KoryKat

There are definitely kool-aid drinkers among us... But Actualized is not a cult... It's just cult-like with actual people that follow it like a cultist does. My pet peeve is these cultists that get on here answering every question like "You are God having a consciousness experience, we are all one" but they are arm-chair spiritualists that live with their parents smoking weed doing nothing to self-actualize/ get results in their life. The universal answer is not the only answer to every question!!!!!!! REEEEEEEE!!!

Owen Cook just put out a brand new free course , check a latest YouTube video for his Higher Purpose program, looks like 30-40 9 min vids structured in order Don't fall for the trap of letting your parents keep you there. You will be lazy and not really motivated, cuz they are providing for you. Start hitting the gym , helps build that fire up... Check out Wim Hof breathing on YouTube , super powerful technique for really getting that inner fire going Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory channel.. He put out several videos around Spring that were like "get your shit together" kind of topics Escaping Ordinary channel The App called Optimize (it has every category for personal development and sooo many books condensed to 10 min videos) Get around people that are autonomous and emulate them ... Be sure to read a few books on money/wealth , get an understanding of how things basically work

80% action , 20% theory Use a journal and track your progress... You will see patterns quickly across 4 short entries Look for mentor at the level above you. Accountability - tell your friend $20 for each day you fail Might search out barriers to next levels , sticking points common to your level. Challenge yourself and have fun! Aka Flow States S.M.A.R.T daily goal setting Practice teaching it, when you can teach it like to a 5 yr old, u really got it. And definitely shift your self-image to see yourself as the person you mean to be 100% commitment , not 99% Pump your emotional state 10/10 , like jump around cheering like your team won the tournament and your dream girl said yes to marrying and get that dopamine jacked up to max, peak emotional state (emotion = motion) Go to sleep and remember your day as if everything you wished for had come true , like instead of imagining your perfect day, remember it as if you experienced it earlier in the day Various techniques , don't overload yourself, (general rule of thumb is 2 habits per 30 days or so)

Hi, I am trying to find people at the higher stages of perspective (like Spiral Dynamics) and philosophy-centric community.. This community here seems warped to me, and there is no reason not to have alternatives. I have been looking for philosophy discussion forums, discords, local stuff, social apps... Or finding other gurus like Leo and their communities (ex: Brian Johnson, Tom Bilyeu) although I don't see open conversation happening really. Also like Facebook groups (Spiral Dynamics / Personal Development groups) although I detest Facebook... Reddit is really a curated content site so not really the best idea for small-guy discussions (which are more about our lives than bigger ideas sometimes) Have any of you looked into this and wouldn't mind sharing what you have come across? Honestly im lost... And I'm looking for people of similar development/ideas... But they all seem to leave more to be desired. Like this community also has restrictions so you are limited in how much you can respond, it just doesn't seem to facilitate any personal connection/relationship-building so it's like having your hands tied imo. Any suggestions, what other ways to itch that scratch of looking for similar-minded people for growing and developing ourselves through peer-to-peer support??

Im tailoring a little crash course for my friends to get caught up with this stuff, like "if you only have 1 hour a week to learn everything you need to know to get started, whats your first month look like?" Im working on being a life-coach and want my friends to get the most powerful content in shortest amount of time... So far here is what I have... (In no particular order) Leo's "Big Picture of Self-Actualization" https://youtu.be/JGw8IoqBt-c David Hawkins Theories Explained (Part 1 and Part 2) (im just going to link Part 1, but Part 2 excellent as well!) Another amazing amazing AMAZINNGG video, Joe Dispenza on Bilyeu's show for the ELI5 'what is my brain doing and how does it work" Then this one is more on the inspirational/provoking curiosity one , to lead people into actually *doing* the Wim Hof method. Simply put "Wim Hof method is a Cheat Code for giving me Super Powers" - **Couldn't Agree More!!** Like I said, I am trying to get my friends (and later on, clients) hooked into this stuff by showing them THE BEST content for making it simple enough they can digest. *Planting the highest-quality seeds to a Fully Actualized Life* Later on, Ill look to supplement in technique breakdowns and such, but its like "If I have *one* opportunity to blow somebodys mind outta the water, what would I show them?" Now the question is, What would *you* recommend to blow somebodys mind with a crash course to get them hooked... ?? (consider presentation and how ADHD everybody is and keeping it short and sweet as possible, down to under 1 hour in a single setting to leave a profound impact)

How many of yall are off your asses actually walking the walk like getting results ?? Are you hitting the gym?? Are you making 6-figure income?? Do you have a smoking hot sex life?? What are you doing besides preaching out your asses?? Arm-chair gurus , its time to be called out. Im not saying there isnt truth to it... im saying its one-dimensional naive laziness , being over-indulgent to "go-with-the-flow" while living in your parents basements. Seriously. What actual real results are you getting in life? Look at people like Elon Musk *actually* doing something and tell me how you measure up in terms of concrete success. Much love -Kory

Naysayers What does Self-Actualization mean to you????

