Jecht Spencer

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  1. Most definitely saturated. Look at all the dead channels of youtube of creators that just never made it because they gave up. If you have a message worth while in the eyes of just a few thousand you can be successful. There are entire channels based on things you would never even expect (like cleaning, brushing your teeth, or insert random topic here.) I of course wouldn't hesitate to post your content on bitchute as well. There is an actual plugin that uploads all your youtube videos to bitchute as you produce them. Just put your message out there. Be consistent. Be Patient, I'd say the average time it takes most creators 2-5 years to actually hit a point where they can live solely off their income from online. It is a journey but it is entirely worth doing.
  2. Just gonna put this right here.... Evolutionary Psychology, Success, and Freedom. Book reviews, Motivational Videos. Podcast Guests. Would love to interview Leo one day. Maybe he'll entertain it when I hit 10 k haha.
  3. I like to follow Tai Lopez's philosophy on ingesting media and information on worldly events. If there is anything "crazy" happening in the news then most likely one of his friends will tell him about it. Falling to far into the media news cycle is a prescription for paranoia and outrage. The media is a tool used to sow fear and discontent into the populace. They are used solely to divide us so that the people f*cking us at the top remain in power. So take everything they say with not only a grain of salt but maybe a whole pound of salt. As to the alt-right continuum... I think the alt-right is but a small yet vocal minority of what actually represents the true laissez faire attitude of most people you would consider right wing. I think the Trump movement (populism) has not been the disaster that the media has labeled it to be. Hell from every measurable metric (employment, crime, economic growth) all are trending in a positive direction. Mayhaps I am wrong but I do believe there is a sizable amount of people on the left who claim to stand for tolerance and open mindedness but end up being everything but the very thing for which they profess. The amount of riots, crime, and anarchy that has spilled onto the streets during these so called "peaceful" protests are beyond disturbing. The problem is there is no nuance in every form of discussion. Everything is white and black. Right or wrong. There is no grey area in which to contextualize what is the actual issue. At the end of the day FACTS ARE FACTS regardless of how the human spirit or human emotion chooses to interpret them. I agree the sentiment that MGTOW is far to removed but I have an understanding as to why these movements exist. Some women (as do some men) simply refuse to take personal responsibility in their lives. The perpetuation of fallacies like rape culture, metoo, and toxic masculinity have pushed men away (and for good reason.) By the current standard that the court of public opinion reigns supreme even to that of the court of law. It takes only a single woman to say that she was violated to essentially tarnish a man's reputation forever. That is not to say that women who are truly abused/raped/sodomized by men shouldn't speak out on the contrary. I think that any man who would lay a hand on a woman in such a way should be buried under the prison. I think many of these conduits would even fail to exist if fatherless homes weren't so prevalent. Women initiate over 75% of divorces. This splits homes and oft time men receive 20% or less in custody battles. The majority of the prison system is a conglomerate of men and women who came from fatherless and/or broken homes. I think the absence of fathers at home has created a lot of this mess. I applaud you for being so open minded especially given your background as a Muslim. Just as there needs to be a more open minded debate in the alt right there also needs to be a more open minded debate regarding the religion of Islam. I truly do believe that the Islamic faith needs a great awakening similar to that of Christianity between the 18th and late 20th century. There are great swaths of Muslims who still believe that gays/lgbt should be put to death because of their lifestyles. A recent pole in the United Kingdom showed that of the Muslims poled in London 100% (yes 100%) believed that gays shouldn't be allowed to marry and 53% believed the act itself should be illegal (as in punished by law.) I think the alt-right movement is a bi-product of not only an attack on white identity but also a answer to the rising tensions in Europe from the mass integration of people who do not share similar sensibilities in life. I personally find all religion a redundant mess that causes more suffering then it actually heals but that is for another topic. Back to the alt-right premise. There will always be radicals on either side of the debate. I personally believe that we all have more in common then we believe. That if the world came together and over threw the true powers that be we could all live in peace and prosperity. For f*ck sake it is 2018 and we still haven't solved world hunger. We should be traveling space together not lashing at each others throats. At the end of the day we can argue (peacefully) and all keep our sovereignty. We must grow together (alt right, muslims, far left, mgtow, libertarians, communists, whatever!) to see that we are all human beings. -Jecht
  4. Text her the next day. When she texts back immediately call her. Give good emotions and set up the next meet. The phone is for one thing (logistics.) Don't waste your time being the "texting buddy." Set up the meet and go have some fun.
