universe

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  1. What you need is an ambundance mindset. Its easier to get with more experience. But still, even people who whave a lot of approval can still have a problem - they are afraid to loose the validation. Free yourself completely from this need. Give yourself love and validation. When this feeling comes up, see what emotion triggered it and release this emotion. Start cultivating emotions like acceptance, awareness, centeredness, completeness, calmness and freedom.
  2. Very true. But you can contribute without directly helping. You can inspire other people and be peaceful. Not engaging in the constant violence people indulge in day to day. For example Leo is contributing with his work. That is one perspective. The other is, that you are God. So it can matter in some way.
  3. Haha. She seems like an expert in this field!
  4. After you reach heaven, you find it empty. So you go back to bring more people in.
  5. I think house ownership is an important driving factor for inequality in our society. Needs to be adressed! Especially with the rent going up because of platforms like AirBnB that diminish living space in citys. Regulation or Bubble pop incoming Id say. Buying a house in the end is not so different than buying other big assets. You need to factor in many things and spend time learning the ins and outs to make a good decision. Also luck.
  6. You are leaving a lot of information out, from what I read it didnt seem like you made a huge fuck up anywhere. But its hard to say from an outside perspective. How did you react after she texted you that she has plans after you asked her out for dinner? After that decline from her and without any suggestions for other dates I would loose interest. Id then text a follow up maybe 1-2 weeks after. But I see you want to persue this specific girl, I get it. Its ok. Have you tried to get her to a walk again? Maybe she just isnt comfortable yet to get dinner with you. Or doesnt like dinner dates. Next time you see her go and talk to her! Force it a bit. But dont act hurt. Just have a relaxed conversation with her. If she responds well and has time just stay in conversation (its your 2nd date, yay!). If she responds well to mildly ok but doesnt have time. Invite her to some activity you have planned today or next day (example: I wanted to go outside to the park/xyz later, do you want to come with me?). If she responds badly (like seems stressed and leaving asap) just say bye have a nice day or sth like that. The most important thing is that you stay chill/laid back no matter what. Positive vibes are always nice. Thats important because you are in a situation where she cant avoid seeing you (university class). And you dont want to maker her uncomfortable. Most girls will have some kind of trauma with super-needy guys becoming a problem because they dont accept a no. And while being a bit aggressive can be good, its bad if she has no easy out, or if she already thinks you are a bit creepy (Im not sure about that).
  7. That doesnt mean you cant have a life purpose. Ultimately, there is no purpose in life. So you can live your life without one. The thing is, most people are not ready for that. Finding your life purpose is not about strictly staying with one thing and getting into a frenzy. Its about finding a way to connect with your inner authentic self. Actualizing the gift within you. Ask yourself this question: "Am I actively limiting my potential out of fear or lazyness?" If your answer is yes you might be deluding yourself with not wanting a life purpose. If your answer is no, go ahead and enjoy whatever flow you are in.
  8. Thanks for posting! Very informative and entertaining
  9. @Serotoninluv The most important thing besides content & marketing is audio quality. Make sure to get a good high quality mic and learn the correct way to use compressor, eq etc. Everything else is a plus but people will be very forgiving about it. ( example: pewdiepie)
  10. You dont have to reinvent the wheel here. Doing something thats proven to work and putting your own spin on it can be a great way to go about this. For 1 million it seems like you are going for something big, that is scaleable. Simple 1v1 coaching might not cut it. Still its a good way to gather information on what people need. Go to a personal development group and ask people what they need. Ask yourself what did you need in order to self develop? You can simply start by asking people on this forum.
  11. Visualization works best when whatever you are visualizing feels right for you. So it shouldnt be limited to your comfort zone but also not so over the top that is feels "wrong" for you.
  12. Yes, you can hurt people if you straight out refuse this request. Its normal to meet people outside of work/school. To deepen your friendship. If you are not into that, either tell them directly or what I would do is tell them that you dont have time on that day. Dont tell them you meet other people, just say you are busy. Or say you dont like the specific thing they want to do. Either way, they will feel a bit like you dont love them no more (some do, some dont) Show them you love them so they can be comfortable again.
  13. What happens when you sit down for 1 hour and try to brainstorm?
  14. There are hundreds of cameras that can record long videos.. I dont know which camera he uses and he said he doesnt answer these questions. Look for video cameras. Foto cameras often have a restriction on them
  15. After 2 hours (!) you felt weird about it? Ok, thats weird. No, honestly. Dont overthink this, there is nothing weird. You are just going out to have fun. After all, they went there as well right? So dont worry. People who think you are weird for going out solo are probably not worth your time.
  16. You realize which kind of force you are in nature?
  17. Focusing on getting good with girls is bullshit. You dont need to spend 40hr/week to get good with girls. Do 10-15 conversations with girls per week or start with just 1 consistent every day. If you are serious. That would be 4hr/week + maybe some for going on dates and going out in the night. Start your life purpose now! It will make getting girls so much easier. Its like getting your nose + lips + boobs + ass made for a girl. You probably think that you need a girl in your life to be happy, to be fullfilled. But that is bullshit! And if you are coming from that position you are making it so much harder for you. Girls can smell your needyness like a shark can smell blood in the ocean. They will run away from you. If you want to get good with girls, get on your life purpose! Then when you are with a girl you can actually talk about what is happening in your life and all the insights your are having, share the struggles and so on. Girls are LONGING for a guy that is on his purpose. A guy whose time is worth something, a guy who has passion, a guy who knows what he wants out of life, a guy who is working on his empire... I said it before, having a life purpose is like having the ultimate supercar. Its pretty nice to have. The more you are on your purpose the more easy life will get for you! Contrary to what people think, being lazy and all comfortable the whole time actually makes your life hard! Dont get me wrong, its not like being on your purpose will automatically get you girls. You will still have to learn a few things and depending on where you are right now that might be a quite a bit. But your foundation, when you are on your purpose, is so much better than without it. So I would say focus on finding your life purpose.
  18. If its just the drugs you can try tell them that you dont want to be friends with people who do a lot of drugs. Seems like you have good reasons for that because of your past experience. Then stop hanging out with them. I wouldnt make a clear cut but just put them on a lower priority. That means not meeting them as much and when meeting them not for so long as you used to. And then cut it down more and more. This way they know why you spend less time with them. And they can change it if they really want to. You could just start looking for new friends who youd like to hang out with more and let everything evolve naturally. And no you are absolutely not selfish. Friendships only work when both want it. Otherwise its not a friendship.
  19. Im not an expert in the matter but doesnt it only have to do with ze EU?
  20. In lieu of not having a video this week, I urge you to rewatch this one: After you figured out what you want your life to be about. After you can make out your vision looming on the horizon, the next question is often "How?". To achieve great things, you better build great infrastructure. Im interested if you realized any infrastructure that helped you on your self-actualization path. Or if you identified a bottleneck in your daily routine that you want to fix or get rid of.
  21. 2hrs sounds like a lot, you might want to check if you got the "right" stuff?
  22. Yes, freedom as a value is not so high for me. Its kind of like comfort. Feeling free however is more important.