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Focusing on getting good with girls is bullshit. You dont need to spend 40hr/week to get good with girls. Do 10-15 conversations with girls per week or start with just 1 consistent every day. If you are serious. That would be 4hr/week + maybe some for going on dates and going out in the night. Start your life purpose now! It will make getting girls so much easier. Its like getting your nose + lips + boobs + ass made for a girl. You probably think that you need a girl in your life to be happy, to be fullfilled. But that is bullshit! And if you are coming from that position you are making it so much harder for you. Girls can smell your needyness like a shark can smell blood in the ocean. They will run away from you. If you want to get good with girls, get on your life purpose! Then when you are with a girl you can actually talk about what is happening in your life and all the insights your are having, share the struggles and so on. Girls are LONGING for a guy that is on his purpose. A guy whose time is worth something, a guy who has passion, a guy who knows what he wants out of life, a guy who is working on his empire... I said it before, having a life purpose is like having the ultimate supercar. Its pretty nice to have. The more you are on your purpose the more easy life will get for you! Contrary to what people think, being lazy and all comfortable the whole time actually makes your life hard! Dont get me wrong, its not like being on your purpose will automatically get you girls. You will still have to learn a few things and depending on where you are right now that might be a quite a bit. But your foundation, when you are on your purpose, is so much better than without it. So I would say focus on finding your life purpose.

If its just the drugs you can try tell them that you dont want to be friends with people who do a lot of drugs. Seems like you have good reasons for that because of your past experience. Then stop hanging out with them. I wouldnt make a clear cut but just put them on a lower priority. That means not meeting them as much and when meeting them not for so long as you used to. And then cut it down more and more. This way they know why you spend less time with them. And they can change it if they really want to. You could just start looking for new friends who youd like to hang out with more and let everything evolve naturally. And no you are absolutely not selfish. Friendships only work when both want it. Otherwise its not a friendship.

Im not an expert in the matter but doesnt it only have to do with ze EU?

Get to your point!

In lieu of not having a video this week, I urge you to rewatch this one: After you figured out what you want your life to be about. After you can make out your vision looming on the horizon, the next question is often "How?". To achieve great things, you better build great infrastructure. Im interested if you realized any infrastructure that helped you on your self-actualization path. Or if you identified a bottleneck in your daily routine that you want to fix or get rid of.

2hrs sounds like a lot, you might want to check if you got the "right" stuff?

Yes, freedom as a value is not so high for me. Its kind of like comfort. Feeling free however is more important.

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Its a perk. And also a sales strategy. Digital products like this sell better when you give interested people the possibility to get their money back if they are not happy. Normally US law doesnt require a refund on digital products such as music, apps and so on. As long as the description matches the product.

<3 A lack of courage can also come from valueing comfort too much. Write down why you want to be courageous. How will it change your life? How will it change the way you feel? What impact will it have on your surroundings? Then when the time is right, let your body take over. In the moment you dont want to think. If you have to, be kind to yourself. Concentrate on uplifting thoughts like "I can do this!" or "all will be fine, I will be ok". Otherwise the pressure might be to high. Relax and do it like you have never done anything else your entire life. I mean, I dont know the exact circumstances. Thats just general advice on how to overcome unnecessary fear. Take caution and be well prepared if you are doing anything that is actually dangerous.

Yes I saw a doctor. He diagnosed the back tension. No I dont take any pills. But he gave me pills to relax my muscles and they work. But I only took 2. Iron levels are fine.

Im 28 years old. It all started with a heavy dull feeling in the chest at night around 2 weeks ago. Ive been doing a lot of swimming in december, might have overdone it a bit. I felt really tired and the next day had some slight symptoms of having a cold. I rested as much as I could but also went to work because I didnt feel to bad in the morning. Now 2 weeks later I stopped working because I feel dizzy when standing up and also very tired all the time. Went to the ENT because I also thought there was water in my ear. She cleaned them and said they dont look red. Also checked my nose and throat and said they are a bit red and I had some discharge in my throat (I cant feel it, also have no pain and can breathe normally through my nose) She gave me some antibiotics that I didnt took and checked my blood for inflammation. I will get the results tomorrow and then see. What I guess it could be: 1. Some form of influenza & inflammation, which killed my immune system and my body is weak from fighting it. 2. Some inflammation in my ear that messes with my vestibular nerve 3. Something wrong with my heart 4. Psychological 5. Undiscovered Diabetes? (Im thin but I eat a lot of sweets) Now I got my heart checked a year ago (because I also felt dizzy for a month or two) but they said it was in perfect condition. Blood pressure is a bit low. The chest pain is mostly on the left side but not always there and I think it might be some muscular tension. I also feel a trigger point in there. If its 1 or 2 I'll just have to wait and rest. 4. could also be. Any recommendations? What to do against dizziness?

Fall in love with the person who breaks your heart. Love and accept your heartbroken self <3

It states this on the landing page https://www.actualized.org/life-purpose-course

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I always had a pretty low bar on what my life needs to be in order for me to be content about life. When I went to school I could just be in my room reading or playing games for days. Also meet friends and have fun. All in all life is great 10/10 would recommend. What I also like is food, music (& dance), doing nothing, meditate, sport and figuring out what I want in life and how to get it. Become more authentic to my true feelings. Become less fearful and more loving. Yeah, I also did that when I was younger. You are playing life on hard mode. When you have figured out what you want, do the stuff you like and have a purpose in life, it gets easier. But dont forget that there is nothing to accomplish in the big picture.

Thanks for sharing, seems like you had a beautiful experience! Also liked the chillmix

In your next conversation, if there comes a break in the conversation, try to let the silence in there as long as possible. Actually, thats what I do in most conversations. It feels very good to me and does so much for deeper connection. For me it feels authentic and genuine. For example, when you talk to someone on the phone or what ever and you feel like you are out of things to say, instead of saying "good bye" and ending the conversation just stay in there - wait. Let the other person end the conversation if they want. It is so powerful. When forcing a conversation we do so mostly because out of fear of awkwardness, embarassment, maybe that the other person will stop liking us because we are suddenly silent. When you can stay silent, you actually communicate a lot of strength. When you dont force yourself to think of something to talk about you are communicating confidence. Its also a sales strategy. People that sell you cars or things over the telephone are trained to keep silent, because it causes the other person to fill in the words and to qualify to you. Just a few days ago I talked to a sales rep like that and because I just stood the silence longer, she didnt even tried to sell me something directly. It was a very nice call Anyway, when you cant stand the silence it can indicate that you are insecure. That you dont feel like being on the same level as the other person. I think it would be good for you to look into it. See why you are uncomfortable with silence. What the root cause is.

Leo said his videos are outdated the day he publishes them, because he learns so much after all the feedback he gets. I didnt found one video that I dont at least mostly resonate with from his past. Maybe Im brainwashed.

Leo wanted to make a specific course for Loa if I remember correctly, so you just have to be patient.

Hey, I think you are on to something. But thats also because I can relate to what you are saying. Leo actually has a video on this. The path to developing awareness is as unique as there are people on earth. Everything in your life is a mirror that is pointing to you. They can be a bit dusty sometimes and in relationships especially youll mostly get the clearest, most direct look on yourself.

Implying there is a "you" that is choosing between good and bad grapes, eh? I like your way of thinking, pretty rebellious!

Whats your question? If you have an urge to teach them, wait until they come to you and ask you. Before they ask, leading by example works pretty good. Also this video might help you in your situation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQewAOgoxCE