Spiral

I recommend skype

Have faith that things will get better and that you'll feel better with time. Being optimistic helps.

This guy is really useful for learning how to deal with this type of interaction, he uses a date example but it works generally. Long story short, a guy asks him where he got his haircut, implying that is looks bad.

Let's say that it eavesdrops(and tracks your location) on you and everyone else, does it matter? Are you hiding super important secrets?

I do agree with you at being male isn’t good enough, but it shouldn’t be either. Just like the other way around. When I meet my ex I had of the things you mentioned. A smartphone “normal clothing” friends(ish), hobbies besides gaming( anime etc), I did drink alcohol but she didn’t not introvert but not really extroverted either. I was renting a (super small)apartment but using borrowed money at a student discount price. Was studying for a degree. Does a girl ask you about your car? I thinks that’s strange I’ve never brought it up. Why not carry your smartphone? if nothing else you can see what time it is or call people.

Well I don’t see a problem with girls getting together with invaders, it’s only natural. Our society’s is what’s figurative. As for girls being picky well that also makes sense after all if everyone has kids, what happend to evolution? 90%\10% is probably better since most people genetics is rather poor. Imagine if we could breed out inherited disorders, poor eye sight, dyslexia, low iq etc.

If you want to be idealistic a perfect dictatorship is the best, although that's completely unrealistic. As for being in minority, you'll have to promote your ideas, spread the word of whatever you what.

In my experience girls are very often insecure, often for completely irrational reasons. It’s tends to be temporary. I’ll give you a example, back in uni when we had new girl students. The younger once among them often had a feeling that that weren’t good enough, not good looking enough even if the most appealing guy was dating them for instance. They had a strong need for compliments. Ironically the most unappealing trait they had was their insecurity and the behaviours the had to deal with it.

Girls are less dangerous than guys in most aspects. Expections include SCRUM girls.

It’s technically possible, although I cannot say I’ve experienced it. Nothing wrong with tension though, makes things more interesting.

@Marinus Get bigger condoms

Can’t say I’ve felt sexually harassed, but legally(technically) I’ve been. Butt pinching and being kissed out of nowhere. I suppose the difference lies in whether or not you feel safe and in control. If a girl is all over me I know that I’ll be fine because I’m stronger than her. Although I’m sexually traumatised, so I do get panicky if people get too touchy too quickly, even if I like them.

Analyse why you don’t have friends, for me in the past it was due to neediness and jealously. Took me a long time to realise that.

Just use a condom, if you’re partner has unhealthy looking markers or blemishes be careful. Take things slow, and don’t have high exceptions the first time. If you are a guy the hole is further down then you might expect ? assuming she is laying on her back. Also you need to lie on her to get it in from that position unless you wanna make it way more complicated than it needs to be. Also try different condom sizes so you know which one suits you.

@TheBeachBionic Typical fuckboy behaviour. You are picking the wrong guys.

@Annoynymous Yeah I know a women who is getting married soon and doesn’t consider it cheating because “he won’t find out”.

@Annoynymous It depends on the relationship and the woman. Maybe she not satisfied, maybe she’s in long distance relationship and is sexually frustrated, maybe she craves excitement or that she likes someone else. Could be a multitude of reasons and length of cheating. What constitutes cheating is subjective and should be discussed within the relationship. For me kissing or more(physically) well as dating.

They can if they want to, just like every other stage. Differences? Better communication due to a more open minded perspective, besides that not that different. Furthermore the choice of partner can differ.

Skype with him, don't give him your full name or address and you'll be fine.

You need to more playful and "flirty" Here is a zip-file, that will probably help: http://www.theattractiveman.com/f/downloads/texting-cheat-sheet.zip These are some examples: http://theattractiveman.com/members/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/Texts.txt I haven't tried them, so take them with a bit of salt. Must of them seem alright. "The attractive man" is responsible for these, all credit should go to him.

To be completely honest I have never meet anyone I would describe as yellow. Most who believe they are, are either orange or blue.

Teach a friend for free and he might recommend you to someone else. Earn a few beers. Youtube can of course also work, I have never tried. If you not that good yet go with a friend and get some perspective. As for you breath, slow down and try to relax. Push your shoulders down and open up your body language that will get you out of your head.

@billiesimon Fair and fair, life’s not fair and girls suffer more when they suffer. So in the end it’s kinda the same. Besides if you already fertilised the girl and then break up and then die in the wild, evolution is still going to pass down your genes assuming the girl and the baby survives. Think about these things from a stone age perspective.

Girls recover faster in general, although they suffer more during the recovery process, It’s in their DNA. If a girl was all miserable and alone for a long time while having a baby or being pregnant things wouldn’t work out very well in the wild. The options and affection from other guys probably help.

You can be introverted, socially capable, charming and confident at the same time. I know people like this. Furthermore I know this italian guy who's incredibly shy yet still very successful, definitely a fuckboy and not the "nice" type. Do you have the following traits? Confidence. Unpredictability. At least average social skills. Lacking in desperation. With those traits you'll get basically any girl you like. Unpredictability is often overlooked, it's the trait that prevents you from being boring and not like every other guy who she talks to.