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Exactly. Cold approach was the most popular thing, but the least effective. It can be brutal, especially in the beggining and if you do it alone. You have to make game as fun as possible. You are not in the military or studying for an exam. Ask yourself: -How can I make it more fun? -How can I put myself in an easy position to get laid? (lone wolf cold approaching in malls as a newbie IS NOT the best thing. Is close to the worse option). Joining different social circles (dancing classes, yoga, workshops, hobbies...), going out with your friends to bars & clubs, joining puas in your town and doing nightgame, going to Ibiza/Mallorca a couple weeks in summer/vacation) Also you can try tinder if you are decent looking, but you NEED GOOD photos, solid text game and knowing how to run a date. The best place start is to go out with your friends/puas. Get drunk, let loose. That would make it easier in the beginning, hell, even learn some openers, or some lines for critical moments (like pulling or handling female friends). Once you fuck 1 girl, things will get easier and your confidence will skyrocket. You can try to 'master' cold approach but that is the hard long road and not the right timing. You can still go for it, but focus on putting yourself in favorable conditions and forget by now about 'mastery'. Go for the short term lay.

Not really. And is not that I broke up with her haha, was pretty much consensual. It was obvious that we were in different paths at that time. She wanted long term commitment, and 100% it wasn't the time for me. I wanted to explore life and the world with no attachments. Aside from the sexual variety thing, I wanted, even felt that I NEEDED to travel alone for a while and learn to become more independent. And it wasn't a whim. Don't know why, but was something deep inside me (and she already had done that in the past). - But I get it, some men get out of a relationship for the casual sex and variety, but being single is not a full time party. Girls and sex are not given to you just because you are single. There is also the struggle. And sometimes sex in a relationship is better than casual, and I get some men regret it. But for me also was a time of personal growth, getting better at game, and discovering more about the female body and mind through variety, getting more life experience in that field until I felt enough is enough, and I hit the point of diminishing returns; and also having the chance to start a new relationship from a higher place and with that 'karma burnt'.

Oh yes... sex can fill a mans mind when is young. It happen to me in my late 20s. Had a gf for 5 years, break up, and the next few yearsI had sex with different kind of women for all over the world. All continents and races. Then I met a cool girl and now we are in a 3 year relationships with kids on the horizon. With my ex (my 1st gf) I felt something inside that I NEEDED to fuck way more girls. Like I had to burn through that karma before I settle down (I never even visualize myself having kids with her). Now in my early 30s, yes, I still want to bang hot girls when I see them in the street, but I just accept that as a part of being a healthy male. Did I transcend sex? Hell no! But at least I trascended the DESIRE of having sex with everything that moves. Maybe is age. Maybe is that I already had my 'casual sex sprint' and tasted all the flavors. But yeah, as Osho said. Is natural. You can't force/supress something like sex. The problem with sex (as with money), is when it fills your mind. Sex is to be experienced, not to be thinking about it all day. Sex in the bed is great, sex in the mind is a burden. Money in the bank is great, money in the mind is also a burden.

What about Osho? He was a wise sage, but was critic of government and religion, even democracy but didn't propose anything new.

Louis CK and George Carlin.

Of course there are broken woman on dating apps. No different than in clubs, bookstores, dance classes, the street... Your job as a man is to filter the good ones and get them on dates. Then be high value enough (confidence, game, good at sex...) to 'convert' them into fuckbuddies/gf. So, or you are not high value enough, or you don't know how to filter good girls from broken ones.

I don't get the point of all this bullet points, summaries and speed reading. There is no use in acquiring information fast. If a book is good, it should be not only read, but studied, and given the case, applied. My rule now is that if a book can be summarized in a few bullet points or speed-read, is not worth it.

Agree. Unrepeatable show. That last scene... a song that would never sound the same...

