Chives99

Bookmark info, screenshot them and send them to yourself on fb, write notes in onenote, journal/self reflect , affirmations

There is no wrong way , feel the music run through you, imagine it's electricity passing through your body

I second on meet-up and other social groups Moving to the city is the best thing I ever did

Customer service, I work on the phone lines for social security get paid to chat to people all day it's great

it does if you surrender, when surrender happens its like liquid peace permeating throughout your entire body

Ask her for a drink I recommend

@The_Searcher ask her out you have nothing to lose

You don't need to do checks that's a massive thing I've learned this year !!!!!!, if she has a bf SHE WILL TELL YOU , if she doesn't respond to a dm then she's probably flattered but not interested, she may flirt in the future but move on as no guarantee

Have you people met anyone nice at a rave ? Do people converse much ? I like high energy scenes as I'm very adhd , what are your experiences ?

there is no greater f*** you to people telling you that you're not good enough, dont cave to peer pressure its better to have smaller social ties than to sell out your values to hang around with shallow that only take pleasure in tearing others down to make up for lack of development in their own life

@Leo Gura music is a must

if someone is being mean to you or is making fun of you that just show they feel crap about themselves and can only feel a bit better by putting you down . FUCK THEm SAY IT WITH ME ' I AM GOOD ENOUGH' 'ANY PERSON WOULD BE LUCKY TO HAVE ME IN THEIR LIFE' FUCK THE ARSEHOLE PEOPLE

dont watch leo whilst tripping, chill put music on

Let go and be at ease then

To guys out there would you date Amber heard I mean she's hot but....... ...........

Bullies tend to social Isolate themselves in the larger scheme of things as they lack the people skills to get on with a large amount of people think of the aggressive security guard type , they wouldn't be able to get a job anywhere else

why do you need control? what would happen if you never had to 'make' a decision ever again. i mean 'YOU' are still going to do stuff, but 'you' the ego has no say in the matter, imagine giving the xbox controller of your life to the universe, what would happen? WHO FUCKING KNOWS????????? LET LIFE LIVE YOU, TAOISM IS THE ART OF EFFORTLESS ACTION, trusting yourself and your own mind means trusting the universe

his rules are completely stymied his ability to take any actionand Express himself authentically which is the what the problem is here

@NoSelfSelf one should always be open to the possibility they dont know anything

heres a thought, all of your rules are wrong and dont work

how about dropping ALLLLL rules, the world wont fall apart i promise

maybe dont see her this isnt the 1950s , women have jobs, doesnt seem like she has much respect, but you could talk it out first

why do people discuss body counts, im never telling mine

II never get any matches, i prefer the magic in person

Should I form an opinion at all???? did i really suck at the convo? maybe me getting stuck in my head and forming an opinion is what knocks me off my centre ???? maybe i should just talk without any expectation of how its going to go down? maybe we just weren't compatible? what i said wasn't inappropiate as they werent angry or disgusted but it didnt entertain them as they walked away, but again maybe we just weren't compatible? ruminated just puts me in my head even more??? nuerotypicals dont really need answers so much they arent big thinkers. IS IT EVEN POSSIBLE TO KNOW??????????????? GOD MY AUTISTIC BRAIN JUST NEEDS TO KNOW EVERYTHING, can i really just let go of knowing this and just talk and not control anything, i know how to not be inappropriate, but even some times NT's are inappropiatte so why am i even concerned about that?