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I always had a pretty low bar on what my life needs to be in order for me to be content about life. When I went to school I could just be in my room reading or playing games for days. Also meet friends and have fun. All in all life is great 10/10 would recommend. What I also like is food, music (& dance), doing nothing, meditate, sport and figuring out what I want in life and how to get it. Become more authentic to my true feelings. Become less fearful and more loving. Yeah, I also did that when I was younger. You are playing life on hard mode. When you have figured out what you want, do the stuff you like and have a purpose in life, it gets easier. But dont forget that there is nothing to accomplish in the big picture.

Thanks for sharing, seems like you had a beautiful experience! Also liked the chillmix

In your next conversation, if there comes a break in the conversation, try to let the silence in there as long as possible. Actually, thats what I do in most conversations. It feels very good to me and does so much for deeper connection. For me it feels authentic and genuine. For example, when you talk to someone on the phone or what ever and you feel like you are out of things to say, instead of saying "good bye" and ending the conversation just stay in there - wait. Let the other person end the conversation if they want. It is so powerful. When forcing a conversation we do so mostly because out of fear of awkwardness, embarassment, maybe that the other person will stop liking us because we are suddenly silent. When you can stay silent, you actually communicate a lot of strength. When you dont force yourself to think of something to talk about you are communicating confidence. Its also a sales strategy. People that sell you cars or things over the telephone are trained to keep silent, because it causes the other person to fill in the words and to qualify to you. Just a few days ago I talked to a sales rep like that and because I just stood the silence longer, she didnt even tried to sell me something directly. It was a very nice call Anyway, when you cant stand the silence it can indicate that you are insecure. That you dont feel like being on the same level as the other person. I think it would be good for you to look into it. See why you are uncomfortable with silence. What the root cause is.

Leo said his videos are outdated the day he publishes them, because he learns so much after all the feedback he gets. I didnt found one video that I dont at least mostly resonate with from his past. Maybe Im brainwashed.

Leo wanted to make a specific course for Loa if I remember correctly, so you just have to be patient.

Hey, I think you are on to something. But thats also because I can relate to what you are saying. Leo actually has a video on this. The path to developing awareness is as unique as there are people on earth. Everything in your life is a mirror that is pointing to you. They can be a bit dusty sometimes and in relationships especially youll mostly get the clearest, most direct look on yourself.

Implying there is a "you" that is choosing between good and bad grapes, eh? I like your way of thinking, pretty rebellious!

Whats your question? If you have an urge to teach them, wait until they come to you and ask you. Before they ask, leading by example works pretty good. Also this video might help you in your situation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQewAOgoxCE

@kieranperez Tiger eats elefant, elefant eats plant, plant takes water, uses sunrays. Where do we stop? Should we give the sun back its photons we received? You ARE the world, You ARE the tiger, the elefant, the plant, the sunrays. You are making up things that dont exist this way in the real world. Do what you gotta do, your intentions seem noble. But dont delude yourself that you have found some kind of universal purpose.

I dont know her spiritual videos but I learned quite a bit from her videos where she goes into relationships, masculinity and femininity. Remember, you can learn something from anyone.

Yes, I can relate. Life is lonely and sad. Only me, Im all alone

Haha, I have to try that! Just sit around doing exactly nothing and be my friends feeding me jelly. <3

The correct way to say it, is to not expect anything from her after you said it.

If you only have this problems with girls its likely that you are too needy. You try to hard to impress her, thus filtering the things you want to say. Remove this filter, layer for layer and conversation will be super easy. Its not really important what you say. You can always either say something fun ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EsLCVXYqUns ) Or deepen the connection you two have ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X-SdqaGS_jc )

Does it happen with anyone? Do you avoid 1 on 1 conversations? If not, how do they normally go then? Are you 14?

@JohnnyBravo solid advice! @Marinus Yeah, do what feels right to you. Just remember, you can convey some MASSIVE dominance and balls while escalating a social interaction confidently. And dont be afraid your intentions wont be clear when you approach women. Chances are, if you talk to a girl longer than 2minutes, she will know

Ask yourself "Why do I feel this way? Thats interesting..." Then ask "What does this feeling want to tell me?" If you find out, acknowledge it. Accept the feeling and whatever is coming up.

Good stuff! Keep on going mate, I think your doing great! What do you mean she liked what you were doing? Yes this! Always initiate! You always need to lead, especially in the beginning. Most girls are very reactive. I know it can be a bit bothering, on the plus side, you can do whatever you want. And when you build up your intuition it gets easier and easier.

Did you watch this video?

If you are dating a needy person and your friends try to set you up with some random people... well, its no wonder that it seems like a burden to you. Do you feel like you deserve to be loved? Realize that everything you are right now is perfect. If you dont want to have a relationship, dont. You dont have to follow all these narratives that todays society feeds us. A true relationship can only happen when you take off your mask. I feel like you try to put on a mask to be more likeable to others. I did this as well. It can be very exhausting.

Of course dude! I know someone who does exatly that and its working great. I saw a study which said that more people than ever, are solo, so there is definitely a big market. Just be aware of dogma and ego. Why do you ask? Literally anything can be your purpose.

Thanks all, will check it out! Already have Roma on my list as well! Somehow related I can say Serenity (2018) was a nice ride! But I think it works best for people who like to immerse themselves in a movie. Dont expect it to be perfect either.

So Im looking for videos which speak to you and make you want to meditate or do spiritual work. It could also be inspirational on another level. Maybe you saw true beauty in it, or it made you feel love, or it made you question reality. No speeches like Alan Watts or Sadhguru, or speeches with photo slideshows! Im specifically looking for art in video form. So mainly with actors or it could be any visuals. Please specify what the video/movie made you realize/feel and what about it spoke to you so strongly. Can be subtle as well.

It was mostly tension in the back. Got a little bit more faith in the medical field after my doctor did a good diagnosis

This is how many people slept in history. I always heard it was because of acid reflux/heartburn.