I do. Thats why im here trying to help you. If you arent living life to your fullest potential to make your dreams come true... then you are doing it wrong. Im not a sugar coater. Im brutally honest. Much love -Kory

Bullshit 100% ive been sucked into that trap. Just being real with you, its a trap. Ask any serious professional like Leo. Leo takes a lottt of action, you are being delusional.

Weed fucks up flow states for me. 4-7-8 breathing works for me, with gratitude mindset , and "this is effortless" mindset Flow and Psychology of Optimal Happiness was hella good book, combined with Dave Aspreys tips on EmWave2 biofeedback tech i use. Much love -Kory

Way to hide from truth... keep hiding my dude. Its "toxic" because you are interpreting it as a threat to your fragile ego. Much love -Kory

@thisintegrated Umm are you okay? You do realize yellow/turquoise is orange also,right You dont become Turquoise without Orange. Ego much bud?? Also thanks, ive had a shadow problem at orange, so I do appreciate hearing that im learning to express it. Ive been the arm-chair guru. But ive been brutally self-honest and faced those inner demons and acknowledged ive been full of shit deceiving myself... because i havent had the results of my dreams coming true. Maybe you should ask yourself why your dreams havent manifested? Where is your website like Leos? got any books or content youve made yourself??

"General cultural values"??? In what reality do you live? if you want to make a difference in the world, it takes ACTION. Action gets results... thats not a general cultural value, that is just the reality all human beings live in. Nothing happens without action, this is fundamental... not cultural. And massive action is what it takes to make *any* significant impact. You want the world to change? Society to be better? It comes from getting results. Are these arm-chair gurus writing books or making content? Lemme know if so...mostly it seems like people doing fking nothing...and its obvious these same people dont know what they are really talking about when they answer *every* question like "Consciousness is everything is the only thing you need to know"... There is a reason Leo has TONNNSS of content...its because you CAN NOT oversimplify everything to "Consciousness is everything and thats that" cmonnnn wake up @Ryan_047 "immature spiritual ego" you nailed it...amen brotha

Yo! Bottom-line is - How do I go about getting my social media to show others who I am? I dont have cool pictures or any content... my Facebook is a dead fossil... just a bunch of old locals I havent spoken to in 5-10 years. When I post stuff, its like 2 people will see it (probably hidden to everybody) No IG, no Tiktok, no Youtube, no Twitter, honestly Im not into taking glamorous pictures whatsoever. If im gonna post content, Im looking at "heres a day in my life" and "heres interests I like to talk about" Any tips/suggestions? A guide to follow? A platform to focus on??? Seems like my Facebook would just need recreated altogether, but how do you even find/add friends nowadays? (Ive been temporarily suspended multiple times for spamming Friend Requests) If you are interested in doing something like this yourself, feel free to comment and say you are also interested / discuss. Much love -Kory

Your dreams... As Steve Jobs said "follow your heart and intuition, everything else is secondary" Look at the Ikigai venne-diagram and combine Flow States in search of your "passion" , and follow that calling in your heart/gut "Reality is wrong, dreams are for real" -Tupac

Mostly B.S. / Total B.S. I think it works like this... you read a list of 10 things about your horoscope... 3-5 are highly like you, 3 are kinda-like you, and 2 really arent... But you confirmation-bias towards the ones that do, and overlook the others/include them even though not actually accurate... I say mostly, because lets use Scorpios as example... everybody who knows they are scorpios subconsciously aligns into it, so its like a self-fulfilling prophecy. My opinion

Consciousness works on a vertical spectrum, lets say 1-10... We will distinguish this into Lower Consciousness (urges , cravings, binging on drugs, eating junk food) at scales 1-3... Mid-level Consciousness (doing chores, doing day-to-day general stuff) level 4-6 And Higher Consciousness (the desire to become all you can be, the side of you with dreams and ambitions, the inner feeling telling you 'I should go to the gym' and whatever else) ranges 7-10++ How can you tell which level you are in? Ask yourself "How do I feel" ... and you will have answer that corresponds to Negative/Neutral/Positive (I feel like ughhh / im alright / I feel fantastic!) This is directly... I mean DIRECTLY, tied to your Sympathetic / Parasympathetic Nervous System (fight or flight vs rest and relax) The key is to activate your Parasympathetic (rest and relax) 'state of being' (Protip, *mental* effort = stress) here is a trick you can do... while doing a chore, lets say yard mowing, you will have this voice in your head... you want to realign this voice with 'Effortlessness' so while doing yardwork, my body is getting tired, and the voice is like "oh man I wish I could hurry up and finish!!" Instead , brainwash this inner voice with a new dialogue "This is SO EASY, I could do this ALLLL DAYY" keep repeating this EASY, ALL DAY NO PROBLEM! , while doing belly-breathing (try exhaling 2 seconds longer than normally) and you can flip this switch to Parasympathetic Nervous System and seriously , the body aches will just VANISH ...and loe-and-behold, you have transcended suffering... for a brief period (basically its Flow-State hacking) If u got money, invest in something like the EmWave2 by Heartmath, shit is CRAZYYYY at accurate calibration readings ... (I found the 4-7-8 breathing method to give consistent results with showing higher coherence levels... its flow-state + no * mental* effort , being relaxed , and DAMN if it doesnt give an INSTANT +20% cerebral clarity of mind ) Honestly I think most people are speaking out of their ass on here. Overly Eckhart-Tolle and not enough Biohacking

