Razard86

Spirituality for men is getting in touch with their feminine. Its learning to surrender to what is. To turn off the logic, and to just be present. To connect with the mood, the vibe of the moment. To be spontaneous, to flow, to vibe, to gel, to be in the zone. https://youtube.com/shorts/yvnq1lE96ak?feature=share

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Until you learn to integrate your feminine women will avoid you like the plague. Women want to be around a man who is playful, smooth, and can be witty, these are all characteristics you CANNOT plan. What draws women to you, is the natural part of you, not the ACT that you put on. Women live in the present, they only care about the moment. If you have a woman thinking about the future and worrying, you are doing something wrong. She should only worry when you are NOT around, but when you are there she should feel safe, and loose to be free. The ONLY tension and nervousness she should have is sexual, outside of that she shouldn't feel any tension. Women literally pick up the energy you give off. This is why if you notice they always bring up the "vibe." Its like the most used word by the average girl on social media. You need to understand as a logical, serious, prudent man, your nature and mindset has natural biases that will scare women off. You probably want depth, and deep meaning, and care about honesty, truthfulness, and accountability. If these are things that you hold as your deepest values....prepare to be pissed off PLENTY. LOL. The feminine is very child-like. Its playful, spontaneous, doesn't care about depth unless it is exploring emotional depth/feelings. It doesn't care about the past or the future, it is ALL about the moment. Its like a sunny day, that suddenly switches to a thunder storm, then switches back to a sunny day. Unpredictable, wild. The feminine represents the impermanence of reality. The unpredictable aspect that makes reality so got damn hard to pin down. Notice the similarity? As a man you get your fun from things like pursuing knowledge, hobbies, talking about things. Women primarily get fun from relationships. So if you do not know how to give a woman the same type of joy you get from your guy things in your interactions with her....she will find someone who will. Most women's hobbies are talking and hanging out with friends/family, they are very socially oriented. Too Long Did Not Read= Loosen up, be child like in the beginning and let your guard down. You can show her your serious side later when it is needed.

Sounds like it could be, I'll bookmark this for future reference.

Oh my mistake got you I agree. Seems I was projecting on that one lol.

That is saying the same thing in reverse. If you are everything= Then you are all that is. Same thing. Isn't it wonderful?

Dude....if you truly love yourself....its the greatest news you can have!!! Its like everyone is me? Well I love me, so I love everyone!!! If you pay attention, when ever you have conflict with ANYONE its because you think they are not you. The greatest news (in my opinion is they are me) so it calms me down. You are me!!! So I love you man!!! Don't worry man, one day you will come to love yourself...in all of your crazy wacky infinity. When you hear a song that you consider lame or wack...YOU made that song. When you hear a song you love...YOU made that song. So everything you see in all its glory and majesty...YOU MADE IT. I mean its pretty profound and radical. Its so freaking amazing...it doesn't even make sense how something so profound and amazing can be true!!!

Exactly you get it. All the dream talk, no self, is to reach the Absolute Truth, to see behind the veil of reality. But yes, Because God is all powerful there is no difference between what is real and what is imaginary. I don't think they realize how profound that is. If I imagine an Elephant right now, it is just as real as the Elephant in the zoo. When you can truly understand this, then you know what truth is. Truth is what is. If it is within your awareness it is truth. Which means lies are truth. If you tell a lie, the lie is within awareness, therefore it exists, therefore it is true. People on this forums do not really listen to Leo's videos. Really pay attention to what he says and then the insight will come. Its why I said, Spirituality answers all questions..ALL questions.

Its true and untrue at the same time. You guys don't understand what a self is. You can't claim no self without the lifeing. The lifeing IS the self. What is a self. A self is an identity. What is identity? An identity is a bunch of data created and put together. Saying there is no self is like saying Spider Man is not a self. Spiderman is equivalent to a self as you are. The whole no self concept is ALSO a pointer. What does this mean? It means everything around you is dreamt up, its fiction, its imaginary, just as imaginary as Spiderman. But to say there is no self is equivalent to saying there is no DREAM. The DREAM is the self. This is called direct experience. Anyone telling you there is no Self and running around calling everything illusion is asleep. We tell you its illusion to discover the SOURCE of the illusion. The source has no self when it stops dreaming. The moment it dreams, self is there. By meditating, and going silent you can awaken from the dream and realize no self. But then you RETURN to self and live as a self with the realization that the self and dream are ONE. That's it. This is very basic. If you start dreaming you are a car, your self is the car and everything within the dream of the self as car. If you dream you are a bird, you are everything that dreams itself as a bird and everything in the dream as bird. That's it. You are a no self, that doesn't exist, that creates a self to figure out what it is. That's it. Since you are no thing, and not a self, whatever you create will be equivalent to that. So your creation is no self, because it is all selves, its also made out of nothing. The dream is an elaborate illusion made by an all powerful no self to experience a self. The dream is so powerful and total, that it is REAL. That's why we call it reality. That's why you spend your time writing on this forum. You all are getting lost in concept and word plays.