I love this quote: I also get frustrated by human stupidity, but realize that sometimes other people are thinking of you (and me and everyone) as stupid. So in a way we are all more or less stupid. Monkeys flying around in a rock taking ourselves too seriously. Also most hating comes from other people interfering with 'our plans' in the world. When we see a 'crappy' tree, we don't care, but when we have a stupid human in front of us in traffic, we get pissed because he is bothering 'ME' and my little plans. Also we don't know their story, maybe their were abused in a way you can imagine, or maybe their mother died yesterday, or maybe they have an 80IQ, which they didn't choose. Is hard to not hate stupid people in real life, but it can be fun like Louis CK said:

I felt that. The first thing I saw was a feminine purple face welcoming me in this feminine universe of warmth and coziness. I had the feeling that I was welcomed by Gaia herself. Felt very homely. I did 3 takes, and in the 2nd and 3rd I had the feeling of coming back to this welcoming cozy universe I already knew for long time.

A friend of mine told me last week about a ceremony taking place in our city. I say Ok. During the week I had moments where I almost cancel. I researched, maybe too much. Heard too many fucked up stories… but at the end of the day I wanted to know what was on the other side. And I wanted to develop spiritually. I am doing the work and felt the right time to try it. Had tried mdma, shrooms in low dose, and lsd in low dose; so this was a huge leap. But I trust the friend who told me about the ceremony and the shaman. - I arrive to the place, we sat (my friend, 3 friends of him, and me), and the shaman explains how the ceremony will go. First we took rapé. Super uncofortable to take (you can check some youtube videos how is taken). Not fun. But I started having great sensations throughout my body, feeling my hands and feet vibrating lightly, like energy moving through my body. (10 seconds after the girl in my left took the rapé, she had a kundalini awakening. Holy shit, never saw one live before). Then we did holotrpic breathing. Also first time doing it, and at the end my body was shaking, specially my legs, belly and hands. Pretty cool. The energy was mostly on my body. Almost no thinking. So no fear, just some tension for what was coming. And then, she changed the music, more strong shamanic music, move in front of one of the guys and prepared the pipe. I was feeling pretty good. I could go home at that moment and it would have been a great experience, but that was just the foreplay. Now the fucking was coming. We could have 4 trips/takes each one of us throughout the evening. The first one I didnt smoke properly and didnt felt nothing. Probably was fear. Didnt want to get to hyperspace the first time. So I waited 5 mins, and call the shaman again. 1st REAL TAKE: Now I took 2 big hits, and the pipe started moving like a snake. And baaam, I was gone. Reality collapsed (now I understand the meaning of this). The first thing I saw? A warm and welcoming feminine voice whispering me: ‘Follow me’, doing a ‘come here motion' with a finger. I felt like Gaia herself was welcoming into this new universe of her. The visual I saw was something like this: So I said 'Yes' and started following her through a labyrinth in space. (my mantra was 'yes' for the whole evening. Thats the best tip I heard for dealing with potential challenging situations. Just say yes to whatever is offer to you and go there. The next thing I notice was the change in the music. A few seconds in I couldnt tell the difference between the ‘real’ music and what I was hearing. In a moment everything went silent and I heard my girlfriend crying like she was right beside me. WOW. (the freaky thing is that I told her about this after the ceremony, and she told that that afternoon she cryed. And it was around the same time I was having this first trip. Coincidence? Maybe…) Then a lot of visuals, fractals, and the labyrinth in another dimension. After the trip, I felt great. I definitely went in, but I realized that it was fun, so probably I didnt took enough. So for the 2nd TAKE, I took 3 hits, and baaam. Out. More visuals, I was navigating thru this labyrinthine portals, and then I felt the Infinite. In that moment, I tensed a little bit. I had the feeling that maybe I could not get out of there. And time seemed like it wasn't moving. Then if felt like the medicine thought: 'oh, you dont like infinity? So take a look at Nothingness.' And everything went quiet (while obviously the music was still playing). Silence. And the visuals started fading, until it was nothing. All black and a huge infinite cone of darkness. The Void. Damn. I tensed a little again. I went from Infinity to Nothingness in seconds. Then during the come down, I was so grateful and happy. My hands and feet were very cold so I laid in fetus position feeling the love and the warmth of my body. I was enjoying the touch and sound of the pillow under my head so much. The music and the atmosphere was so great, that I really didnt want the last take. I felt that was enough. Unvelievable experience. But I took it anyways. 3rd TAKE: 2 hits and I felt like it was already in a familiar place. I though: 'Im here again' A warm and loving feminine energy moved me around like a leaf in the wind showing me her universe. This time I dont remember a lot of visuals, it was more of a bodily feeling. But in realty felt like I had no body. I didnt feel my arms. Then I realized that I had them in the air moving them like an orchestra director, like they were lifted with some strings like a puppet, and at the same time, I felt them touching the floor. Difficult to explain. Also I had a feeling that the shaman was by my side holding me, but I couldnt tell if it was real or part of the trip. The great thing about this take was the come down. I knew it was the last one and relaxed completely. A shamanic song was repeating: ‘Amor amor…’ (love, love) And thought of my family. I felt the love. I wanted to call my sister and hug her. I thought that everyone should try this, and when this ceremonies were a normal thing in society, maybe when we reach stage turquoise… we can have a chance of world peace, of paradise in Earth. Then the Gladiator theme song came. Is not a song that I like that much, but it brought tears to my eyes. I understood the value of great art. I felt that great art and love were the only important things in life. I understood how fucked up stage orange is, and how underdevelop we are as a society (but at the same time I felt grateful for being born in a develop part of the world where I can be part this type of experiences). After this last take, all 5 of us sat and talk with the shaman to help us integrate the experience. ----- Overall it was an unbelievable experience. The first few seconds when everything collapsed... WOW I felt so welcome in what appear to be a universe of loving feminine energy, especially the first time when what clearly felt the representation of Gaia told me to follow her… damn. Hearing my girlfriend crying, having a taste of Infinity, Nothingness and the Void... I understood the hype with DMT, bufo and ayahuasca. My fist intention was to take not too big of a dose this first time. I thought that there was no reason to hurry because I plan to do more ceremonies. But Im happy that I went in. I know I can go deeper. Sure. But for the first time... unbelievable So greatful.

