theleelajoker

I played Skyrim twice, it was that good. Now this game is far better than Skyrim...

What you're talking about? I thought: awesome, there's a guy that just takes a headset, puts himself in front of a camera and just talks from his heart. Just does it. Without all the superficiality that so many content producers show, without the need for superiority, without the need to prove to others what an awesome person he is. Just doing it. Wished I could just do that like you. Plus: not only like how, but also what you said

@James123 @Joseph Maynor Ok guys your lovely interaction made me click on the YouTube link in Joseph's signature. I also have the feeling that you're a good guy. Kudos for doing the videos and expressing yourself. You got me sentimental when you said "Doing the video not from a perspective of beauty or truth, but love. I think what a lot of people are missing is love, actually". I got sentimental because I think you're right.

Are you truly interested in her? If yes, go and approach her. Find out what she feels for you. If you're not interested in her, doesn't matter if she's receptive for you. If it's hard for you to approach her because of fear of rejection, because of your past experience and your current perception of yourself, ask you this: How much does it matter if she will potentially reject you when you are already rejecting yourself? Because if your interested in her, but you don't follow your feelings, that's what you are already doing. (Credit to Joe Hudson I saw him pointing this out in a coaching)

Definitions are arbitrary, the words are interchangable. I think of function. Something that is, and something that obseves what is.

I am also surprised - again and again - how much people take his SUBJECTIVE experience with sample size of ONE as god given truths. He's IMO quite deep in his stories and projections

@Hojo Like your description @Entrepreneur I would say: A more "conscious" person is more aware of the existence of ... consciousness So you get more aware of what exists, and you get more aware that you are aware. So, let's see if that created more confusion:D

Nice

Main character of course But the main character is aware, that in this story, he's just a tiny little thing compared to the infinity of the world. He's a humble main character that knows his limitations and the power of the world. Ever played Skyrim? Have fun being God's bitch.

It's how you use it. You can make life harder, or just practical application. You can kill with a knife or cut your apple. Ken Wilber had a similar argument: Focus on the now and on the direct field of awareness. Everything you need is always there in this field right here right now.

How you know you suffer? You have to feel it somewhere right? There has to be location. Put attention to this location as described above. Simple, full, non-judgemental attention. You can't fully put attention and think at the same time. So no thoughts. And re emotions, sensation --> see above

Imagine you suffer, but you are present with it. Whatever causes this suffering, you bring awareness to it. Means you're not avoiding it. You have a choice, and you pick the option to feel it, it's no longer suffering because literally you choose to feel it, to be aware of it. You expert your free will to experience one thing over another. How can doing what you want be suffering? Impossible. Problem solved. If you feel now that that's suffering - feeling the thing you made yourself aware of above - ok change your choice to the other option, put your awareness somewhere else. Exerting your free will, you prefer one option over the other. How can doing what you want be suffering? Impossible.You relax because you chooses the option you like most. Problem solved. Now you might say - I don't like any option. It's all suffering, no matter where I put my attention. But then it's no choice, because it can't be avoided. It's not self generated. It's pain, not suffering. Enjoy being present😄

I don't really get this labeling of mainly f/m energies and qualities. What does that mean, what's the purpose exact harmful identification and inflexible roles? So men can't be feeling, or flexible? Women can't be disciplined or aware? Oh shit I was playful, but I am a MAN, no I need to be more rigid again. Life is SERIOUS, I should not have fun! And even IF there was such a thing as mainly that or this quality for m/f, what use has it to proclaim it? Just do it, live it, and then it's done. Where is the value in labeling? Can't see it. What am I missing?

Love the first one 🤣

This is cool. Mainly red, manly in the center. But also yellow, orangish. also Violet It's not constant but changing

My experience contradicts this. I can literally feel changes in my body just by singing. I just needed to become aware enough to feel it. The other stuff probably amplify it. But at least for me, there is no "must use only that way to have effect"

Why so?

I think it can be a helpful believe to integrate in one's system.

+1 the "from men not attracted to" That's what I observed and what women even told me when I asked them. Same words, in the same moment from a guy they find attractive or not is either seen as harassment or compliment that gets their juices flowing. And while there are definitely a lot of super creepy, disrespectful guys - let's not pretend there's only victims on the female side. I have seen it countless times that women use their looks, their sexuality and a faint promise of hook up or indication of sex to manipulate and to get their will. Can't throw a bone and then be surprised if dogs are chasing it (not referring to the video, but the general level of sexual display in our society) What's shitty is that the women with integrity that don't do this suffer from male idiots, and that the respectful men suffer from the manipulation of those women described above. Re the DMs, I have similar story. My ex did the same, reading to me once a message: "Hi Baby, you want to have hard sex?" She said "look that's what I'm getting....man, learn how to approach a woman!" While she said this, I noticed one thing: She did not complain THAT he wrote it, simply HOW he transmitted the offer. She also did not reject the very direct imagination of getting fucked hard, even coming from a stranger. I guess the guy texting her was hot 😄 After a moment I also managed to understand her signal towards me and knew what she wanted me to do 🤣

Yeah, same for me or course. I see my previous self, but also I can only see what I - at least more or less - mastered or transcended for myself. Can't say my inner garden was super pretty in the past 😵 But as you say, psychology is literally logically, so it's a result of past experiences that simply shaped our programming. Nowadays, I like my garden more and more, some stuff blossoming, other seeds are planted One thing that currently influences me is Metaprogramming from C Lilly. Might be a potentially nice task suited for your mind

The stable boy can do that job. Just pick the one that looks most similar...

Yes I see it very often, too. But it's so easy with others, do I notice when I do it?🤣🤣🤣 Also: I wouldn't call it trick. Rather misunderstanding. The reason: For me, the mind is not an independent agent. It's a tool. And its incredible flexible. Backed by experience, I assume we can gain a level of Meta-Control about it - so you can change your program, or believes. As an example, my mind is programmed to externalize, to project my inner work on others. Which means I never solve my inner conflict, which means I suffer. WHY in earth would I do this? Why choose this voluntary? Makes zero sense. The mind is not an independent agent, it's part of me and it just excutes whats given to it. As soon as I realize this I make myself suffer, what do I do? I re-program my tool. "Whenever I externalize, I check the same YXZ for me". That's it.

Given this, vasectomy is like saying: I want to live healthier. I want to move more, so I destroy all radiators in my home. I will be so cold, I MUST move. And then, due to exhaustion, you freeze to death first night in your sleep. I know it's Brasil, it's not cold , just making point 😄🇧🇷 You don't trust yourself to put a condom on, but you trust yourself in the decision re giving away the chance to create kids naturally? And you don't trust yourself to not have dominant thoughts about relationships, but you trust in the idea that a vasectomy will solve your focus on life purpose? Lot's of love to Brazil my friend, you do you and I don't know you. But if one of my friends would say the same arguments, I would tell him that he's crazy and not seeing clearly. If there's was no way to make him reconsider the idea, I would tell him to keep his intention but just to wait with it for a few months. (Because I see a very good chance that he will change his mind and be thankful later) Just an opinion of a stranger - may be I'm completely wrong

You're not hooking up. You not really looking to get laid, but SOMETIME it could happen that you do and succed. You say you might get so horny you forget the condom, so you maybe get one pregnant. You don't want kids now. You think about your future self having kids. You think about HOW to do that in detail. You're not even 30, even before your prime. You want to get a vasectomy, taking away the chance to experience the mutual creation of life together with a woman. This is likely to decrease your chance with quite a few women that want kids natural way. I say your logic is bad as a condom with a hole inside. What's really behind this?