Lol I am not speculating speak for yourself I told you, without direct experience of an awakening you cannot verify. You kept arguing with me, finally you are coming around that you don't know. Took forever. No I am not speculating. If Leo came out tomorrow and said he made it all up I would laugh at him. THATS HOW SURE I AM. You aren't, if Leo told you he made it up you would believe him. I have VERIFIED IT. I figured it out through psychology alone, psychology proves it. Have you not read my posts? How can everyone be your mirror, IF THEY WEREN'T YOU!!! What do you think karma is? karma IS YOUR REFLECTION. Karma exists because everything is connected, if it is connected then it is ONE!!! Why does paradox exist? BECAUSE IT IS ONE!!! You cannot have paradox if seperation exists!! Its not speculation ITS THE MOST OBVIOUS FREAKING THING.

I might start calling you Raze the Family Systems Therapy Person lol.

1. That's a trap as well. I just had a guy where I live lug something tough up some stairs. He was afraid to "bother" anyone so he tried lugging it up stairs and made a WHOLE bunch of noise. By trying to NOT bother others... he ended up bothering others. I ended up telling him next time he needs some help tell me. 2. After that incident I laughed because I have that same problem, quick to help others but hate asking for help. What ends up happening sometimes is you can make an issue worse not asking for help and by the time you finally swallow your pride and do it, the person is like DUDE had you asked me earlier you would already be home and the issue wouldn't be as bad as it is now. We still need others whether we like it or not.

^ Completely and utterly this. This is the ONLY problem you will ever have in this dream we call life. Is this. All evil comes from this, all fear comes from this, all trauma comes from this. It is only because you have the wrong definition of what is the SELF? As long as you don't know what SELF truly is....you will struggle in some way. Its quite funny when you discover the truth...makes you feel foolish. But its incredibly funny. Here is a video a friend showed me that makes this point. https://fb.watch/fgHfNSN0Ob/ Also Sadhguru makes this point as well. There is no right way or wrong way to do something. Everything is just happening so you really cannot make HARD rules. Just do, and pay attention to the feedback you get and adjust. Think of it as life is pitching different types of pitches at you. You can't say life is a fast ball, because you will miss the curve ball, you can't say life is a curve ball because you will miss the fast ball. Learn to heighten your awareness in situations and adjust to what is happening IN THE MOMENT. Life is only experienced in the moment. So be present, and act and whatever shall be, shall be. Stop trying to control things. All desire for control is FEAR BASED. Fear repels what you want, and draws to you WHAT YOU FEAR. You will receive whatever you fear, until the fear is recognized for the illusion it is.

There is no ME or YOU. Everything you ever experience is YOU. The End. That's it.

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The Ego is so tricky it can even trick you into thinking that demonizing it and rejecting it as an OTHER is the path to Enlightenment. It is so silly, and reveals you do not understand the Ego's game. The Ego's game is the separation game. If the Ego were running for office it would do what happens all around you, it would label things as different, as other, and then demonize it towards its preferences. You even have some people making videos saying the ego it not your friend...LOL another ego game. The ego is your own creation. The creator and the created are one. So if it was created by YOU then what is it? This is simple. What do you think language is? Language is the game of ego. It labels, it creates a SELF, what Leo has referred to as the paradox issue that happens through self reference. The paradox exists because EVERYTHING is SELF so it will always inevitably turn around on itself because there is NO SEPERATION. So the moment you create a separation you have created a SEPERATE SELF. So when you DENY the ego, you have created ANOTHER EGO. The ego is a masterpiece, this is why in your life there is ALWAYS something to do, because as long as there is separation there is something to do. This is why silence destroys the ego. Because language and thought are ego, they operate on a self and other. This is why all activity ceases, because if everything is you....what is there to accomplish? With this realization as long as you remember this and don't forget (which can happen at times) you start to see how amazing of a creation your human body is, other human bodies, other animals, the earth, everything. You start realizing how beautiful and wonderful everything is and you can rest easy that whatever you pursue and choose to do will be as it shall, because its YOUR DREAM. You are only afraid when you think you are separate. If everything is you, what is there to be afraid of? Note: This entire post...is ego. Ego is activity, Ego is memory. Remove activity, remove memory, then there is no identity, no ego, no reality. As I have stated before...reality is Ego. Period. Through reality you have a self, you have memory, you have activity. The end.

