KoryKat

Your dreams... As Steve Jobs said "follow your heart and intuition, everything else is secondary" Look at the Ikigai venne-diagram and combine Flow States in search of your "passion" , and follow that calling in your heart/gut "Reality is wrong, dreams are for real" -Tupac

Mostly B.S. / Total B.S. I think it works like this... you read a list of 10 things about your horoscope... 3-5 are highly like you, 3 are kinda-like you, and 2 really arent... But you confirmation-bias towards the ones that do, and overlook the others/include them even though not actually accurate... I say mostly, because lets use Scorpios as example... everybody who knows they are scorpios subconsciously aligns into it, so its like a self-fulfilling prophecy. My opinion

Consciousness works on a vertical spectrum, lets say 1-10... We will distinguish this into Lower Consciousness (urges , cravings, binging on drugs, eating junk food) at scales 1-3... Mid-level Consciousness (doing chores, doing day-to-day general stuff) level 4-6 And Higher Consciousness (the desire to become all you can be, the side of you with dreams and ambitions, the inner feeling telling you 'I should go to the gym' and whatever else) ranges 7-10++ How can you tell which level you are in? Ask yourself "How do I feel" ... and you will have answer that corresponds to Negative/Neutral/Positive (I feel like ughhh / im alright / I feel fantastic!) This is directly... I mean DIRECTLY, tied to your Sympathetic / Parasympathetic Nervous System (fight or flight vs rest and relax) The key is to activate your Parasympathetic (rest and relax) 'state of being' (Protip, *mental* effort = stress) here is a trick you can do... while doing a chore, lets say yard mowing, you will have this voice in your head... you want to realign this voice with 'Effortlessness' so while doing yardwork, my body is getting tired, and the voice is like "oh man I wish I could hurry up and finish!!" Instead , brainwash this inner voice with a new dialogue "This is SO EASY, I could do this ALLLL DAYY" keep repeating this EASY, ALL DAY NO PROBLEM! , while doing belly-breathing (try exhaling 2 seconds longer than normally) and you can flip this switch to Parasympathetic Nervous System and seriously , the body aches will just VANISH ...and loe-and-behold, you have transcended suffering... for a brief period (basically its Flow-State hacking) If u got money, invest in something like the EmWave2 by Heartmath, shit is CRAZYYYY at accurate calibration readings ... (I found the 4-7-8 breathing method to give consistent results with showing higher coherence levels... its flow-state + no * mental* effort , being relaxed , and DAMN if it doesnt give an INSTANT +20% cerebral clarity of mind ) Honestly I think most people are speaking out of their ass on here. Overly Eckhart-Tolle and not enough Biohacking

I LOVE OWEN COOK!!! picked up his mastercourses 15 years ago (Blueprint Decoded and other RSD ones) , went from awkward virgin to pimpin threesomes Saw him live like 10 years ago... THEN last year i saw him live for a 40 hour summit in Austin HOLY SHITTTTT IT WAS AWESOMMEEEE!!!! I was going nucking futs, blew out my voice twice screaming and getting pumped up. He actually told me "I like your energy" straight to me and it was like when a rockstar signs your hand and you never wanna wash your hand again. Gonna have to read through all this and drop some more comments , but Im a total Owen Cook fanboy cuz DAMN if he isnt INSANELY LEGIT... I wish so bad to live up to helping push his dream further , dude is a super hero if there ever was one.

OR if you dont have a particular video to recommend, what would you say is Game-Changing to learn that everybodys need to know? (Or a person who is legendary enough to sort through their content and find an absolutely killer video)

So I read that Leo had a problem with copycat groups, but *this* I dont understand. Rules: Recruiting members for chat-groups outside of this forum, including Skype, Discord, WhatsApp, chatrooms, etc. Recruiting members to start local meetup groups in your city Starting new spiritual communities, private groups, or cults like I really think its doing a disservice to humanity to forbid us from using this forum to meet each other and take it to chat-groups. Cant start local groups either??? How the fuck does that make sense. You are telling me we cant get a handful of people together to collaborate on our goals for accountability and support??? How does this align with Actualized's values? Seems pretty selfish to me. Is Leo really desperate for money that he sees anything like chat-groups to be a threat to his income? Might as well be Authoritarianism. I totally get the part about not starting competition , but *THIS IS IN NO WAY COMPETITION* Been a huge fan of Leo and defended him against many haters... but this really just makes me believe there was some merit to their sentiment. Honestly, if you are trying to do the world good and be good you wish to inspire... what is it going to take for people to start stepping up and saying *THIS ISNT ABOUT ME* because clearly these rules are about Leo and not the community at large and co-creating the world which we want to see. At least people like Owen Cook legitimately support groups being created among followers to co-enable each other. This forum actually just became a circle-jerk serving Leo in my eyes. Honestly, wont be defending Leo again on any youtube comments because this is selfish as it gets, and I dont follow leaders who arent down for cooperation and co-enabling self-actualization... i mean , wake up, Turquoise is the movement for cooperation and not this dominance hierarchy like Actualized.org has shown itself to be. Fuck the koolaid here. /rant What is the ultimate goal here of this website/community? Because my ultimate goal is seeing the world able to thrive at a mass collective level, and it sure doesnt pass the smell test that this community/website is aligned with that. If this rant gets locked/or myself banned, then thank you for showing me the true colors here and removing all doubt. Sincerely, a very disappointed mega-fan. -Kory

