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This is a question an intelligent AI may answer?
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Easy. You bring it into consciousness. Do this exercise. Ask yourself if you can give yourself love and acceptance. If yes. Ask yourself if you can give yourself yet a little bit more love and acceptance. If not. Ask yourself what is stopping you from giving yourself love and acceptance. Feel into it. Repeat until you are at the point where you cant give yourself more love and acceptance. There are many techniques to release emotions. One starting book would be the sedona method. You can find more if you just search the internet.
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Seems to me like you are still emotionally attached to him. Let go. You cant move forward if you are still holding on to some thing of the past. Over romanticizing past relationships also happens to many people. We tend to only think about the good stuff and forget about the bad stuff. Or the other way around depending on the movie we want to play in our head.
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Well you are lucky. Life is a love simulator! You are already whole, release the resistance that comes up to feel it.
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What exactly is that value? What behaviour do you mean? In general, if it is something that is important to you then its your value! The importance you assign to some values will change during your life.
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And dolphins! You dont know what these fish dolphins are up to! Topic: Much of his appeal to the masses is his charisma and debating skills. Only watched a few videos in 2018 I think.
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Read the replies here in this thread. There are many ways, meditation, experience, reading a book etc. Its your job to see what works best for you. Everyone is different.
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How much did you learn in this time? 1.5 years is really not that much. I have a friend who coaches and has around 10 years of experience. Not saying you need that. But if this is your purpose, go all out for it! Read everything you can find and practice a lot. Leading by example, people need to be convinced that you are actually good.
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Its your ego and needyness for validation and control. There are many ways you can go to grow out of that. When you realize that you dont need either validation or control you have grown.
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You can do sales that have a win-win effect instead of begging your clients for money. Getting a sales job sounds like a good idea to get the skills. Otherwise you could sell your own product and service and see how it is. Dont overthink this. Sale > Business. If you can sell something you have a business. You dont need anything else. You can literally have a nice office, employees, website, coorporate identity and great product - If you dont have sales or eyeballs, you dont have a business.
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That would be davinci resolve. Its a pro software with a free version. But like other good software its a but complicated to use. So maybe there is something different that fits your needs.
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Many people swim, breath and live in this "venom". Thats why they spray it around. Most you can ignore. In some situations they may try to manipulate you in some way by saying this. Ask yourself what their underlying motive is. If its someone you really look up to or value their opinion. Ask what made them say it. Let them explain it to you. Different perspectives can be of value and maybe you can improve with their feedback. When you go and do your thing, expect people to try to pull you down. Is normal. Nothing personal.
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You get better and faster with time.
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To meditate I just become present. And try to stay present. Some other techniques I use are "Body scan or progressive relaxation", "Breath awareness meditation" and some form of "Loving/Kindness meditation". Yeah I know it has nothing to do with visualization. I suggested the sedona method for you to try to get to your goals. You see, for me visualization is like the decoration of a house - while releasing emotions is the fundament. The roots so to say. Which can be different for everyone. You might want to see this video to understand the importance of releasing.
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Well, we dont know how their relationship is. But I think she might be right that sexuality is a big part of why people watch the series? Here is the "story" https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-6989675/Man-reveals-girlfriend-banned-watching-Game-Thrones-shes-JEALOUS.html
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Ah ok, that for me is more self actualization than meditation. So this can definitely work. I would also suggest you try to release all the emotions that block you from feeling the "positive" ones. Look up for example on the "sedona method" if you dont know what I mean.
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I cant recommend any material but you can get great results from releasing the emotions that make you needy / reactive.
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Yes the tip was maybe basic but it its essential for visualization to work. If you visualize or do affirmations and you dont get the "feel" for it then you are not programming your subconscious mind the way you would like to. No matter how big or sequenced your vision is. No. Im curious what do you want to visualize regarding meditation?
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Visualization can work! However, it has to feel right to you. If you think "I have a Ferrari" but the picture of you driving in a Ferrari seems sketchy to you it doesnt work. Watch your feelings!
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Well if you only list the toxic and negative stuff you are creating a bias here. Surely if that was everything you would have called quits earlier. So what was the positive stuff?
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Invest in my life purpose the same way as @Girzo
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@MM1988 If you like to text a lot, do that! Some people are just not into that. The fact that there are girls constantly on the phone chatting with their boys doesnt mean that everyone has to do it now. I really dislike texting because of the things that Leo listed. And I simply dont feel like doing it that much. If a girl cant live with that - ok. We are not meant to be together maybe.
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See where this neediness comes from. There are 3 major factors that make you needy: Craving for safety, craving for perfection and craving for validation. Really see where these come from and feel them in your body when they arise. Releasing is a technique to free yourself from these cravings. If you are interested in this, read "The Sedona Method". In this book there are serveral ways on how to do it. Neediness makes you anxious. Because you fear that you wont get what you need. When you interact with women these fears/needs will block you. Without these you will hook up with women like crazy! This is so crucial for dating! And be careful for the craving of not wanting to appear needy. It makes you needy as fuck. Doing meditation and consciousness work will naturally get you better at this. As you become mindful of the underlying mechanism that produces neediness (thoughts & emotions arising in the moment). And also by practising to let go. Watch Leos video on Love to get a better understanding of where to find love https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XdbcsRxDQvM
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Went on a date with a girl today and didnt get laid. Please show me where I can claim my fairness sex reward! What makes you think life is fair?
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universe replied to The White Belt's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Yes, it has a curative effect on you. With meditation there might be more feelings of sadness and more feelings of joy in your life. You will learn to let them flow through you <3 Awareness is also an emotion. Would you like to heal your emotions?