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Give them a fun engaging conversation. It doesn’t have to be educational or say much about you. Do some roleplay or something. Talking about the weather or what you do for a living isn’t that interesting.

@Chives99 I like muffins. I do not feel attraction towards them. Obviously an oversimplification and not the best example but I don’t have much time to write now. Might get back with a better response later.

Definitely overthinking. Touching is an effective method.

I wouldn’t put it as extreme as @StarStruck however yes don’t ask women how to get women. Or the other way around. Women will tell you what they like not what they are attractive to.

I’m not interested in woman sexually or romantically at this time. That’s said I’m opposed to approaching women.

Men who focus on women fail. It’s always been that way. It’s not the way.

One should be careful conflating romantic love and actual love. Very different things.

Hatred will ruin your relationships. If you treat them like they are going to treat you poorly, they will.

If abstaining from it causes you distress you have an addiction. Like if you stop consuming fluids you’ll feel terrible. With porn you won’t die but it’s quite common that it can be difficult to stop. With fapping? Idk don’t do unless you’re actually horny. If it’s a way to spend time, you are probably using it in an unhealthy way.

I was there in may. It was nice, I didn’t end up talking to any girl that time however.

Sometimes girls are in a good mood and are up for it with you tonight. However couple of days later she isn’t in the mood anymore so she doesn’t care about you. So if you wanna get laid try to do it the same night or at least when it comes to night game.

I think it boils down to the classical ”You can’t change people” so either avoid them or just accept them. All kinds of people have silly ideas.

Scientists have not found any signs of intelligent life in the universe.

Masculinity is all about doing rather than being. So do, be proactive.

I would consider more serious relationships.

I’d say this is more useful for fostering friendships as opposed to something romantic or sexual.

@gettoefl That’s a good way to look at it.

Thanks! I’ll keep it up in that case On a more serious note, yeah I am actually online too much

@something_else I don’t think it’s matter of someone having treated him poorly. As opposed to him being online too much. And thus not viewing people based on real life.

I don’t know the details but I really appreciate constructive criticism. If delivered in a kind way and not too often. This way I can get a different perspectives and identify my own shortcomings.

Some great foods Kefir for the gut. Gut health is really underrated btw. Red grapes for antioxidants and heart health Carrots for skin and eyes. Vitamin A Blueberries for immune system and muscle protection. Apples because it promotes a healthy microbiome and reduces inflammation. Also keeps the doctor away. Turmeric because that’s crazy healthy. You can find it in yellow curry for instance, although don’t cook it.

@Leo Gura Yup

@Raze@Leo Gura Well then they don’t have their shit together. Having ones shit together doesn’t mean being rich. Back in the day guys would persuade the respect of their fellow man rather than the affection of girls. To be apart of something greater and work towards a common goals. These days we’re just atomized and sitting at home working on ourself if at all. We don’t care about our day jobs, it’s just money. Then we complain that no girl what’s to be apart of our life. That they lose their respect for us and our relationships don’t pass the test of time. Even if you are introvert(I am too) you still need to be apart of a Brotherhood and I don’t mean online. Not just have some guy friends who you hang out with because you share a common interest. Who you would stop hanging out with if they got a girlfriend and lost interest in going out picking up girls with you. That’s not really a friend anyway.

Have you ever seen a man who’s really got his shit together be unable to get a girl? Assuming he does not have disabilities. I certainly have not.

@NoSelfSelf No the girl with the silly hat is right.