Hello wonderful person, I do not have a degree nor certification, but I want to be a life-coach I was thinking about starting on Fiverr or calling up local life-coaches and asking them about applying. I really have no idea on structuring something together. Lemme know! -Kory

yes thats what this thread is about, sorry you didnt get it sooner. Im fighting for something you dont even realize you need, my brother. I wish circumstances were different, and we could have time just bro-ing out in the real world. This is why im fighting for local collaboration, its not that we cant learn alone, its the feeling of being alive you get from real human connection, that no words or ideas can replace

how long has it been since somebody hugged you , looked you in the eyes, and told you they loved you?

but there is not an Accountability thread place on the forums here... And we live in a disconnected world and msgs are restricted time-wise and it can make real-time discussion and genuine human connection overly difficult/near-impossible its just sad that the rotten apples have turned this place into a place where people dont think we are here to make friends, and collaboration seems nonexistent... this isolation sucks! be the leader we need and do something to brings our hearts together in a movement to self-actualize as a collective... We dont know each other, really... lets work on something that addresses that, because its worse than ever. Leo, why be enigmatic? Why are you afraid to show yourself like a regular person being real? like theres an old video of u with a bunch of comments "omg he wears pants!" Everything has to be perfect with you. It seems like realness/connection is being overlooked and you dont want to mess with it , so its forbidden under the guise of other cults forming. Its whatever, if this forum wont be about it, then ill invest time searching elsewhere, because it will be answered one way or another...

seems like topics get locked when any mention of group-discussion happens ... id say most ppl would be the kind of ppl to go rogue/competing, but that doesnt mean its right to stop everybody from doing it... All im looking for is some sort of means to collaborate with others in the same shit that feels more real authentically/intimately... like tell people "hey we are starting Leo's Start Here guide, lets discuss our goals/sticking points and be mutually accountable. For me, i cant stand the social media world we live in... why forbid all local meetups for example? It seems like the dangers of splinter cells are taken to extreme levels of control/censorship. 1984-feeling for sure. If there was a way to really conduct it on here,i wouldnt bother like this... but there isnt even an Accountability thread group

The fact of the matter is that humanity is more disconnected than ever and it is because forums dont replace our need for human connection... Having eye contact, hugging, these things are irreplaceable, and its a disservice to us all to not be able to find that amongst ourselves within a community that supports some of the greatest ideas to empower us.

1 on 1 is allowed, but 3 ppl in a group is forbidden Also im pretty sure Im not allowed to post my phone number to have people all in individual conversations with me, or is that allowed? There is a big difference between recruiting to form as a competitor , and just recruiting a handful of people to collaborate on self-actualizing in any form of communication not threads on this forum.. If im allowed to invite everyone to privately talk to me on my cell, then thats cool, but im 99% certain it wont be allowed. Im not interested in forming some group to replace this in any shape or form... im just looking for colleagues to grow with and have as real person to person interaction... which is why im complaining about the forums... it doesnt serve any kind of personal intimate human bonding... its like the opposite of that...

You are off-topic. Glad to discuss this with you on a thread of this topic.

Yeah and follow that road and tell me you dont end in Dystopian "1984"

sounds like you missed the parts in Spiral Dynamics about partial perspective, relativism, and plurality... go practice Empathy out of your hermit cave my dude. Be on the streets and walk that walk You are also deflecting conversation off-topic. Wake up amigo. Its fine if you subscribe to God as all and you as all as God, but dont be a distraction from the reality that exists with self-masturbation to a singular ideology In fact, Leo does say no ideology. So you should be skeptical of this belief you have and open-minded, should you not?

This is the cult that it is trying to prevent from becoming elsewhere. PMs are 1 on 1. and is there a particular place for Accountability threads? threads are definitely limiting , as there is a frequency restriction to posting, and if I want to discuss things on video chat, then what? We are to be controlled at the cost of freedom.

that is just one perspective... and its not holistic/integrative , its just absolutist.

my goal is realizing a world of utopia by bringing everybody up. The goal here is buying only from Leo... cant make friends or community... cant collaborate amongst ourselves either outside the controlled atmosphere. you forgot that. "We dont want you befriending each other" WHO THE FUCK DOES THAT?

