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This is a question that is loaded with agenda, when people answer them. For example Hayle Quin (didnt know her but she is amusing), as a dating expert she might have an agenda in mind. Random girls you ask maybe want to give an attractive answer. Also for some girl being approached often means to her 2 times a year, while another girl might sees 2 times a day as often. Its like asking people "do you get a lot of money?" - its different for everyone. Why do you feel its such a burning desire in you to know - is the better question I would say.

Have to agree with the others. If you had ansered with any other LP I would have told you to go directly for that. But as it alignes well with your LP and you are still unsure about your LP, go for it! You already know what you should do, stop being afraid and nicely lulled in with your current idk phase and do it!

Not being happy is kind of the first ingredient to become rich. If you are already happy there is no need for change, nothing to manipulate to. Somehow I had to think about all the self help books and spiritual teachings out there. People exchange money for these kind of things. So you could write a book or hold a seminar. I think its really hard to master your emotions and most people dont even know that they could benefit so much from it. So maybe first start to spread awareness about emotional mastery.

Work smart, find the thing you are good at and let other people do the work you are not so good at. I feel your desire to change the world for the better. But dont get lost too much in your thoughts. Reality is already perfect. I feel like the best advice I can give is that you look deeply into your motivation & vision for working long hours. If they have anything to do with "low consciousness" values like a desire to feel important, feeling like you need to please people, wanting to be admired, get you material success, play your role or thinking it will make you happy. Stop and do more inner work instead of lp work. Get rid of all these motivators, they will make your life miserable. And you will regret working so much. Maybe after freeing yourself from these, you will naturally cease to work so hard. On the other hand if your motivations are "high consciousness", like love, connection and contribution. Work away! Work as much as you want. Your life will get fuller and fuller each day.

Thanks, really needed to read this Now we know what a good woman is but whats a good man. A man with fearless consciousness?

"You" dont go about enlighten a tree. Just as much as the first human to experience enlightenment didnt have anyone doing it for them. You can only get there by yourself. So you dont have to bother with that, as the tree doesn't need you. I always view most animals (animals in nature) and flora to be kind of unaware enlightened. They have no ego, they are just being. As everything really. But humans have this special skill that they can think. Because of this skill we become aware of ourselfes but disconnected from being. Only by mastering this skill "thinking" you can get over this barrier and become connected to being again. Which you could call aware enlightened if you will.

I feel like 2-3 times a week is healthy for me if I dont have sex. Maybe once if you are busy. I wouldnt say porn is healthy but if you dont get addicted to it, its not too unhealthy either.

Just notice that you already are. To all people, everything there is.

can you tell me which music you mean?

The link is ego.

I always make the analogy that life purpose is like the ultimate race car. It will make you happy like nothing else in this world can do, no relationships, no yacht, no house, no sex will be on that level. It is the greatest gift you can get. When you are on track with your life purpose its like activating the "easy" mode in life. However hard and long hours you are going to work. So yeah it can be seen as a distraction. Who is distracted?

Great advice! So you mean a video where you talk about what should be in the proposal and how you use it to make the project or something more general? Do you have an example maybe?

The high conscious way is to be aware of your negative thoughts and believes. All your insecurities are literally caused by a lack of awareness (Remember, there are no problems in the now). But all good, most girls are also insecure. Insecure about their jobs, their looks, social interactions.... whatever. The one thing I would focus on is your confidence in regard to them (girls, specifically the girl you are talking to / dating right now). This is the biggest one, as it manifests in the moment when you talk to her or want to get physical. Notice any negative thoughts arising, accept them and let them go. Notice any negative emotions arising, accept them and let them go. Thoughts could be "She doesnt like me", "Shes going to leave me", "I am not good enough for her" Emotions could be fear. Fear of rejection, of loss, of anything. Notice that the emotions are typically caused by your thoughts. That is how I did it and you can do to. If you want you can pm me and we can talk more in detail.

I dont look for shared values. The questions Im interested in are: Can I life my values with that person and grow. Is the chemistry right. Do they enrich my life. To some extent that may be linked to shared values. But I dont really feel like I need anyone to stay true to my values. That would shift too much weight from my shoulders to theirs. Everyone has his own way and everyone can learn from everyone else. But I never had a very long relationship so take what I say with a grain of salt

Depends from person to person. Every girl and every boy has their own level of insecurity. I think girls usually date upwards the confidence ladder.

Your brain wont believe this because you have been brain washed hard. Like almost every one in modern society. Go out and give your love to a stranger on the street. You dont need an SO for that. What have you done yet and tried? Do you have a life purpose?

If you are straight, then no movie involving anything sexual about male actors will "get you off". Same applies for women who see girls/characters like the ones you posted. Can you see that? The same questions you raise can be questioned to your examples in the first post. I fail to see the big difference you mention. Again, Im not dismissing your problems. I believe they are very real to you. But I dont think these movie/video game-girl media you mentioned are the culprit of these problems. Maybe you are using them to justify you problems to others or mask the real issue here. Maybe you dont know the root of your problems yourself. I can be wrong of course.

Yep. Problems begin when you think that you need friends in your life. Thats the first lie.

by traumatic events you mean the games you played and movies you watched? I think it should be quite easy to get over them. That doesnt mean that you dont have problem, thats holding you back. That most likely comes from the way you were raised. Still, you most likely have seen many killer games and acton movies in which men are violent. Do you have fear of men as well? Women are just like men, all different. Some may be violent some wont. You dont have to put people into boxes like that. Make your own experiences and dont rely on video games for telling you how the world is. Also how high is your sexual drive? Is it high enough to overcome such fears?

Isnt it also weird that many people need help to find the obvious? After all, nothing is hidden. Nice interview btw.

To me marriage doesnt mean anything. But I think its a good thing it exists and it can be a nice thing for couples. I see it more related to legal issues (visa) and taxes. In my country it was used as a tool to give benefits to families which are valued by the state. Monogamy and polygamy can both be beautiful and I try not to judge them.

There is no step by step guide. Only some waypoints: Abundance Mindset, Social Intelligence, Leading. As you see those can not be achieved by doing exactly this or that. They heaviliy depend on the situation and context. You can get to this waypoints on million different ways and you likely need a bit (or a lot) of practise.

@Emerald Very insightful, especially the part about emotions and intuition!

No, I would not think that. - At most they would maybe say "But Leo..." and thats it. Ego doesnt like to die. Boys & girls alike. - Leos teaching style is very rational and leans more toward the masculine. See what others wrote in this thread for more:

I watched that video "How to be funny" many times. Afaik there is not one method but many. Try a few. That video is stacked with good material on humour. Or do you mean another one? Some quick tips 1 Be more relaxed, watch leos video on body awareness and dont try to get into what other people think of you. Things like being relaxed and having good eye contact are the absolute basics. 2 Be authentic, people like authentic people. Think about it, you do as well I guess. With that also comes, that you should know yourself. Ask yourself the same questions you usually ask others for example. If you say you cant be authentic in the job, you might want to reconsider some life choices. 3 After you accomplished being authentic, you can work on your confidence. Things like non-needy communication, straight posture, loud voice, brisk gesticulation and escalating the interaction are the sherry on the cake.