  5. Here is a list of books that have helped me personally and then I will list why. Some of these books may come off as unorthodox so bear with me. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle (http://amzn.to/2jVHGLd) The Power of Now is fantastic because it brings you into the present moment and out of your head. A big problem I see with guys trying to learn "game" is that they are thinking about pick up and attraction when they are out socializing. This gets them into their head (logic) and out of their body. Instead of getting into the emotion of the moment and into their body. The Power of Now focuses on the present moment which is ideally the best place to be when interacting with beautiful women. Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Micheal Knight (http://amzn.to/2kkoNjU) This guy worked with RSDMax as an assistant for a while. if you are familiar with concepts that Real Social Dynamics talks about then this book will not teach you anything new. With that said this book is a great correlation of all of RSD's teachings that anyone can begin to implement into their dating life. Ideally this book encapsulates the core principles of how "game" actually works so you can stop reading and start taking action. The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida (http://amzn.to/2kLvMCQ) This book is required reading. While I don't agree with everything he talks about the core message of the book resonates at such a core level that many men should begin to embrace. That is this: Women are not the number one priority in life. Your purpose is your number one priority. By pursuing a goal that doesn't require the warm embrace of a woman you put yourself in a level of abundance. For most men they continually strangulate relationships and overcompensate with women trying to show how "great" they are for her. This persistent neediness only pushes women farther away. Work on creating a badass lifestyle for YOU and women will be the icing on the cake to an already amazing life. I've read dozens of other books on the subject but these three are more than enough to get you into the dating game. There is NO AMOUNT of books you can read that makes up for the actual experience of going out and talking to women. Game is not logical. It is emotional. So get out there and get some experience. Crash and burn because you will suck shit when you first start and eventually over time you will learn what works and what doesn't. Then you can start building some success. Hope I helped. Good fortune to you my friend.
  6. Unless you flip the script.
  7. Same. Women go out to night clubs for the specific reason to meet guys. Why not take rejection on the chin like a man and deal with this awkward phase. Or you can quit and start the blame game but no one is going to miss you.
  8. An entire thread dedicated to your f*ck it (bucket) list... I'll start us off: Backpack from Vietnam to Ireland Scuba Dive off the Coast of Austrialia Go to Burning Man (Experiment with Lots of Drugs) Star in a Blockbuster Film Go on a Meditation Retreat Hold a Black Belt in Mixed Martial Arts Own a Castle with a Vineyard Champion an Education Society Champion Common Sense Drug Laws Own a Multi-Million Dollar Business Go to Oktoberfest (Drink good German Beer) Have Five Kids (or more) See a Firework Show on Chinese New Year Go into Space Shoot a Weapon on Full-Auto Read all the Tombs of the Ancients Partake in an Orgy Drink my own Homemade Wine Join a Fight Club Be a Member of a Secret Society Paint a Self-Portrait Build a House Die a Happy Man What are the things you want to do?
  9. No but they will be some awesome experiences that is for sure. Leo might be happy in a box and maybe one day I'll reach that level of fulfillment. Though coming from the Navy out to sea I can see it being a very similar experience and to be honest I never want to go back there.