Yes , exactly, out of his control... you said it perfectly...is that a bad thing? Why??? I do not like anyone trying to control me, and its downright offensive. Also, im talking accountability and mutual support? It can devolve, but who is he to forbid all intercommunication for our goals together??? What is this forum really about?? Because not allowing such things speaks volumes about who this serves and who it doesnt. -Kory

Yes , i did think Leo cared. I projected my values onto him about caring about humanity and willing to say "its not about me" , i must have been mistaken.

Things make sense more.. Why is this forum stale and there a lack of excitement as we empower each other...?? Because the rules are for the self-interest of one person, and being dependent on Leo is a strategy for him to profit off people, without worrying we help each other grow independent among ourselves. Correct me if im wrong. I really understand the no competiton rules, but this is extreme form of control like you would find at a church "only I can preach and if you dont like it gtfo!"

Booyaa, another day to grind on it. Yesterday didnt write. Recap. Was very tired following 1st day back to Gym... partial blame going to junk-food diet (I believe gluten comes with a 24-48 hour energy crash... and also smoked a bowl of weed after breakfast... Laid in my van all morning/afternoon, did some calls to get ball rolling on new ID, and a job program, listened to more Dispenza mostly. Bought energy drink after lunch and ibuprofen, which mostly knocked out the exhausted feeling, Doordashed for a few hours. Sticking point : Talking to people and start to internally dwell on conversation points too much. Also getting more into conscious creation of the life I want to live... rewiring brain via doing more what I want to be , and removing actions that I dont want... altogether less procrastination. Sticking Point #2 : Learning to say No to people... definitely people trying to use me from the homeless shelter, like I ghosted the guy wasting my time trying to be my new gym buddy. "I got business to handle" Started several threads , as I am just like "why not spam the forums with questions I want to work on?" Also watched Leo's 1st video in Start Here, really good overview starter video, crazy how I feel like I know 60% of it already, but the thing is *fundamentals* so drilling in the basics irregardless if I know 90% or not... as how can I teach it if I dont know it through and through? Definitely gonna have to add meditation ASAP. Im already getting more clear and crisp feeling, only 5-6 days into starting to turn my life around Adding 20-30 seconds of cold shower to every shower. Havnt updated my journal in a few days on Actualized.org Wrote a post and accidentally deleted it. Went to gym and worked out hard, really helped "dial-in" (effects diminshed after 24-48 hours) Had a guy starting to leech off me, drug me around wasting my time... Gotta work on saying No. (Self-respect, commitments to my other plans, people gotta respect me saying No or kick them out immediately) Smoked weed with that leecher, bought me a gram and started being lazy, reinstalled a game, lost momentum, relapsed into old identity (note to self, keep practicing identity change, it is *not* a one time thing, but an active ongoing process requiring daily commitment) Cut back on people altogether again, maybe its because there is a lingering effect of weed making me like that for up to 3 days after? Will see. Leecher got kicked out of Salv. Army housing and ghosted him. Kinda ghosting everybody (cuz of weed's effect) Been wasting a lot of time throughout the day... doing some doordash in morning , lying around most of afternoon and evening.. Seems like life is an *energy game* , mylenating neuron pathways through repetition, body prefers using less energy and defaulting back to old habits... Felt like 'two step forward, one step backwards' until getting thrown off that day with leecher and picking up smoking weed a few days and reinstalling a game. Loss of drive, emotionally monotone feeling. Lined up for a Career 'Work Ready'program, going to be ongoing with daily classes , preparing for interviews, getting resume fixed up, learning skills related to field I want to work in, help with finding employers,and the whole 9 yards. Got a birth certificate ordered - 2 weeks tho, get my ID and SS card following that... Things Im working on implementing to daily routine Cold Shower Wim Hof + Meditation habit Going thru Transformation Academy classes Going thru Actualized.org classes Every 2-3 days going to Gym Getting to sleep early (no lights including phone) around 9pm , waking up at 5/6am Going thru Optimize mini-classes Earning extra $20-60/day Doordashing Need to identify goal for entreprenurship and commit to doing that around the clock Need to write down list of Self-Inquiry questions Need to work on schedule and measuring success towards commitments. Need to create a study habit... like an environment where I aim to be productive (because lazy in my bed/van/tv) , maybe start going to library/coffee shop and do Pomodoro technique and try 3 blocks of 30-60 mins of goal-oriented activity. Also dressing up like 'im going to work' maybe that will help with feeling like 'this is work time' instead of constantly dipping off on my phone being lazy. Definitely slacking though. Hopefully a few days off weed and doing some Wim Hof/working out will help reset back... what originally seemed to get me going last week was 1) a girl playing therapist for me with lots of "i love you" intimacy + eye contact (not romantic love at all,just like "i care about"love and providing me space to open up , and 2) getting pissed off at some cops harrassing me, really spiked my emotions , which is kinda the opposite after smoking/chilling too much feeling emotionally monotone now Anyways, one of my biggest lessons so far has been "When falling off the horse, you must get right back on it" as this applies to habits/personal change... If I let one or two more days go without journaling, Im essentially going to have to start all over again... so here we go, back on the horse I get. Much love -Kory

