koops

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  1. You can see those folks are more conscious than the average person. If you are on this forum you know that. Doesn't mean they are perfect. And is not just about threesomes. Thats what the average man thinks about. 'look how sneaky is this guy, fucking 2 women, how smart' Is way deeper than that.
  2. Grant Cardone Elliot Hulse Eckhart Tolle (seriously)
  3. They are obviously more conscious than 99% of couples. And ofc the relationship can fail, as do 60-70% of monogamous couples, PLUS all those 30-40% left... do you think they are fully happy, self-actualizing couples? How many monogamous couples are TRULY thriving, and bathing in deep love? And Im not saying polyamory is superior to monogamy; just saying some of the standards they are held to are not fair.
  4. Well, thats reality nowadays. There is no point fighting against societal changes. Just adapting to them. And you must educate yourself. You have infinite free education on youtube and millions of books in amazon at 10$. Go deep on how to improve as a man, understanding male-female dynamics and sexual polarity. There is no way around that.
  5. wtf is this. Guys, move into a positive-optimistic perspective. Blackpill is a trap. Redpill can become one (although it has valuable information and hard truths), but you have to graduate from that and move on. Learn and APPLY pickup. And then move into a more 'stage green' paradigm type David Deida or Zan Perrion.
  6. https://www.actualized.org/insights/the-problem-of-grasping-being I just love this. You writing keeps getting better. It frustrates me that intelligent people dont get this 'simple' fact. And is even worse when they use the authority bias claiming 'ScIeNcE'. Add that to group think and y Im not smarter than a phd but I got it reading The power of now, the 1st spiritual book I've red, when Tolle says: ''When you look at a tree, dont think of the word tree, dont put any labels on it. You look at it, at its essence''. And then just went deeper and deeper from that realization. The problem with scientists, rationalists and high IQ people is that they need to make it complicated. It cant be so simple, they think.
  7. Yes, I saw a few videos of her, and I thought 'wow what a powerful woman' But in this video, I felt the wounded inner child. Which makes me think. Even high consciousness people with a lot of work on themselves struggle with this.
  8. Yeah. I feel most people settle for monogamy because is the least amount of work. But there goes the lying, cheating, withholding, loss of love, (subtle) manipulation. For people that value integrity, honesty and love, monogamy can work, but still... the limitations are huge, especially if you have high libido.
  9. Yes. Jealousy is likely to happen. I think jealousy is the emotion that if managed, will propel the human race forward the most. Until that happens, love will be restricted, and fear based.
  10. I think most people that go into polyamory they do it just because they just want more sex, and they got bored with their partner. In the case I mention I feel there are way deeper reasons than that. Sex is still a part of it, but not the main thing.
  11. There is an evolution in relationships. From monogamy to serial monogamy, which is not the same. But yeah, based on how things are nowadays seems like monogamy is the better choice for 99% of people (which they agree on the podcast).
  12. Exactly. But there is always a beginning for everything.
  13. Of course faith is important. But one thing is having faith in a better future (dating, business, family life, good health...), and other thing is having religious faith.
  14. Listen at 26:05 Is saying 'I am God' a blasphemy? I thought he was going to go on the 'safe' rout, and the, he hits it.
  15. What do you mean by this Leo? If you just remember a state, how are you in your day to day more conscious of God? How is different before your first awakening? Is just because the memory; or your baseline state (level of day to day consciousness) is higher? This is so good. Automatically happened to me. After my awakening I appreciate even the beauty of a dogshit in the street. For real.
  16. Ill check it out. ''you can use moments in life you’ve felt love to enhance it'' So here is my confusion. Are you talking about human-emotional love here? then sober awakening to love on silent meditation retreats Is there a difference between that and God-Realization?
  17. How did you awaken into the nature of Love? Are there practices more geared towards this kind of awakening? I had some deep love experiences, for example after DMT, but I feel it was not it.
  18. It was a mix between love toward particular people in my life and a more universal deep love, but its seemed more like a strong emotion rather than an awakening.
  19. I dont know what you had for breakfast, but think it like this. If you are dreaming and you are John character, you dont know what Joe is thinking or what Joe had for breakfast. There are apparently 2 characters. But there is only one mind dreaming. One dream.
  20. Saying that Infinity is trapped is tricky. But if you say there is a God, and there are its creations, you are creating a duality. you dont pee. Thats ego. Illusion. The illusory 'I' appropriates the action.