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  1. In a traditional relationship a man would be happy to buy things for you and be generous.

    So either you don't have a traditional relationship (ie. you are more in your masculine energy and he may be leaning more to the feminine) or there is something else going on.

    1) 5 Love Languages: Everyone has different love languages, talk about them and understand your and your partners love language.

    2) The issue is his relationship with money in general. If he is strict with his money and cheap in general, of course he will project the same on you. Or as others have mentioned, like trauma or saving for a specific cause.

    3) It could also be, that he is not happy with something in the relationship and that is what is making him decide not to spend on you on purpose. But then he would switch from generous to cheap, back and forth in different phases.


  2. 42 minutes ago, Galyna said:

    Right, she will drink coffee and will go home. I mean what a normal woman would want to sleep with a stranger or a guy she barely knows? Unless, she is a desperate loner and never been with a good guy. For woman to desire a sexual connection she must be in love. I am talking about normal healthy high value women here.

    Are you talking about love or Love? :x


  3. How old are you?

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     I could leave the possibility of a relationship open in theory, but only commit if I'm fully convinced and emotionally on board (which to me seems inconceivable at the moment).

    Just tell her this when the topic comes up. Honesty wins.

    You are not the only one who doesn't feel ready to commit. You will find other women who feel the same.


  4. You have to decide what you want. Do you want to have a career or a purpose.

    Thinking that there is not enough money in chess is a limiting belief.

    You can find out where your interests, strength and weaknesses combine best for a career or purpose with enough experience working different jobs/internships or talking/reading/listening to people who did.

    You got this!

    :x

     


  5. You have put a lot of work, making the time for and doing the action.

    Now you also want to supplement with working on your inner game.

    You psychology, your mindset, your emotions.

     

    On 29/11/2023 at 4:48 PM, Indianonymous said:

    What's even MORE frustrating about this... Is that I have a LOT of tangible proof for myself to see and should be enough to 'close my mind with logic' that dude, you ARE good enough, why the heck is this still bothering you?

    See this is not how it works.

    Real Growth comes from changing yourself.

    You won't feel more ready by just getting more muscles, more money or more girls.

    This won't change yourself much.

    Some people may get sadder when they achieve all this outside success.

    Because now they don't even have the hope that they will feel better after getting X.

     

    You want to question your core beliefs about yourself and others.

    Going inside.


  6. 9 hours ago, k-ahmadzadeh said:

    I would challenge this position with the question of "How can an ugly person love himself or herself?" (I don't consider myself ugly, but this is a radical way of challenging the validity/utility of the concept of self-love)

    Sometimes I give members of this forum too much credit.

    The question you are asking is like asking how can an ugly person be affected by gravity?

    Embrace the Truth.

    ❤️


  7. If you don't make fast paced easy entertainment videos you won't get millions of views that easily on YouTube. You have to be clear on what you want. Be it views or artistic expression of your core values.

    That being said, there is always room for improvement. See if you could sprinkle in some humour. Tell your audience to engage with a graphic that they will see. Make chapters that show in your video.

    Add more context. Tell me what I'm going to get when I keep watching (and what I'll miss out if I click away).

    Personal connection is hard to build with the kind of video you posted but greatly valued on YouTube. See if it would feel right for you to play with this dimension in your videos.

     

    I would try to find a way to generate more views from within the platform.

    Keep it up!