I LOVE OWEN COOK!!! picked up his mastercourses 15 years ago (Blueprint Decoded and other RSD ones) , went from awkward virgin to pimpin threesomes Saw him live like 10 years ago... THEN last year i saw him live for a 40 hour summit in Austin HOLY SHITTTTT IT WAS AWESOMMEEEE!!!! I was going nucking futs, blew out my voice twice screaming and getting pumped up. He actually told me "I like your energy" straight to me and it was like when a rockstar signs your hand and you never wanna wash your hand again. Gonna have to read through all this and drop some more comments , but Im a total Owen Cook fanboy cuz DAMN if he isnt INSANELY LEGIT... I wish so bad to live up to helping push his dream further , dude is a super hero if there ever was one.

OR if you dont have a particular video to recommend, what would you say is Game-Changing to learn that everybodys need to know? (Or a person who is legendary enough to sort through their content and find an absolutely killer video)

So I read that Leo had a problem with copycat groups, but *this* I dont understand. Rules: Recruiting members for chat-groups outside of this forum, including Skype, Discord, WhatsApp, chatrooms, etc. Recruiting members to start local meetup groups in your city Starting new spiritual communities, private groups, or cults like I really think its doing a disservice to humanity to forbid us from using this forum to meet each other and take it to chat-groups. Cant start local groups either??? How the fuck does that make sense. You are telling me we cant get a handful of people together to collaborate on our goals for accountability and support??? How does this align with Actualized's values? Seems pretty selfish to me. Is Leo really desperate for money that he sees anything like chat-groups to be a threat to his income? Might as well be Authoritarianism. I totally get the part about not starting competition , but *THIS IS IN NO WAY COMPETITION* Been a huge fan of Leo and defended him against many haters... but this really just makes me believe there was some merit to their sentiment. Honestly, if you are trying to do the world good and be good you wish to inspire... what is it going to take for people to start stepping up and saying *THIS ISNT ABOUT ME* because clearly these rules are about Leo and not the community at large and co-creating the world which we want to see. At least people like Owen Cook legitimately support groups being created among followers to co-enable each other. This forum actually just became a circle-jerk serving Leo in my eyes. Honestly, wont be defending Leo again on any youtube comments because this is selfish as it gets, and I dont follow leaders who arent down for cooperation and co-enabling self-actualization... i mean , wake up, Turquoise is the movement for cooperation and not this dominance hierarchy like Actualized.org has shown itself to be. Fuck the koolaid here. /rant What is the ultimate goal here of this website/community? Because my ultimate goal is seeing the world able to thrive at a mass collective level, and it sure doesnt pass the smell test that this community/website is aligned with that. If this rant gets locked/or myself banned, then thank you for showing me the true colors here and removing all doubt. Sincerely, a very disappointed mega-fan. -Kory

Hello wonderful person, I do not have a degree nor certification, but I want to be a life-coach I was thinking about starting on Fiverr or calling up local life-coaches and asking them about applying. I really have no idea on structuring something together. Lemme know! -Kory

yes thats what this thread is about, sorry you didnt get it sooner. Im fighting for something you dont even realize you need, my brother. I wish circumstances were different, and we could have time just bro-ing out in the real world. This is why im fighting for local collaboration, its not that we cant learn alone, its the feeling of being alive you get from real human connection, that no words or ideas can replace

how long has it been since somebody hugged you , looked you in the eyes, and told you they loved you?

but there is not an Accountability thread place on the forums here... And we live in a disconnected world and msgs are restricted time-wise and it can make real-time discussion and genuine human connection overly difficult/near-impossible its just sad that the rotten apples have turned this place into a place where people dont think we are here to make friends, and collaboration seems nonexistent... this isolation sucks! be the leader we need and do something to brings our hearts together in a movement to self-actualize as a collective... We dont know each other, really... lets work on something that addresses that, because its worse than ever. Leo, why be enigmatic? Why are you afraid to show yourself like a regular person being real? like theres an old video of u with a bunch of comments "omg he wears pants!" Everything has to be perfect with you. It seems like realness/connection is being overlooked and you dont want to mess with it , so its forbidden under the guise of other cults forming. Its whatever, if this forum wont be about it, then ill invest time searching elsewhere, because it will be answered one way or another...

seems like topics get locked when any mention of group-discussion happens ... id say most ppl would be the kind of ppl to go rogue/competing, but that doesnt mean its right to stop everybody from doing it... All im looking for is some sort of means to collaborate with others in the same shit that feels more real authentically/intimately... like tell people "hey we are starting Leo's Start Here guide, lets discuss our goals/sticking points and be mutually accountable. For me, i cant stand the social media world we live in... why forbid all local meetups for example? It seems like the dangers of splinter cells are taken to extreme levels of control/censorship. 1984-feeling for sure. If there was a way to really conduct it on here,i wouldnt bother like this... but there isnt even an Accountability thread group