourself and heal.

No, use the suffering to motivate you. So you become the kind of girl who get the guy she wants.

A fun conversation is typically not one where you exchange information.

A girl will have to flirt with me for me to find her attractive. This has some demerits .

It’s unpleasant for a couple of weeks than you’ll be fine. Mix things up, meet new people and spend time in different places. This sort of thing helps.

That’s a meaningless text. Imagine I send you an empty letter. Would you reply to that? Texts should a serve a purpose. The only purpose that text shows is that you want her to acknowledge you. In other words it makes you come off as desperate. With all this said. Of course she’s not girlfriend-material. It is after all disrespectful not to reply.

Do a prenup and it’s just an expensive party that probably just reduces the frequency at you get laid. It does have the benefit of removing nagging related to your girl wanting to marry you.

Can a long distance relationship work long-term? He lives in the same country. Only if there is a plan to move closer in the not to distant future.

Maybe you are a boring texter. Hot girls have tons of guys text her. It better not to be attached to the outcome of a girl texting you than being petty when she does not.

This is not true. There are certainly women who will leave a guy who “never” spends time with them. Balance in all things.

Perhaps I’m ruined by an unreasonably progressive culture. However why does sex matter at all? If I woke up as a girl equally attractive as I am as a man. My biggest gripes besides explaining this to friends and family would be having to buy new clothes and having a more limited options for sexual partner since I would be a lesbian. Well periods and security concerns also.

Girls often dabble in spirituality, I’d wager more so than guys. So I don’t see why not.

Sometimes not knowing is better.

Yesterday I spoke when an old colleague(as in from a previous job). He mentioned that he was going to grab a drink after work with one of his current colleagues. Not as invitation but rather because it suited the conversation. In the end he invited me to join. However let’s imagine, someone you don’t know very well tells you they have plans. You would like to join however preferably not come off as “desperate” or have them invite you even tho they would have preferred not to. How would you go about asking/implying your interest? Or would you just simply not do anything?

Motivating myself to make an effort.

I generally try to it avoid entirely.

While I don’t care about a girls sexual past. The only girls I’ve considered for long term relationships has technically been quite chaste. Not to the level of requiring marriage tho.

Sleep with enough girls and you’ll get fucked over eventually. Doesn’t even have to be the girl being malicious.

It depends on the situation. Desperation never appeals to me.