  10. Arguably none at all. It gives you leverage to actually go out there and start up conversations with girls. There is no more easy way out. No more "Oh I'll just go masturbate and play some games tonight." Instead it's "Fuck I'm horny I'm going out and chatting up some girls tonight." Over the last 10 days I've slept with 3 girls none of which I would of had the drive to go out and meet if I had given myself the easy way out. Your testosterone raises by over 50% after just 1 week of not masturbating. The added drive extends itself into all aspects of your life not just dating. Everyone is different and I have heard the nay sayers say "I masturbate and it doesn't effect me at all." To those people I say "try it." Most people can't. They don't realize just how hardwired masturbation (particularly porn) has fucked up their own minds. They are a slave to it. Dr. Robert Glover talks about what is called "healthy masturbation." It involves no porn, no mental images of past lovers or future lovers. Instead it is focused solely on the feelings on the penis as it is being touched. Kind of like meditating while you masturbate. This type of presentness and overall satisfaction with REAL SEX (with another person) leads to a much healthier attitude about sex, relationships, and intimacy. Depending on where you starting try it for a week and see your results. No fap calls these results "super powers" and although I can't jump on that bandwagon I will state that the benefits have been pretty remarkable. Good Fortune to You My Friend, Jecht
  11. I did a video on this last week. I have been a major porn addict and masturbation junky for a majority of my life. Sometimes up to 12x a day or more. I've always had a high sex drive but only recently have I realized just how much harm it was actually causing my own mind. Since going cold turkey I've had a much happier life. I've relapsed but ironically my relapse happen on days that I've already sex (with a real in the flesh woman ooooo.) Not sure if there is a correlation. The key is to keep your hands away from your cock. Don't try to fight your urges with willpower. Rather embrace your lust and choose to act on it by channeling that energy into going out and meeting a girl or into something creative. Perhaps a sexually expressive piece of art. Also check out no fap on reddit. Whenever I have the urge to look at porn I instantly go to no fap to remind myself of the benefits of not masturbating. It is by no means easy. It has been equated to heroin or tobacco but ultimately you will perservere. Another more obvious point is to simply have MORE Sex. Nothing beats the real thing and those pixels on the screen are seperating you from a reality of horny women waiting to hop on your magic carpet. My video is here: https://youtu.be/W_e7ObpJG30 Let me know what you think. Good Fortune to You My Friend, Jecht
  12. It really depends on where you live. Just like business... location, location, location. If your in a big city like NYC, Chi Town, Miami, or LA you will have no problem going outside and meeting girls just going about your day. A majority of my pick ups come from day time as I'm going about my normal life. If your green as they come get ready for a lot of rejection but know that with each reference your taking a step forward to removing the bullshit that is stopping you from revealing your authentic personality. Most rejection... especially instant rejection is from lack of authenticity or lack of commitment in your approach (half stepping.) Night clubs are ideal for learning how to seduce women because of the sheer numbers but you will notice a higher level of protection or shielding from women as they move among a high stimulus environment filled with horny males half stepping 80% of the time. As to being creepy? You must RISK being creepy. What is creepy anyway? To one girl it is one thing and different to others. You WILL be rejected so get out of the batting 1000 mind set and screen girls who are RIGHT FOR YOU. I travel quite a bit and have seduced more than a handful of starbucks barrista across the states. Be present, be authentic, be direct. There are girls out there just as excited as you to have a strong man step up to her and take her on an adventure. Use apps like tinder, okc, and pof to supplement your nights out when your to busy and depending on your city you'll see massive growth with action oriented game plan to massively improve your dating and social life. Rant. Good Fortune to You My Friend, Jecht Side note: Only drink water when your out... no alcohol or it will become a crutch.
  13. I think meeting Elon Musk is something you could do today haha. No fantasy. Unless you deem it as such.
  14. We all get in a bit of money trouble every once in a while but this has been an ongoing problem for me since my first paycheck from a local meat deli that I used to clean slabs for when I was 17. I still remember coming home smelling heavy of ham and not in a good way. I’ve been working for almost eight years now and I have not saved one dollar in my entire life. I am coming up on the ripe age of twenty-six and tomorrow is my four month anniversary from being discharged from the Navy. Long story short I won’t be receiving any school benefits which is what I was putting my hat on and because of said situation I am now on the career path of an UBER driver until I get my finances in order. So I can than shift more time onto the things I am passionate about. That is where the Year of the Lamb comes in. The Year of the Lamb is that pain-staking year where you focus exclusively on one thing and one thing only being DEBT FREE. Every day is a GRIND that focuses on that freedom that comes with owing nothing to anyone. Debt is SLAVERY. Make no doubt about it. If you find yourself in that space where you fall on your face. Stand up, dust yourself off, roll up your sleeves, and go to work at destroying that debt every single day. You may find yourself doing some of the worst work known to mankind but keep that twinkle in your eye knowing that one day it will all be worth it. Living your DREAM LIFE is HARD. It takes WORK… HARD WORK to get to where you want to be. A good solid foundation is GROUND ZERO. That means zero dollars in the bank account and zero debts to anyone. This is the starting point for a good life. A good life doesn’t start with a dabble of passion. It starts with starting back at zero. No matter how much effort you multiply if you are still in the negatives on your bank account… you are going NO WHERE. Why a Lamb? A Lamb is slaughtered. The lamb is a symbol of SACRIFICE. Like every single person who has worked a meaningless drone job with the sole intent of making it to the surface. That dream life will happen but you have to start with nothing (not less than nothing) before you can become something. The age old "eat your vegetables before you eat your desert." Do you care for some lamb?