Hello amazing person, I am Kory , and here is my Day 1 of an official journey I mean to commit to. Welp, after a long time of messing around, here I am in a Salvation Army homeless shelter and now the quote that captures how I feel... "The Sleeping Giant has Awakened" I landed here last night. I have been living in my van for 8 months. I am 32, and my own self-sufficiency has been lacking. I've stayed back and forth with people and on my own, always moving between jobs, places, and people. I've always wanted to be a high level life-coach, but as I went down the rabbit hole to unreel the nature of life, I disassociated with most everything but my own addictions to gaming and staying high. I've definitely been stuck for many years more-or-less doing the same shit not going anywhere. But I have kinda riddled out the missing ingredients to the recipe for my own success, and it is certainly very exciting to be in a homeless shelter and letting go of the things holding me back... I was living in my van near relatives and just staying within a comfort-zone that was actually screwing me over. The week before, it was still entertaining suicide to some degree, but I just came to accept that I needed help and my identity was gonna have to be scrapped... So I deleted all my games , like "I have no idea how I am gonna spend my day if im not binging out, but we will see!" Well I had an incident that pissed me off enough and I had just enough resources to go, so I just said "Thats what I gotta do, go get a fresh start on my own, and cut all the things not getting me results, and it will just have to work out somehow" So I got a call back from the shelter the following morning after I relocated to a nearby metro, and met a cool person that I've been vibing with as I feel myself coming online more and more... Its like recalling the better versions of myself like its just who I am now. Its pretty cool at the shelter, (i mean there are "bad" people to be around more-often-than-not, but helpful good people as well) I am getting 2 free meals/day, shower, laundry, place to get mail, state health insurance , getting a waiting list for a house in 1-2 months , got a bed , and daily life-skills training (reminding me of like military bootcamp but the homeless lite-bootcamp version) , and signed up for mental health stuff... Definitely something I didn't expect, everybody makes homeless shelters sound horrible but Salvation Army is pretty legit and I got taken care of within an hour of getting here. Well... I just wanted to work on writing/journaling and this felt like Day 1 to my journey... Really been a quick turnaround with going from depression/anxiety/existential crisis/etc to feeling like I am picking up with my better-self like riding a bicycle again. I have not had anybody to talk to for a long time, so I cut my time-wasting addictions out and I'm formulating a strategy for my own success... Like asking questions: "What are daily habits I should work on"" What content do I want to study" "Which communities should I get involved in?" "What are the most important+urgent steps to be taking?" I know people mention Leo's Start Guide here, I am also downloading Optimize app by Brian Johnson, enrolled in free online philosophy courses , have some old personal development masterclasses to go back through, looking at some free self-development training workshops from these online ads, reading some books, going through more good youtube self-actualization (Joseph Rodriquez is a recent favorite discussing like Napolean Hill like subconscious inner-talk stuff, and Tom Bilyeu rocks too) I dont really know what my goal is , but I know my passion is teaching in the 'transcendence' category , and I want to get online making money... I've just always avoided trying to start my own Youtube / TikTok channel, but I am gaining confidence from being in this shelter and meeting this guy who has been showing me around giving me the newb-tour , and its just wild that I assume I would be incredible, but I'm also my own biggest critic , and I am beginning to see the more I push myself to express what I am about, the more positive feedback I get and more pace I pick up with it... So this day feels differerent, it seems the spiral has begun its upward climb, and I've been waiting for the day I would see myself getting momentum again, because I knew I would have nothing to look back to again... And now it begins... "Fly, Phoenix, Fly" Question : When a Phoenix rebirths, is it Day 1 for that Phoenix? Is that an accurate metaphor??? Lmao idk, what do you think? Glad to read any comments you wonderful people wanna respond with. Much love -Kory Added a couple snapshots of this Salvation Army place... i just want to provide information that this place is pretty chill, not as bad as I had thought! Legit got my bed right across from buddy I had met, and there is a pile of tobacco behind my shoulder like community sharing lol.

How do you feel about your life? Dont be afraid to ramble. Its all good here. Much love -Kory