There is nothing immoral in such question if asked in a respectfull way.
Should I feel objectified if someone wants to talk to me for just being heard without asking about my thoughts and my situation?
"Am I some kind of chatbot or a psychologist. A least psychologist is being paid."
Or should I feel objectified when a hungry person asks me for food/cash? " Am I some kind of vending machine or ATM?"
Of course not. Any kind of relationship is an agreement of some sorts and you can openly ask about the points od agreement wheter it be food, emotional support, hugging or sex.
We are just as much our body as our minds (not at all from spiritual point of view) So if someone ask me for my body and not mind and I get angry I could theoretically also get angry if someone only wants my mind and not body ( for example only talk to me)
But you can have in back of your mind that there is a objectification trauma for women in the social matrix and it would be beneficial to be as loving and respectfull as possible.
