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It is actually very simple: -can you separate reality from the mind? -No

@meta_male I feel you very much on that one. Lots of people do not have an idea of what it is like to be torn up by rage from the inside. from my experience what helps is : -sport of course(any kind of sport, make sure you surpass yourself. The more you surpass yourself the calmer you are after :p) -cold shower -any kind of feminine energy (the most would be to have a classy loving girlfriend stroking your hair(or your head)) but I find that even just a real female friend is very helpful. -some medicine/nootropic: L Theanine, gingcko, and yes I found recently L tryptophan which works amazingly well on me and you can find other molecules(gaba …, do your research there really is a possibility for a crutch here) -and of course meditation yoga, all the spiritual classics can help.

If you are about meditation, I would say Eckhart Tolle is the best. The guy just devoted his whole life to « presence » I find Eckhart Tolle to be the best for me to relax and really connect to the present moment.

Here is to me after all the personal development work and reflection the best advice. this guy is a 29 old who struggles with life, especially with dating, I find his talks to be pretty inspiring as he keeps fighting every day for a better life and shows great vulnerability in his talks. In the end you really are very limited and all you can do is keep showing up and fighting every day. That’s all, everything else is mental masturbation. as even Leo is realizing, genetics play a very important role and there is no magic pill to transform completely. The secret to happiness to me is to be sure you are doing the best you can by showing up everyday to do the most as you can every day, that’s all you can do, that’s all you should do (Ps: notice the pure class of this sunglasses 😎 he is the real sigma to me, not even joking)

Are you planing to transcend sex completely ? I’m asking cause I’m curious if it is even possible. I mean does Sahdguru date ? I know eckart Tolle has a wife and most spiritual teacher have a sexual life but like I never really met an individual who we can say transcended sex. like did Ramana have sex ? for me that really is an interesting question and I would be really curious to know.

@Hojo the only strategic thinking was in restricting myself from going further. holding her hands and cuddling was natural and « going with the flow » as you say. @byte I do not know. That is the issue, I do not want to hurt her in any ways All I can say is that we already built deep trust in each other. as we were cuddling and things naturally were slipping into sexual territory I stepped back from her and started thinking. She asked me « what is there ? What are you thinking about? » I replied to her that « I’m feeling good with you but I have resistance due to the fact that you are 17 » which she replied a silent, then I told her « you can’t leave me alone on that one, you have to say something » then she said « I don’t know, I let you make the decisions » @TheCloud I am not creeping on her at all. She does not want to just bang an older dude. If it was the case she could already have done it with an other dude. The only things I’m scared of is -potentially breaking her heart. -my reputation

That is like saying to a homeless who can pay for one night at the hotel « a night at the hotel is not really what you want, what you want is a home » of course but a night at the hotel is still what he wants right now. I’m not arguing whether or not a man should pay for an of girl though, of course that might be counterproductive for your life, depends what you’re about.

Even if they don’t have other choice, they still want that. I’m sure a lot of guys know the girl is just playing and that does not bother them, they’re enjoying the game.

No issue with OF. No issue with talking to a girl on OF if that excites you. The issue is feeding a guy fantasy that he can build something with an OF girl by talking to her on OF. That’s just not align with the truth.

How do you even know you are talking to the girl ?

No it is not possible. Sorry to say it this way but this is a very stupid idea. you are in the worst position to seduce her if you talk to her on onlyfans. you could possibly meet an only fan girl and seduce her but not via onlyfans.

From my experience you can never chose where the shrooms will lead you. and if I do 3g+ I’m personally in very dangerous territory so I do not know, in any case I would build it more gradually to 7G if that is what you are planing to do. but hey some people report to do 10G which seems impossible to me.

Also I talked about it with the girlfriend of my younger brother which I consider a lot more mature and responsible than me eventhough she is younger and she told me that it is my responsibility to stop contact with her and that what I am doing is wrong and that she does not find a healthy boyfriend of her age because of me. Because I’m still talking to her.

Yes sorry I was really triggered seeing this post. This Truth just kills me and makes me very cynical. « girls have zero loyalty and care for you until there is sex » that just hits like a rotating samurai sword inside of me. and the fact that Leo says it makes it even more painful cause I’m thinking, if Leo says it, that’s true. All I want is to still live in my fantasy world where I can date 6month a girl taking my time, and we can fall in Love and connect prior to having sex just like in the movies I watched as a teenage.

Is a dedicated body builder an artist ? is an athlete an artist ?

I love the intro : « WARNING if you don’t want to experience powerful Love and connection with your soulmate, don’t watch this video »

What’s wrong gaming several girls at the same time ? what’s wrong not giving your heart to anyone ? What’s wrong with the « immature way of dating » (I would see the mature way of dating for a man with showing emotions, doing lots of learning to learn each other and maybe falling a little bit in Love even before sex) What’s wrong having sex with lots of girls and then choosing one eventhough you might break some hearts doing that ? if the loyalty and love of a girl is so fragile that if you don’t fuck her there is none, what’s wrong with the asshole attitude ? Seems to me that that’s the most appropriate attitude with the Truth.

Then what’s wrong against the Andrew tate’s attitude when a Man goes about dating. Seems only fair to me. There has to be a balance, other wise the game is not fair for Men, especially men with strong principles.

Yes so good to watch this

Completely agreed, this experience is the best way to really see the limits of orange.

Love is

I want to adress a really practical topic which is about : how do you concretely stop wasting time feeding the ineffective ? I’m conscious my monkey mind is squandering my potential but how do I concretely go about not thinking negative and destructive thoughts ? not feeding the jealousy ? not imagining my girl is with other dudes ? all this fantasies that clearly are a waste. basically the storie of the two wolves in you. One represent the negativity, anger, hartred, the other the love, the creativity, the joy. I’m concious I’m sabotaging myself in many ways but seem to can not find a way to stop myself from doing it. I lost many hours in useless negativity, imagining all the bads than can happen as it seems useful to my fearful mind, but really it’s not powerful at all. by the way. I find psychedelics, eventhough it gives you extreme insight, to intensify the waste of time and the monkey mind the month after I use them. letting go is cool but as I let go, I realize how much time I’m wasting trying to let go of all destructive thoughts emotions, and this is tremendous. resisting can’t be the way ? maybe going back to simple 1hour meditation a day/sport/yoga is the way ?

You are 4 years late brother. I already learned this by shooting myself.

@James123 @Princess Arabia @Ishanga @r0ckyreed @Creatorbeing Thanks for all your replies. It really helps. actually I have a day off today, will spend it meditating, doing breathing exercice in nature and reading. @James123 how do you find time to meditate 3-4hours a day ??

What does Ralston mean in this video ? I get some of what he says and have to admit it is really one of his funniest video but I always come back to « everything is states of consciousness »