Razard86

The part that I find so funny about this entire topic...is everybody is talking about what is real and what isn't real. First of all what is real or isn't real is subjective if you aren't talking from an absolute sense. Second every label someone makes up is just that a label. So arguing whether Sigma male even exists is like arguing whether a cat exists. A cat is not a cat, we just call it a cat. Its just a label or map that we utilize to navigate things. What you SHOULD question is whether the definition applied to the words Sigma, Alpha and Beta works and I'll tell you it does work. Now whether the INTREPRETATION of those meanings works is a WHOLE OTHER STORY. Because the irony I have discovered is that each label actually inadvertently helps and hurts the other. I'll give an example. Most Alphas have sex with various women without having to invest in them. The only reason this is the case, is because most betas are all investing in the same girls that Alpha is having sex with. Now the Alpha goes home and brags and thinks he did something, not realizing that without those betas he looks down upon he would need to invest. The irony is a Pure Alpha is not fully integrated because he is too selfish. The irony is a Pure Beta is not fully integrated because he is too self-sacrificing. They are both polar opposites of the extremes, and need to be balanced. The Alpha needs to broaden his definition of self to include others and the Beta needs to remember that his self exists and deserves to be cared for i.e. boundaries.

Here is how it all works. When Leo did his solipsism video the key point that people didn't catch is, he wasn't just saying OTHER was imaginary he was saying YOU the HUMAN YOU is imaginary. So once you understand that EVERYTHING in the dream world is imaginary and the only thing that ISN'T is your BEING!!! Then it starts to make sense. The cool thing is it also shows you how an infinite mind can have INFINITE representations of itself at various different levels of consciousness and you get to experience how each of them view and interact with life. I believe once you realize life is imaginary it takes ALL the pressure of life off because DEATH is IMAGINARY. NOTE: Obviously I am not saying to harm yourself, but I am saying ultimately as a result all fear is an illusion. So we can take solace that we have the ability to chase whatever dreams we desire because its all imaginary, just a mind game. So in short: Your human self is imaginary. All OTHERS are imaginary. But the perspective that each OTHER has is really YOUR perspective you are just not conscious of this. If someone "kills" you that is an illusion and part of the dream and vice versa for you as well. So all perspectives that you argue against are YOURS, all actions that you see others take ARE YOURS, when you judge others you are JUDGING YOURSELF, and when you hate aspects of reality you are hating WHAT YOU CREATED.