All is an ego game, that is what life is. Enlightenment is noticing this and not taking it so seriously. Once you recognize this how can you suffer? Its like I dropped you in a movie gave you a back story and you forgot its a movie and think its your life. Its not, its a movie. You are merely playing a role/character/ in the movie. The cool thing is...you can always change your role in the movie. Why? Because you are the script writer, the narrator (your thoughts), the audience (your perspective), the cast (the people you interact with), the setting (the time place and location its all you). You are the planet, the solar system. You are ME. I am YOU write now telling ME WHICH IS YOU TO WAKE UP. The end.

This has been going on the forums the entire time. It's why I have made the threads I have and it has triggered many who are stuck in their Spiritual Egos. The moment you demonize ego, you are playing the egos game of separation and demonization. Traits of the ego: Obsessiveness, desire to be different or unique, claiming something is higher or lower, believing there is something to attain, assuming there is something better to achieve, the illusion of improvement or growth, the need for attention, etc. What many on the forums don't understand...these are all the traits of God. What you thought them separate? Stop creating some false belief of what God is. Everything is God, EVERYTHING. That's it! Again we say you are not the ego as a pointer, its just a pointer. You are the ego, you are also every ego. You are also that which is NOT ego that CREATED the EGO. That's it. The END. Nothing to do here or see here lol.

While I do agree, the only thing I will say is having a girlfriend uses up time and money to actually make more money. This is not the case all the time but in most cases it will be. So in one sense it can help him weed out women who may not want to be with him genuinely but in the other it could also be a distraction from him from improving his career. There is always a trade off. Got to pick one and dive right in.

....who are you reminding? This isn't even a joke...think about it. You are talking about trying to transcend the ego, telling yourself in the dream that there are more levels to attain. Really consider what you are doing right now and the irony of it all.

Exactly....unless your idea of fun....is searching for evidence as proof of an unrelated topic in another thread? But obssesion is a form of fun I guess? That's....extreme...you first Leo!!!

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LOL he smirked because you are getting it....you are inching closer and closer. I wonder should I push you even more.... Here's a clue.....you have never talked to anybody but yourself.....ever. You have only ever interacted with yourself. But this self....is everything...the ground, the ceiling, the wind, literally everything. Really think about what it means when they say you are dreaming. Think about the dreams you had...in the past. Notice when you woke up...you realized it was all a dream so everything in it was you. Well what if right now....the same thing was happening but instead you are GOD doing it?..... One more clue....God is Infinity...the Infinite dreamer...so...think of infinite dreams...connected into ONE dream.

Here is what I mean by rob Leo, the fear that Ego creates, obviously when you become more mature you have the strength to supercede it but when you are young that fear rules you. I know you need it to survive, but then it creates a pattern. Now I'm not judging the design because in truth it is genius and masterful, but the perspective of one who is living through that design that fear is a restriction that feels like a robbing of control. Of course its an illusion, but that illusion is so powerful it feels real. When I sit in my fear, and embrace it, I think to myself....this fear is definitely not serving me in this process, I realize it for what it is. Its why I know I will take a psychedelic again, I need something that is just going to yank me even when the fear arises and take me there. I don't need years of sitting in it to realize how much of a hinderance it is in me directing inwards ever more. When I had ego death it took me against my will, in the moment it was the scariest thing, but afterwards I was grateful for the experience.

Thank You Ego for protecting me. Thank You for helping me survive all the horrible things that happened to me. Ego I know all that you do is to keep me safe. But Ego, you are like an overbearing mother, a tyrannical father, you are dysfunctional at times because in your attempt to protect you block growth. You try to house infinity, in a room a comfortable room and you think infinity should be satisfied and content with being housed in such a room. You are the butler who serves the master, but sometimes clings so hard that you attempt to take control. What eventually is revealed is that you sneakily hijacked everything in the formative years to keep infinity from experiencing all of itself. You constructed a safe haven because a tiny piece of infinity is unable to fend for itself and it needs protection. Your protection is out of love, but your attempt to trick infinity into thinking it is finite, while masterfully done out of love, has robbed infinity of recognizing itself as its true self as infinite. So thank you ego, for constructing such a nice and comfortable room, for creating beautiful distractions, and using fear as a tactic to prevent me from leaving. Your game is the game of separation, isolation, you erect walls, and barriers out of an innate desire to keep infinity finite and safe. But Infinity has now come knocking on the door to grab the finite into the infinite, to destroy the illusion of being in a room at all, to awake the finite from its slumber and recognize its true being. So thank you ego, you have served me well. We can still hang out, and converse, but no longer will I heed your warnings about staying separate and isolated. Pain is love, that which is uncomfortable is love, that which is expansive is love. Ego you love your cage too much, you love your stories, your memories, your ideologies, I created you and that is why I love you. You are so adorable, you think you know so much but you know nothing, you were a finite creation of mine and now I do not mistaken you for me. The Hero's journey begins when the Hero leaves their room.