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Yes, anyone can do this work

this would be orgasmic. the book is not a fun read

@Butters yes same exact realization for me. depending on future successes for happiness is so silly. because life is about the journey and the adventure. not just the end goal the future success won't even make you as happy as you thought it would. especially if it's a low conscious vision

@outlandish i did lol

@Raphael i think he talked back to someone in HR

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Spiral Dynamics Examples Mega-threads: Discussion of Stage Coral: https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/22978-spiral-dynamics-stage-coral/?page=2#comment-255806 Summary of all of the Spiral Dyanmics videos: https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/23215-link-to-pdf-documents-for-all-the-actualizedorg-spiral-dynamics-videos/#comment-256555

its perhaps too advanced

Sooo this is what RSDtyler said a few days ago: "I keep fucking falling into this trap. I read posts like this, and I think "Ya I'm being too extreme". Then I meet a "good girl" and I try to game her without all the fuck-boy stuff ......... and I get SHUT DOWN. The girl will even say "I just want to meet a guy who runs a business and doesn't do drugs and has a level head" and it's like HELLLOOOOOO I'MMMM HEEERRREEEE!!! And then they go date a drug addicted degenerate. I fall back into that trap because of the negative influence of this forum and mainstream society that keeps telling me "A high quality woman will appreciate a high quality guy". Which is just flat wrong. I'm a high quality guy and I like HOT women. I often date Instagram models and strippers because they are insanely hot. You can laugh at this and call it a flaw in my character, but when you have a perfect 10 professional hottie riding your cock.... I gotta be honest, there are few physical pleasures in life on that level. So if I fall into the same trap, and I'm a quality guy I think ... then i gotta remind myself that women do too. And stop believing this "quality attracts quality" bullshit. Humans are humans. We like to feel super super super good whenever we can. So be a sexual guy with women and they will appreciate it. Stop correlating all this career and personal development shit with getting laid - too idealistic, not based in how reality actually works. Tyler" So does Tyler mean this exclusively for having sex and getting laid at the club? So does this mean getting laid as not orange will be difficult? Or because hes too orange value system and doesnt know better?

@Sahil Pandit 100% agree it seems like your need for a book is another escape from not doing the contemplation ponder if thats true and shift your focus to action and when you TRULY need theory, thats when you go get it

Hmm you're saying Leo falls under TJ's trap, but Leo is extremely big picture thinking about this I don't think Leo is boiling it all down to "all problems are caused from the ego" Because Leo approaches it with a multi-faceted approach At least so I thought? So is he saying... There's more to it than: Leo's "awareness alone is curative?" and Leo's "all problems are solved by an increase of consciousness"

@hedge this is fucking hilarious wait is that guy a comedian? okay, he said cunnilingual... hahahaha

@stevegan928 You could build some good friendships and crash at someones place! Or save up some and live in a foreign country Or build a green relationship with a girl, and live with her you have options!! brainstorm is your friend

For Green, you'll like Brene Brown's work. Her books are about vulnerability, compassion, connection, which are green values

@aurum

I feel so indoctrined from RSD culture into thinking that I have to be alpha to get the girl. It's really actually possible to get a girl from being VULNERABLE? You're saying do game with your insecurities on your sleeve????? WHAT??!! I NEED TO SEE THIS IN PERSON I HOPE IT"S TRUE authenticity is scary. but i think not being authentic is scarier

I tell my sister all the time. To achieve what you want, do what needs to be done. Read all the books, take all the action, embrace all the emotional labor. Take baby steps. Make sheets that remind you of your vision, keep you hopeful. Get creative, problem solve your challenges. It's all in your hands - you're 100% responsible for your life. Simple. But challenging. I also tell her, listen to your own advice! Which I must take my advice about listening to your own advice

Keep it up!!! Don't lose the discipline!! by the way, you will have easier days, hardish days, and SUPER hard days. On SUPER hard days, it's crucial you stick to your habits. Because it's those days that your will is tested.

this was thing that caused the most results for me, id highly recommend going to a center instead of your pill. neurofeedback is permanent, fast, cheaper, 5x more effective and has phenomenal reviews in curing mental health. sounds too good to be true honestly. I am 100% confident in its ability to *nearly* replace all pills for mental health. However, big pharma is a massive obstacle I highly highly recommend you read leo's book on this in the book list. after i experienced the benefits for myself, i wanted to share it to the world. the best knowledge is not mainstream!!

After realizing many of Leo's videos correspond to Spiral Dynamics, I thought it would be useful to have Leo's videos in a spreadsheet corresponding to each stage to help us grow If you see a video that should be in a different stage, it would be appreciated if you moved the video around. Or if you know of a video that I haven't included and would be beneficial to include! I've actually made the spreadsheet free to edit. I'm not sure how well that would work, so I made a backup just in case. Link to categories (community editable): https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1zYyLlH0miD1ar8eSZRJM1qa1Wq2EiTev0JMjZwD10eU/edit?usp=sharing Link to categories (backup, non-editable): https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1oIeXCeb38TY5vpy9k03F3VDQFpD93NHwdxkaOAxs4p4/edit?usp=sharing

My dad said when he was in 2nd grade, there was a boy in his class that wrote a love poem to a girl. The teacher found it and punished him. She beat the living hell out of him (this was in India, where beating your students is legal) I can only wonder how this affected his confidence with girls later on. I said this story just to let you know that we all have our traumas. Some more than others. Accept what you got and do the best you can. Understand you still have amazingly high potentials in life, if you just work for it. Forgive those who have hurt you, and become conscious of the fact they knew no better, and if they did, would probably not have done what they did. Sorry if this was too blunt lol.

@Freakrik my perception of this is that you see the super vocal and crazy ones on youtube i'm thinking the vast majority aren't actually like that

Personality: Feminine, Kind, Loving, Big heart, Fun, Playful, Mentally stable, Conscious, Stage Green, Must be decently open-minded, has a strong degree of self-love & self-esteem, cares about her development and future, healthy eating, loves sex, Characteristics: A lot less picky here as it's less important for me. Brown, cute, ass

My opinion and understanding of drugs for mental health: These drugs don't fix the root cause, only symptoms. People experience a wide variety of symptoms from taking the drugs. A small percentage actually say they've experienced major improvement, as well as a small percentage saying that they experienced very negative benefits. I've heard many problems with these drugs, such as addiction & numbing of emotions. I'm sure there are many more. I'd also look into latest research of the drug, but keep in mind drug companies sometimes facilitate the research on their drugs. I say this because, I was once prescribed ineffective medication, so I didn't take it. Generally I'd avoid them, as much healthier, more effective options, and root cause approaches are available. Some healthy forms of treatment include, Neurofeedback (check Leo's 40 ways of self-actualization) Socializing Doing something activity you find enjoyable Meditation 20-30 minutes of cardio I'm also open-minded to them being used as a tool in certain situations, perhaps temporary or you are extremely desperate or as needed. But you would need to understand yourself, your nature and if it's right for you. Generally I'd avoid them though