Nick5050

Hello, i have some struggle finding a job i will enjoy. I have been studying a bachelor degree in finances and insurances which is normally a 3 year's study. I had some difficulties completing it and after 5 years i quit this education program because i failed like 6 subjects and didn't felt like studying another year. Those 6 subjects where the last ones i had to succeed in order to obtain my degree. I started a job as an logistics worker in a pharmacy company and after 2 years working there i felt like i was stuck again so i decided to try to complete my bachelors degree again. So i obtained my degree in one year study while working full time. Now i graduated and i'm 29 years old with no experience in any corporate field. I made a few mistakes at my current job and gotten a written warning for things i don't consider that severe. Anyway i decided to resign from this job in order to look for something new where i can grow and obtain some skills. I was not learning anything new and i just stayed there so long for the comfort, good hours and easy work, the salary was medium. It was a hard decision but i didn't felt like it would be something i wanted to do for the rest of my life. Now jobless, the weather is awful and depressing. It's hard to motivate myself and apply for new jobs. Which i think will be more hours and harder work but i am not sure. I have also some side hustle i'm doing and making okay money on the side with that. I'm trying to find something i want to grow in and learn new things and that i will enjoy. I have good physique, communication skills and i speak 4 languages. I'm just not sure if a corporate job will be something for me? I've never tried it before. What cool jobs are there?

Born in Belarus moved to Belgium at 5 i'm 28 now studied higher education 'finance & insurances' quit last year after failing few subjects didn't felt like doing another year and waste my time and not making any money since i've been studying it for 5 year already and slacking and enjoying my student life a bit to much went also to erasmus for 6 months to Budapest Hungary. After quitting started to work in a Pharmacy/medication production centre which is situated right in the city centre with over 100 employees. Covid also started but the one of they few things that had to keep running is our business. Worked at logistics and kinda created my own team. Learned much about leadership, people (since i've seen so many come and go), women (since 60-70% is women) and communicating/small talk/making friends. This year i decided to pick up my education again and i've been combining it with full time work from start. I graduate in august and thinking about going for a new challenge in a an insurance company as advisor or expert. It's still hard for me to make the decision to leave since my current job became pretty easy and it's close from home and also i got used to it. And i made so much nice memories, friends and experiences. I'll see what i'm gonna do when i graduate. Also feeling like to take a few months break to discover my passion and create some hobbies before going all in on a new job. Since i still have to work atleast 30 years. Kinda like in a grey area right now in which it's difficult to make a decision i won't regret.

@MM1988 I feel what you are saying. I have been thinking the same for a long time. This is pure orange stage. The believe you have that you need to manipulate or act different to get something. Once you have been long enough in this stage you will realize that you get a lot more succes by just acting out of your own feelings and heart. Entering stage green will help you a lot but for that you need to see how egoistical you really are and stop caring so much about yourself. Start to care more about other people and this love will reflect back to you.

@GabrielWallace Oh now i understand. Seems a little bit to me like she's using you. Why do you have to pay for everything even though she is working so much? What things do you guys do together on regular day basis? I mean if she is all time working and when she gets home you can't even have a conversation. Maybe you could try to take her out to a bar or a restaurant. In those places you can talk about those things and then she will not have much chances to run away or distract herself with.

Focus on your goals bro no need to have the goals alligned. Trust me you don't want to have same goals. Just respect each other and and if you want to make a change in your life. Just say it to her and hopefully she will respect it and help you. But there is no need to have this big conversation about your next 5 years plans and where she has to allign or agree with you upon

@Hardkill I don't consider myself a specialist but i think it depends on what city (small/big) you live and what country. It also depends on what place (club, school, public place) and the presence of the girl (is she open or just standing with her friends not trying to make any contact). But i think girls don't get approached that often. I have done few approaches and one time a girl said 'i like the fact you came to talk to me, not a lot guys do that'. and i was really i thought you get approached all the time.