  15. I awake with two beautiful vixens at my side. I grumble out of bed stepping over the wine bottles littered on the floor and step out onto my balcony in all my naked glory. My butler steps in and hands me a cup of dark french pressed coffee and I watch the sun rise. Stepping back inside both my vixens eye me and beg for me to come back to bed. We all f*ck in a multitude of ways and then walk down the cliff side to the beach with a basket full of sandwiches and strawberries. We all swim naked, run along the beach, and lie naked in bliss. Before returning back up the steps to the castle because the night's festivities have not yet begun. Health: Mixed Martial Arts 170LB Body Wealth: $1,000,000 Annually Relationships: 5 Girl Rotation Happiness: Entrepreneur (Freedom)/ Adventurer (Travel) / Artist (Create Beauty) / Seducer (Deep, Wet, Passionate) H: G/A/DAY + 100 Challenge + Nature Hikes W: Book Reviews, Movies Reviews, Show, Daily Video Travel the world and have a ton of adventures. Star in a handful of films. Write at least three best sellers. Produce a movie. Have a world wide global brand. The end game being I have a house in Bali and a Castle in Southern France. Die a novel man with a big robust family and to be remembered as a renaissance man of his day.
  16. The name is synonymous with the content that comes behind it. It has a lot less to do with the name and more do with the brand behind the name. "Amazon, Zappos, Tesla, Uber." What do these names really mean? Nothing. They are just words that are now in conjunction with the service provided. It has a lot less to do with the name and a lot more to do with the content. You can make any name work. Of course if your trying to drive direct SEO traffic a direct domain name definitely helps. (i.e: If your selling real estate and you have realestate.com for example.) Another thing to look for is being able to have your name across all social media platforms... this of course helps with brand awareness. "Good Artists Copy, Great Artists Steal." Pablo Picasso Steal a name from someone you already respect and put your spin on it. You like Coca-Cola why not do Koka-Kola? The name is so arbitrary. Any name can become great if there is a quality product behind it. (Of course be smart...) (Leo is actually a prime example of someone who used a (.org) which is often a no-no in the marketing world and making it work anyway because he had the content to back it up.) Don't get caught up in a name... it really is arbitrary. Focus on your product and quality of content.
  17. Not everyone can be a personal brand. You say your content is good... according to whom? Not everyone can create a personal brand. I'm not trying to discourage you. Quite the opposite but getting the ball rolling is the hardest part. There is not such things as an overnight success. Keep putting out quality and quantity of content. Transcribe your content across all platforms. Once you hit that 100 subscriber it gets easier. Then you get to 1,000 and it get's even easier, and then it gets to... you get the point. Your current 70+ subscribers is 70 more than you had before you made your channel (TheDiamondNet.) Pay Key attention to you: Copywriting (Are you creating headlines that draw eyeballs?) Does your content resonate with your particular niche? Are you talking about things that the market actually wants? What is your Advertising Budget? (Facebook offers very targeted marketing at pennies on the dollar.) Are you leveraging social media to the max and are you making content that is in context with your medium (Twitter, Instagram, FB, Snapchat?) Look into Gary Vaynerchuk for quality personal branding content. Keep putting out value to the world. To be a thought leader you have to roll with the punches. Not everyone will resonate with your message but many people will. Be a person of great value and give as much of yourself as you can to whatever community of people you are serving. Go on Twitter and search (insert niche here) and go answer questions on twitter. Engage with your audience. Create depth not width. Don't be overly concerned with your numbers. They will rise in status. The early subs are always the hardest because you are brand new to the game but the snowball will grow in time. Create "avatars" for the type of Niche you are trying to resonate with... (based on your content I'm guessing women 18-36.) You honestly need to post more content too. I see the last day you posted was 6 days ago. When you are getting this early ball rolling ideally you should be posting every single day (with good content) and showing your subscribers that your serious about making content at the forefront of your particular brand. Again though it is about depth vs width. The numbers are all well and good but you what you should be looking at is feedback from your early subscribers. You are doing well with answering your comments you are getting. Continue to engage your audience as much as humanly possible. They want to be apart of the conversation. I'd personally reach out and contact people that inspire you. (Perhaps make a piece about Teal Swan and how she has