Is pretty simple the misconcectpion. Tate stuff is a logical reaction to unhealthy Green (masculine, crazy, promiscuous western women) So Blue is idealized, and now guys want the unicorn: Serbian 20 year old virgin, who lives on a farm, no social media and will wake you up everyday with a bj an a healthy breakfast. Ahh and wants 7 kids. And she still will be femenine and loyal even if you move to LA. Oh, and she still has to have sex with you even if she lost attraction for you. LOL Then you have all theses guys talking about high standards in women. The misconception is believing that Green is this: And believing blue is this: Yes, of course everyone prefers a healthy blue, than a toxic Green. Every fucking day of the week. But what about a healthy integrated Green women? Check out this couple. That is what I consider HEALTHY Green: The thing is: Will a HEALTHY Green woman (with blue and orange integrated) date you? Thats the question.

Wake up at sunrise, prepare hot coffee, and enjoy the cold with some dark academia in the background.

Blue attacking green. Classic.

Agree with Leo. This week I was thinking about how difficult is to find a Yellow (or Turquoise) femenine woman. The way I see it: -Nowadays most men are Orange. -And most women are Green (with some orange ofc). Usually the challenge for men is to get into Green and connect with our femenine side, and appreciate spirituality: yoga, meditation, spirituality meetups, even some new age stuff, (even for the sake of trying it). To stop pushing so hard, and just be. To feel more. I can see that happening for a decent percentage of men (is the path Im in now). And from there the transition to yellow seems relatively easy, if orange is already integrated. But for women? Most of them are Green, but even if they have integrated orange, how many of them will really go into Yellow? How many of them are really into systems thinking and want to see the world from a neutral, objective point of view? How many of them want to learn about psychology, physics, politics, social issues etc... Of course there will some, but I guess there are so few... And even then the questions is: For most masculine guys... how many of us will like a girl in Yellow, where she probably will lose part of her femininty (green)?