Spiral

Don’t compliment as a general rule. About anything.

I would not flirt heavily or talk about sex with a girl whom is working. Unless she starts it or it relates to her profession (like sexologist)

Personally I don’t care much for it. It’s nice and all but there are other things in life I find more enjoyable.

Common interests are perhaps a good start however you won’t connect if that’s all you talk about. To have others feel a connection to you, you need have integrity, be trustworthy and be a good listener. Why? Because them opening up and sharing who they truly (believe) they are and feel is what makes them feel a connection. For you to feel a connection, you need to open up with them. Although this is risky, so do it with care. For me personally the “opening up” part is trickier, due to certain childhood issues. Additionally I kind of feel like I’m just being negative, which I don’t like.

Low confidence.

Depends on the pay.

Haha no. Pussy doesn’t have a lot visual appeal?

My step mother often says: you need to kiss a hundred frogs before you find your prince. Probably applies to a “Hot witch girlfriend” also. Keep searching!

Anger comes from a lack of understanding.

All things in moderation. Well maybe not heroine and crime but you get my point.

No, this is a simplified distinction. Primary measuring success by your success with opposite sex is just a sign of a broken society. Naturally it’s more complicated with none-heterosexual people.

Be careful not to be manipulative about however. I’ve heard that it’s quite common. As in trying to get a particular guy to like you just for the attention.

It depends on the girl. If she is freaky, sure however generally I could not make that offer.

I would go as far as to say that is attractive regardless of gender.

You could simply look for someone interested in spiritually. Self diagnosing how far you have gotten is unreliable.

A genuine and confident smile goes a long way.

There are no leagues.

I don’t care anymore, I can satisfy my own sexual and romantic needs. That’s probably not useful advice however ? So if I were to go looking, I would start at our local burn community. Maybe do some oxytocin massage. Partake in a activity you enjoy and don’t have the arrogance to disregard people because of of simply their spiral stage. You can learn something from everyone.

It’s weird if you think that it’s weird and try to hid it. If you own it nobody will care.

No.

I think putting a lot of emphasis of what’s masculine or feminine isn’t helping anyone. Be the way you are authentically. Pretending to be more feminine for example looks silly.

@Vivaldo people, physiology and culture(such as art). Of course there are other guys who likes this too but it’s more common among girls.

Be social and kind. If you are, people will like you.

Go out and talk to strangers. Just do it. However if you are in a consciousness state you don’t have this problem either.

@Vivaldo not sure which part you mean. However using people for your own benefit is hardly kind or appreciated. I enjoy female company more. I’m not really into sports, games, cars or whatever. I prefer more “softer “ topics. Additionally girls have been better and closer friends in the past. Be friends with people because you enjoy their company. If it comes with other benefits great.