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Are you planing to transcend sex completely ? I’m asking cause I’m curious if it is even possible. I mean does Sahdguru date ? I know eckart Tolle has a wife and most spiritual teacher have a sexual life but like I never really met an individual who we can say transcended sex. like did Ramana have sex ? for me that really is an interesting question and I would be really curious to know.

@Hojo the only strategic thinking was in restricting myself from going further. holding her hands and cuddling was natural and « going with the flow » as you say. @byte I do not know. That is the issue, I do not want to hurt her in any ways All I can say is that we already built deep trust in each other. as we were cuddling and things naturally were slipping into sexual territory I stepped back from her and started thinking. She asked me « what is there ? What are you thinking about? » I replied to her that « I’m feeling good with you but I have resistance due to the fact that you are 17 » which she replied a silent, then I told her « you can’t leave me alone on that one, you have to say something » then she said « I don’t know, I let you make the decisions » @TheCloud I am not creeping on her at all. She does not want to just bang an older dude. If it was the case she could already have done it with an other dude. The only things I’m scared of is -potentially breaking her heart. -my reputation

That is like saying to a homeless who can pay for one night at the hotel « a night at the hotel is not really what you want, what you want is a home » of course but a night at the hotel is still what he wants right now. I’m not arguing whether or not a man should pay for an of girl though, of course that might be counterproductive for your life, depends what you’re about.

Even if they don’t have other choice, they still want that. I’m sure a lot of guys know the girl is just playing and that does not bother them, they’re enjoying the game.

No issue with OF. No issue with talking to a girl on OF if that excites you. The issue is feeding a guy fantasy that he can build something with an OF girl by talking to her on OF. That’s just not align with the truth.

How do you even know you are talking to the girl ?

No it is not possible. Sorry to say it this way but this is a very stupid idea. you are in the worst position to seduce her if you talk to her on onlyfans. you could possibly meet an only fan girl and seduce her but not via onlyfans.

From my experience you can never chose where the shrooms will lead you. and if I do 3g+ I’m personally in very dangerous territory so I do not know, in any case I would build it more gradually to 7G if that is what you are planing to do. but hey some people report to do 10G which seems impossible to me.

Also I talked about it with the girlfriend of my younger brother which I consider a lot more mature and responsible than me eventhough she is younger and she told me that it is my responsibility to stop contact with her and that what I am doing is wrong and that she does not find a healthy boyfriend of her age because of me. Because I’m still talking to her.

Yes sorry I was really triggered seeing this post. This Truth just kills me and makes me very cynical. « girls have zero loyalty and care for you until there is sex » that just hits like a rotating samurai sword inside of me. and the fact that Leo says it makes it even more painful cause I’m thinking, if Leo says it, that’s true. All I want is to still live in my fantasy world where I can date 6month a girl taking my time, and we can fall in Love and connect prior to having sex just like in the movies I watched as a teenage.

Is a dedicated body builder an artist ? is an athlete an artist ?

I love the intro : « WARNING if you don’t want to experience powerful Love and connection with your soulmate, don’t watch this video »

What’s wrong gaming several girls at the same time ? what’s wrong not giving your heart to anyone ? What’s wrong with the « immature way of dating » (I would see the mature way of dating for a man with showing emotions, doing lots of learning to learn each other and maybe falling a little bit in Love even before sex) What’s wrong having sex with lots of girls and then choosing one eventhough you might break some hearts doing that ? if the loyalty and love of a girl is so fragile that if you don’t fuck her there is none, what’s wrong with the asshole attitude ? Seems to me that that’s the most appropriate attitude with the Truth.

Then what’s wrong against the Andrew tate’s attitude when a Man goes about dating. Seems only fair to me. There has to be a balance, other wise the game is not fair for Men, especially men with strong principles.

Yes so good to watch this

Completely agreed, this experience is the best way to really see the limits of orange.