@Consilience Your life purpose connects pretty much with the 1st business you thinking to start up. It's about health nutrition and fitniss. The most best and strategic way is to first start your initial business. Even though it's not your ultimate life purpose but from there you can grow into this yellow based business. It will definitly take some of your time but look at it like this. You will receive knowledge, experience and if it is going good financial stability. After a while you can start your life purpose business. Your initial bussiness can still exist (if it's a training center simply put a good manager to take care of it) or you can also sell your businiss ofcourse.

@Martin123 True that i wish i could express myself like that. Need to do some work on it hehe It was nice talking to you. I wish you the best

@Martin123 I was just thinking about it. Let it break you. As hard as possible. Take some time but eventually stand on your feet and keep going and try again. Life goes on. I don't think start hating women and joining these incels or MGTOW movement will do any good. This summer i was on the lowest edge possible because of this girl that i loved kept ignoring me. I was feeling so sad. I wanted to hate women. I started to read/watch these MOGTOW videos. But eventually i got over it and have learned so much. I am much stronger and better with girls now. And looking back these sad times were actually the most beautiful ones. It's hard to admit.

@Martin123 Connection with your feminine side and translating it into the universe by giving. Being vulnerable. But keep on going. Don't let it break you. Staying positive

This is beautiful. Don't you think that this is what masculanity is? i can totally relate

@Martin123 Let's say we are contemplating hehe I have difficulty understanding this. I have not really thought about how men or myself receive things. I'm talking more practically. Just discover for yourself how girls react to things you say/do and how does it differ from guys. Men have more power then you might think. I totally agree. I just said it because a lot of guys are seeking this support with the girl. This is how co-dependant relationships are created. I once had a 3 year relationship with a girl but the foundation came from 'being in despair'. In the beginning i was so so happy. But after a while it just doesn't work. I don't know maybe it can work for others.

It's okay man, i like argumenting. Honestly, that is totally fine. I am myself like that. I grew up all my life with my mother and 2 sisters. But i am more talking about the attraction fase. I'm just saying that YOU have to make the move/approach and stop bitching around. And if you are not having success go next there is plenty of fish in the sea. Once you have some kind of connection with he girl you can talk about your feelings and stuff

@Mikael89 i agree with you bro. It's not about what you have(money, looks...) but more about how you can make the other feel. And here comes personality into play. Women are meant to receive. More specefic if you say something she will receive it process it and give you a response based on what she is feeling at that moment. If you are so obsessed about how you look like you are not really giving anything.

@cori do you smoke weed or take any other substances?

@Eric Tarpall Here is what u need to get a girlfriend. - Wanting a gf (my opinion is they occupy a lot of ur time and energy) - Sleeping place - mobile phone - Some money to buy food or drinks - Confidence - Humor - Be detached (not a creep or needy) - be social

@MrEgolessYes food is necessary to survive. I don't understand what you are saying.

i don't know but you could try shamanic breathing. Helps to deal with trauma and surpressed feeling or emotions. I've done it like 5-6 times few months ago and it helped me. Just relax while doing it.

I made this post to address my gratitude towards your work @Leo Gura. It is sad that a lot of people simply are not interested in the content that is being put out. Because in my opinion this content is gold. I think the most important videos you have put are: "sameness vs differences" 'spiral dynamics' 'what is actuality?' Do you agree? These videos are so profound, a normal person would never understand it. I watched the sameness vs difference video like 2,5x times. I live in Belgium but im on a internship in Hungary right now and i have verified so many things you talked about. Especially spiral dynamics. (i have a stage blue flatmate from Azerbajian who is stage blue) I am not kidding but the spiral dynamics model is so fcking accurate. I also see so much things are the same but within so much things are different. And people look so much at the differences! If you can find sameness between people from other countries you can become such good friends. I am to lazy to go in detail right here but i hope you understand my point. I am also not taking 'enlightment' and 'oneness' material to serious because i think i am just not ready yet. I need to get my shit together (having financial stability first) before i dive deeper in enlightment. I need to evolve from stage orange/green first. My opinion is also that some of your videos are just to advanced like 'oneness' and 'what is intelligence' and 'stage tourquoise' videos. I like the videos like you put out today that is very practical and helps you evolve further. I just want to say i appreciate what you are doing! And i also have a feeling a lot of your content is coming from practicing 'what is actual?' and seeing the differences and sameness am i right?

