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  1. Posted

    1 hour ago, assx95 said:

    Your input was very valuable. I'd say thanks again. I would try rather than regret. But sometimes, things get deeper, such that when I surrender, the trying happens, by me just being and doing nothing. It sounds very paradoxical but it is more like reality. 

    Technicals (That is- the specifics of " How do I do this"  and "how do i deal with this?") I think are questions which arise out of desiring things to be a certain way. And when you let go of that, temporarily, those don't matter. Your input however was valuable, thanks. 

    You're welcome

    Glad it helped 

  4. Posted

    30 minutes ago, assx95 said:

    I tend to send cheesy texts like you are sexy and you'd look great in a golden dress with straight hair. Something along those lines. I would say it is a kind of flattery. Sometimes I genuinely feel the urge to compliment, but I think i've overdone it by now.

    How old is she? Depends on her personality she will remember u and your words especially if she needs your attention. If not, she will forget easily and move on. 

    30 minutes ago, assx95 said:

    She doesn't initiate. And I did see how she was resisting my flirtatious advances by not acknowledging it.

    Either not interested in u 

    Or generally self conscious. Not admitting your compliments is insecurity alert. 

    30 minutes ago, assx95 said:

    She is self-centered too. Every conversation is about her. And although today is my day 5 of my No fap, I think i have run out of things to text her.

    That's because your biggest interest is sex and no fap helps u being centered. It seems that u r not really interested in her, u only care about sex, (that's not bad) and she can sense that. And she doesn't like it. 

    30 minutes ago, assx95 said:

    I have a feeling she doesn't take me seriously and is okay with me not being in her life. Although I act on my urges and text her when I feel like

    Better act and regret - than not acting and regretting of not acting. 

    30 minutes ago, assx95 said:

    And I have faith that she'd be my partner in the near future. 

    Maybe is true but maybe not. Don't base anything on that

    30 minutes ago, assx95 said:

    Is it wise to stop chasing ( which would mean, i would stop texting her when I get the urge to and just let it all go)

    I'd say chase and take your lessons. 

    30 minutes ago, assx95 said:

     

    or to keep chasing her ( to text her when i feel like, and also when I don't feel like when I feel like a lot of time has gone by and I ought to be in touch) ? 

    Text Only when you feel like, be yourself. Gain some confidence also. 

  5. Posted

    That's not what loa teachers say.

    "" Oh, I am thinking negatively. I should not be thinking that. Oh shit. That's bad. Oh shit. Another negative ""  

    This is raw guilt.

    Guilt is negative, is not advised. Ever. 

    They reach to be in touch, tuned in with emotions and observe and then choose how you want to feel and then choose the thoughts you want to thi k about and don't give your attention to other. That's it

    Always find things to appreciate.

     

     

    But if you feel negative emotions you're going to program yourself to be going to the same direction. So they suggest to try to shift your focus. By giving attention and then letting go as soon as you notice is not something you want. Pure choice. 

    Loa is my best teaching ever. Always works. Absolutely love it. ❤️

  7. Posted

    On 4/26/2020 at 8:18 AM, GodDesireOnlyLove said:

     

    about right now, he has probably taken some some pop corn and is in delight of all our bs battle rattle.

     

    That's so "guru" loool

    @Preety_India I don't get your point. You go here and there quoting people and saying "exactly". Have you ever had any female in your surroundings that watches porn like a "man" does or gets horny except when on pms? Maybe no? Consider this. 

     

  8. Posted

    Just because you are a man, one of 7 billion people,  doesn't mean that you know how other people feel and claiming it with such certainty. Also you're not a woman to see how it feels to be a woman. "ovulating blah blah" lol have you ever ovulated to see how horny or not!? No. So why? Lol

    Anyways. It's not wise to say  "it is what I say, end of story" 

  9. Posted

    The laughable part of this thread is that Leo don't seem to change his mind and always always insists on something that he seems to know. 

    And of course, men and women are equal, they both equal horny. Just as someone mentioned, they express it differently. Most women are raised to wear he "princess mask", you know, you can't do much with that. Also they have the consequences. It's different. But it doesn't mean they don't frequently get horny as men do. 

    Also, remember that men are watching porn from their childhood/adolescence and they rarely ditch this behavior for it becomes a part of their mindset. They think and feel like watching porn. It brainwashes their minds until is too late. Imagine that only. What you focus on, grows. 

  15. Posted

    On 3/30/2020 at 0:50 AM, Emerald said:

    I’m in the mood to do some Tarot readings now.

    Reply below with a question, if you’d like some Tarot-based insights on it. I’ll pull three cards for you and give a brief explanation of things to consider.

    Mind you, I’m not psychic. I use the Tarot more as an archetypal vehicle for mining insights.

    Hey Emerald. How have you been lately? 

    Tarot is fun. I'm watching several videos for entertaining purposes and they keep me company whenever I'm bored and sleepy before night sleep. ? (T.M.I, ?I also love asmr) 

    Q :  Am I going to travel in May? I was supposed to, but due to corona shit... I'm not as sure now. 

    ? Thank you. 

     

  16. Posted

    7 hours ago, Aquarius said:

    Heyyy whatsup?

    I found a guy and we are in a relationship now. He is tall, kinda smart, loves to talk, shares my interests, very kind. Can't see him because of CoVid quarantines..

    Sometimes I feel like I wish I was single. This has nothing to do with him, but I enjoyed being single. I could make love with whoever I wanted, I could talk about anything with anyone without restriction, etc etc. I had many choices, and I liked the freedom. 

    Relationships naturally come with certain responsibilities and for some reason I feel suffocated. Idk why is that. It's bad enough that I cannot see him because of the pandemic, but even then I just feel like I miss my freedom. I did meet his parents, I am friends with his sister's daughter on Facebook, they are all very kind with me. I feel like a new family member, which is nice. 

    He is the first person I can actually bring home and stay with him at home for long hours, my parents like him because he is very nice and smart.

    I feel like I lost my freedom, I used to be in a phase when I liked to explore life and meet people and just explore their minds and bodies.

    Then he came into my life so suddenly, and I liked him and I was single so we got together.

    We are not having sex at all because it's kinda hard with both of our families being around. I don't really mind since I never been the horny type, I just wish I could explore that part of me more, even if it;s kinda impossible with the pandemic. 

    So what do you think guys? Maybe I should ask him for some breaks sometime in the relationship where I go explore other people and he does too? I don't want this to ruin the relationship because he is a very stable and kind guy who never makes fun of me and idk.

    I just feel it is very new. For me being single always felt better. It's nice to feel I am someone's lover, but it can get frustrating and boring sometime.

    Any thoughts?

    Hello girl how are you ?

    Long time no talk. 

    Yes, you can talk to each other, tell him what you are telling us now. He open be vulnerable. He will understand if he loves you truly. 

    The best relationship you can have is the one with yourself. If you are okay with yourself, then everything falls into place. So your needs and desires must come first. 

    Communication is the best way to go. 

     

    ? Stay safe. 

  24. Posted

    It's too beneficial to go out of your comfort zone but sometimes it can lead things to become too dangerous for example if you are afraid of heights and you go bungee jumping in order to overcome your fear, you might get a heart attack or something if you go over your limits and not appreciate your FEAR (fear is not always wise to overcome-it protects you) anyways I gave an example to actually explain myself Idk if I chose the proper one.

    Or for example you might think that getting out of your comfort zone translates into letting know the person that you like you like them lol - just In case you do- sometimes expressing your feeling when not ready - is not always wise.