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It’s like watching parents fighting each other over and over and over again. The dam will eventually break.

Be very good at sensing implicit signals. They don’t have to be logically correct.. in fact, that would defeat the purpose and the magic of the relationship. Also notice when you’re manipulating or forcing your logic over her implicit signals. It will backfire.

No.

I couldn’t see jack shit

All the evidence in the entire cosmos isn’t going to help you if you aren’t willing to help yourself.

Significant other. How you perceive them is how you perceive yourself, and vice-versa. If you perceive them as someone more worthy than you, then that’s your truth.

You don’t need to fully feel. Setting an unattainable goal or expectation is a trap for disappointment.

@Princess Arabia

And a self-reflection towards higher truths.

In an alternate forumiverse, Water by the River is the Admin, and Leo Gura is one post away from being banned.

You can make distinctions, and you can see them as identical. Different, but the same.

Great work. Let’s keep opening up!

A humble approach is to realize that you’re at war with yourself. Stop looking to others as the source of your suffering. Or even looking up to them as the cure for your suffering. That is still immaturity. Notice yourself doing this, but keep contemplating into the nature of suffering as you are suffering. If you find that examining fear is too overwhelming, ground yourself in the present moment by observing sensations in your body, without judgement. The goal is not to achieve a calm body and mind, but to acknowledge and accept it as it is. This is important, as it teaches you that you don’t need to be a particular / preconceived way to be present with yourself. Then go back to facing your fears.

Self-deception integrated and processed consciously can mature you exponentially. The problem is most people love getting sucked into it without ever doing an examination from a deeper/higher perspective; instead, attaching themselves to self-deception for dear life.

I recommend eating blueberries daily. Not only does it taste good, but it’s been shown to be great for brain health in the elderly people.

Your date is your guru.

Have you ever played Monopoly? Staying in jail can actually be beneficial depending on the context of the board. I should play a game of Monopoly in Finland.

I like to eat all my enemies as a late night snack. Part of a balanced diet.

He posts on this forum daily and posts insights on his infinite blog.

@Princess Arabia sweet, that’s the brand of eggs I used to buy. I haven’t had eggs in a while, but I’ll remember to check em out!

On a first date, we went on a nature walk while it was nearly pitch black outside. At first we hesitated to walk into the void, so we walked “safer” path that had a bit more lighting. But as we warmed up to each other, we went back to the void and took the plunge into the unknown. First time we ever did this; it was totally worth it to face fear head on with complete trust. Nature is a powerful psychedelic.

When you go on a date and realize that you’re dating yourself, then you will know.

Balance synchronicities with grounding yourself. If synchronicities are scaring you and throwing your life into paranoia, then it sounds like you’re dealing with a more complex issue at hand.

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No, that’s ableism.