@Charlotte People don't like when you question everything they are saying. The best thing is just listen and be openminded. Take away the lesson from the interaction --> example how do people think about certain things. It is very hard to change their perspective and most of the time they will get frustrated and just walk away from you. Them. "Hey Charlotte, have you heard the latest news?" Me."Oh what's that?" "Scientists have discovered that ______ (fill in the gaps with what you wish) Me. Oh that's nice. What do you think about it? Them. Oh i believe it is a good discovery and it is usefull because...... *now you have a nice conversation by listening to the other person opinion* You learned how the person thinks about things and you respect their belief or opinion. it Doesn't mean you need to agree with what they are saying. Example you learned: he believes in science. Isn't that nice to know?

@Leightonm I recently have quit smoking (from 1 october). How did it happen? I was just so sick of it. You realise how pointless it is. EVERY SINGLE DAY you are doing the same shit. You wake up make coffee and smoke a cigarette. That stimulation giving u such a kick and produces endorphines in your brain which make you feel good. After a period you are getting emotionally attached to it. Apart from the physicial addiction (which is the easiest part when quitting) you have build an emotional addiction. I have tried many times to quit but this time it actually worked. I am from Belgium (europe) and i'm currently on a exchange erasmus program (student) in Boedapest (Hungary). Changing my environment MADE A HUGE DIFFERENCE in quitting smoking. Factors that have an impact: Absence of my friends (who are all smokers) Moving out to different city all along puts you in a survival mode. You have to think about so much things especially when not having a big travel budget. You realise how expensive smoking is and actually you don't need it that hard. Different social view on smoking here. Less people smoking. You don't see so much people smoking in your environment so you think less about it.

Hello everyone What is the difference between being emotional and emotional control? I mean you have to put yourself vulnerable and start feeling different emotions that are occuring in your body. But what does it mean to have emotional control/mastery?

I like this question, can you answer this please.

Truly eye-opening video @Leo Gura. Made so much things clear. Also made me grasp the importance of doing contemplation. Just the fact that we shouldn't use it for egotestical reasons is hard to swallow for the ego (last thing u said in the vid). It amazes how much u know about all these aspects of life. Can't wait to start discovering for myself.

Hi, my name is Nick i'm 23 years old and i live in Belgium (Europe). I try to keep my story short because i mainly want to have some feedback and thoughts on the Shamanic breathing technique. I watch Leo's video's for a few years now. And i tried to meditate but i never could set the habit. I have created a lot of bad habits and addictions in this period. Basicly my life was/is going nowhere and time is passing by very quickly. Because of this i often get thoughts which leads to feeling bad (negative emotions). So it's like a cycle that a lot of people are familair with: Feeling bad/ having nothing to do> hiding it with bad habits (gaming, alcohol, weed) > problem not solved > feeling bad again > ... But then Leo has uploaded the Shamanic breathing technique. I was very curious so i tried it out. My first experience was amazing. I felt an altered state of mind. I could think very clearly in that moment. And by doing that my negative emotions/thoughts disapeared by just thinking about it. So i have done it a few more times and each time i felt myself feel different and become more aware of what is happening in reality. In total i have done the breathing technique like 6 times (30minutes). Fun thing happened the last time i've done it. I did the breathing for 30 minutes and then went out to a bar with a friend. I was feeling very calm and like a 'not giving a f state'. So to keep this short. I asked a (very beautifull) girl for her number and she gave it to me. We end up meeting eachother for 4 days in a row now. Keep in mind that i was +2 years single before this night and never would do something crazy (like asking a number/ looking very deep in the eyes while talking). The negative part is i still keep doing my bad habits even after the breathing. I don't know maybe it will fix itself after i have done more breathing sessions. Because these habits are very deep rooted. So my question is: Can u keep doing the Shamanic breathing technique instead of meditating? And are there any negative side effect of doing this breathing technique for multiple times? I ask this question because i start to feel like i'm living in a dream. In other words can i go insane by doing this? And also share ur own breathing experience in the comments. I'm very curious to hear about how other people feel.