helped you.) This will help you cross promote to her and (if you don't ask for anything in return) may lead to an interview with her later down the line. Again check out Gary Vaynerchuk he has great free content about how to grow your personal brand. I'm sure you can carve out a piece of your niche. Also remember to show some of your authenticity and realness. Your latest video where you show a bit into your personal life resonates well with people. They are essentially BUYING YOU. You are the brand. So do everything in your power to be you but be the BEST YOU. More content. Keep up the hustle. Start a list through your website to have return customers. (Create a Signup Section at the top of your website.) Also The Diamond Net being a (.org) is a little confusing but shouldn't hurt you to bad. Good luck. Keep grinding.
  18. Realize your shit is not together. Find out what your goals in health, wealth, and relationships are. Take action to completing those goals. Realize you have to take 100% responsibility for your life. Nobody is going to do it for you. Hit the gym at least 4x a week. Drink a gallon of water a day. Clean up your diet. Save 10% of your income and pay off all your debts. Flow towards your dream career. Talk to 5 girls a day as you go about your daily routine. There is no way to getting better with women other then going out and talking to women. Realize that you will suck when you first start... it may take you years to get good at this. But hey a few years for a lifelong success with women? Why not? Just remember. Take 100% responsibility for everything that happens to you. You are not a victim. You are a man. Living in the greatest time in human history. Start hustling and leave your mark.
  19. The number one thing women are looking for in a mate is "congruence." Are you being the man you present yourself to be? Women can pick up the slightest social nuances and are absolute masters at spotting bull shi*t. That age old wisdom "be yourself." Nothing can be more true. Good eye contact, voice projection, vocal tonality. Leading... lead, lead, lead, and lead. Girls are addicted to emotions. The reason why most women like the often idolized "bad boy" is because he is King at making her feel all different kinds of emotions. It is like a roller coaster. At one moment he is holding her close hugging her kissing her forehead and the next he's pushing her away (albeit lightly) saying "Oh my god your such a beautiful disaster I can't deal with you anymore." Then withdraws his attention from her. He automatically becomes a beacon of validation for the girl. Girls that are able to self-validate themselves are a RARE BREED. Hell even men able to self-validate are a rare breed (myself included at times.) Erhm... but we are talking about women. Don't pay attention to what a women says. Pay attention to what a women responds to. She might say "Be Nice. Buy Me flowers. Shower me with affection." She might complain about how her last 3 boyfriends were total a**holes and she doesn't want that. If she doesn't want that? Then why were her last 3 boyfriends a**holes? You get the point. Be respectful but she has to earn that right. To many guys throw themselves at the feet of women. This is the last thing a woman wants. She wants a strong man who will lead her into adventures untold. Into a night of beautiful festivities of lore and candor. She wants emotional roller coasters, a drive in a fast car, sex on the beach, a climb up a mountain to see the sun rise. Ok maybe that's a bitch much. The point is she wants an adventure, she wants to feel alive, and she wants you to LEAD. Create a we dynamic with the girl. It shouldn't be a you vs her frame rather an us frame. Be confident and step with authority. Make zero apologies for your desires as a man. Women want to be desired. Be cognizant of her feedback. Is she stepping back? Step back. Is she leaning in? Pull her closer. Is she playfully pushing you back or is she giving real resistance? Just be smart. Also understand that women LOVE men. With a capital L. They also LOVE sex with a capital L. Do not ever be dependent on a women's reactions. One girl might find you to be scum while another finds you to be absolutely intoxicating. Screen women. See if they fit into your bubble. Screen her beyond her appearance. Understand that seduction and love is just a beautiful dance between the sexes. Also realize that the person who is more willing to walk away has more power. Many men has emasculated themselves. They cower from the very thing that makes them so strong and handsome to women. Be a Man. Stand tall, be calm, and walk through the world with ease. Love yourself. Also if you remember anything from all of this remember this: People feel what you feel by the law of state transfer. If you want a woman to feel happy, horny, and affectionate. Put yourself in that emotional cocktail first. Take action. Women won't come into your life behind a computer screen. Talk to 5 girls a day as you go about your day. Go out and socialize. Also keep in mind that talking to girls is FUN. There is a reason why it is called game and not work. Boom.