Love is

I want to adress a really practical topic which is about : how do you concretely stop wasting time feeding the ineffective ? I’m conscious my monkey mind is squandering my potential but how do I concretely go about not thinking negative and destructive thoughts ? not feeding the jealousy ? not imagining my girl is with other dudes ? all this fantasies that clearly are a waste. basically the storie of the two wolves in you. One represent the negativity, anger, hartred, the other the love, the creativity, the joy. I’m concious I’m sabotaging myself in many ways but seem to can not find a way to stop myself from doing it. I lost many hours in useless negativity, imagining all the bads than can happen as it seems useful to my fearful mind, but really it’s not powerful at all. by the way. I find psychedelics, eventhough it gives you extreme insight, to intensify the waste of time and the monkey mind the month after I use them. letting go is cool but as I let go, I realize how much time I’m wasting trying to let go of all destructive thoughts emotions, and this is tremendous. resisting can’t be the way ? maybe going back to simple 1hour meditation a day/sport/yoga is the way ?

You are 4 years late brother. I already learned this by shooting myself.

@James123 @Princess Arabia @Ishanga @r0ckyreed @Creatorbeing Thanks for all your replies. It really helps. actually I have a day off today, will spend it meditating, doing breathing exercice in nature and reading. @James123 how do you find time to meditate 3-4hours a day ??

What does Ralston mean in this video ? I get some of what he says and have to admit it is really one of his funniest video but I always come back to « everything is states of consciousness »

How is it the first time I watch this masterpiece ? 😂

Thanks for your answer eventhough I have to admit it hurts a lot reading that if I had done things a little different, it could have been different. eventhough it might be true. I do not even want to think about this. Sorry for your story, I know what it is like, I missed so much opportunity playing the white knight too that I could not even tell all the stories here. And yes I already have frienzoned some girls. One of them is a 17yo girl, I love her so much, she really is an angel always here for me. Sometimes I feel bad cause she’s so innocent and naive. I almost made a move on her once when I felt really bad but retained myself. If I had done it I would definitely have joined the Men with no Honor crew.

Okay I’m gonna really open myself up here which is really uncomfortable for me as I’m not used to this so I would ask so I am expecting goodwill from people. basically I’m still obsessed with the same girl and it feels really toxic. I saw that girl long ago(we met in a psych ward) and I felt completely for her. We had dates, kissed it was sometimes cute. She even from time to time told me she was feeling something for me but we never had sex. Once we could have had but she basically told me no we are not gonna have sex but it was weird cause after I just said « ok » she told me « I can’t determine you » then we were sleeping next to each other she told me she felt hot and remove her clothes and was almost naked and put my hand on her breast and another on her ass. I just caressed her softly as she told me before we are not gonna have sex but did not make any very forward move as I did not want to cross what she told me before. anyway after a while she came back to her home. She then explained me she’s been raped and she can not have sex which is weird cause she before told me she had sex with another guy before we met. But when I confronted her about she told me it was because she was drunk. then we continued to hang out, it was sometimes cool, sometimes I was feeling that we did not move forward in term of our relationship. Anyway another time I would have an opportunity to have sex with her but I did not because she was too drunk and my soul can not fuck a drunk girl . anyway then she told me that she only sees my as a friend and I learned that she fucked other dudes(she did not even told me, I had to invistigate on myself) and later she text me saying « are u okay » we talked and finally decided to meet again. I was expecting to only meet as friend but she was giving me signals telling me she missed me and asking me as we were talking « but you do not still want me » the. After hesitation I kissed her, decided to give it another shot but after admitting by text to her one night as I was a little pissed of and traumatize by the fact that she fucked other dudes that I invistigated in a not healthy way. and knew people she fucked. She told me it was the end and she did not want to see me again. I was completely heartbroken. I also have to say I have mental Illnesses so mixing love for a woman with my neurosis is never healthy for me I think. anyway for a certain time I felt also a little relief telling myself at least all the toxicity of the relationship is over and I tried to date other girls but I’m realizing how physically selectif I’ve became. I realize she was maybe physically out of my league cause the girls I date I always find something that bother me. And I did not find a girl which I could really connect and who I would be willing to sacrifice a little physicality for personality. Anyway as I’m writting, we could say I’m having an « ex backlash » I do not even know if I could call her an ex as we did not even have sex but anyway I feel terrible. My state of consciousness is burning, and I can really feel a flame feeling in my conscious which is really awful.

Thanks a lot, it felt really good reading this !