  20. There is an old Spanish saying which translates roughly into "Being Lovers and Being Far Away, makes the two couples enjoy it very well." (Hence saying that long distance doesn't work.) If you are into self actualization. I assume you hit the gym, eat healthy, have passions in life, and are working every day to improve. I know there are some strapping young German men who would love to meet you. Find someone local. There are 80,505,033 people living in Germany. Surely some of those German men would love to meet you, no? My 2 cents. Good luck.
  21. I spent money to be among my mentors. They aren't in my life. To find the one's that I wanted to be around I went to one of their events. This is how I met Jeff Allen and Elliott Hulse. Neither of them are someone who I would call a "true mentor" in the sense I talk to them all the time. It is about being in their presence. If you get lucky enough for one of them to put you under their wing expect to work for literally nothing at least to start. Tai Lopez essentially worked for free with Joel Saletin for 2 years but when he left gained a network of the gods. Find the person you want to model. The thing is I focus more on "modeling" someone's behavior. Sure it might be cool to listen to what they have to say but ultimately I am more inerested in what they DO. This separates the people who ultimately have the "mind sets" of self-improvement and the people who get RESULTS with self-improvement. I want RESULTS. Tangible in my hands results. (More money, more women, more fun, etc...) I have a LOOOOOOOOONG way to go. You have to FIND your mentors... don't wait for them to just "magically appear." They won't and those that do won't be the best for you. It's essentially the same as settling for a relationship with a co-worker or a girl met through a social circle. Like I said I'm in the same boat as you. If I find a real gem of a mentor down here in Miami I'll let you know
  22. Mentors are huge. You have to pay some of them to be in their presence because time is money. The best mentors in the world charge. You aren't going to get an audience with Tony Robbins or Oprah without some bookoo bucks. I agree partially with what some people are saying in terms of finding mentors online but nothing (and I mean nothing) is nearly as powerful as meeting them in real life and learning. You are the sum of the five people you hang out with most. By surrounding yourself with powerful, successful, and educational mentors not only do you learn from them but you learn their mannerisms. You see with your own two eyes what exactly makes them so polarizing. Tai Lopez talks specifically about the law of 33%. You spend 33% of your time with adepts (people who need help from you), 33% of your time with peers (people on your level), and 33% of your time with mentors (people above your level.) To be around the best don't expect anything to come free. Nothing in life is free. Some mentors just spending 1 hour with you could be equivalent to them making ($5000.) Thus why a lot of them charge. As to finding them. Either pay them to learn from them or offer some form of value that can help them (internship for example.) Keep asking, keep asking, and keep asking.
  23. Interested in DMT's effects on the brain. People say it is a life changing experience... never see the world the same again.
  24. It is nothing more than platonic and facebook friend status I assure you. To be honest I feel a bit bad for my ex-fiance she has since not found anyone to replace me. Nor do I think she has dated anyone seriously. My other ex is now married and we keep light contact. The whole whimsical allure to both of them has lost a lot of it's potency. (Living in Miami can do that to a man.) So true though. When we were both engaged to be married we both acted on impulse. It was very clear though both of us were seeking more. I leave deep scars in people for good or bad. I will not be forgotten that is for certain. I still live a similar lifestyle. I live out of my car and essentially meet women for casual sex (and free showers.) I have a lot of growing up to do. I seek to be a modern day renaissance not a modern day nuisance. Thanks for the encouraging words @AlmostActualized