Arthogaan

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  1. I highly recommend this radical talk about the misconceptions of relationships: https://youtu.be/L612S0MnHnw
  2. Just a little post. I wanted to share my "method". When I want to enter meditative state but there is still a lot of noise in my head I strongly say to myself and imagine that I as a Ghost in this very second just entered this body and have acces to all its senses, memories, mind, style of thinking etc. It instantly distances me from it. It makes me curious oh, what is this belief that this body has, oh what is this bias. I am not this body, I am not this ego, I am not these memories. It also generates this feeling of looking at the world for the first time as if the feeling of something being normal is also not mine as Ghost, but this body's. Yeah thats all I wanted to share <3.
  3. @Preety_India Can you imagine a version of yourself in some pararel reality that does not care whatsoever what other people say about you? Can you just imagine that and feel how would it be? What stops you from becoming that version every day a little bit more? Please consider watching that video:
  4. I really like falling asleep knowing I will disappear for a while. It is one of my goals for future to learn to keep my awareness awake while in deep sleep to feel that better.
  5. @Preety_India so Yarco does not like you. It is a fact. No matter wheter he writes what he writes, or he gets banned, or you get banned it is still a fact of your reality that he does not like you. Even if he stops writing what he writes, it is still a fact. You can not change that fact. So what now? Can you ignore/accept it? Why does it even matter to you? Who cares what Yarco is saying about you? Can you let it go? If no why not?
  6. Whenever you don't like what is happening to you you have two options: 1. Change the situation ( for example leave the forum) 2. Accept the situation and feel good about it/ignore it.
  7. Deep down yes. But she does not have as strong Self-Love and confidence as me so for example I know if I would do some crazy stuff it would feel dangerous for her and it would hurt her so I do not. Also she has no desire to do such stuff herself. She once did sleep with other guy out of curiosity how would she feel and if I trully wouldn't mind. It was really fun talking about it and it made us stronger and love each other even more. She does not look to do that again. So there is slight asymetry but I want to give her that safety of growth. She will reach the "unconditional" level some day I believe. At the end of the day it's lack of unconditional Self-love that stops us from loving others unconditionally. For example the belief that it means something bad about you if your partner does something other than you would like him to do.
  8. Its funny to see when scientifically minded people have glimpse of spirituality and they have problem articulating it as "noone is talking about it" as he said. And that he is saying that he does not suffer and his scientifically minded audience pities him and advices him to seek professional help haha. Thats cute.
  9. I love my fiance unconditionally. She can do whatever she wants and it won't hurt me. She can move out. She can sleep with other man. It does not touch me because she is Me. It's like my other body. How could I be mad for second part of my body for doing what it feels like doing. Posession is main sickness in relationships. Your partner does not owe you ANYTHING. No games. No strategies to get what you want from them. This radicall video helped me change perspective some years ago: https://youtu.be/TEkEq8YVAnA
  10. You are biased. I also watch him for 7 years and I would write everything opposite to what you wrote. He seem much more happy, healthy and inteligent from my pov. (I am biased too ofc)
  11. It helps you do stuff that you find uninteresting. And most people do something that does not interest them for a living.
  12. That's what everyone is saying here:
  13. Great! I had similliar vision on shrooms. Saw one face morphing into every person I know, mother, fiance, teachers from elementary school, Hitler etc. There is this One morphing into infinite faces.
  14. I wanted to comment some old post and got the notification to post a new thread instead. It is just my opinion. The fact that everything is perfect, and that all is imaginary and that there is only consciousness does not mean that we can't imrove the harmony within that dream. We can strive to decrease suffering just for the sake of it being beautiful. Of course there is no need to. I was on a Keto diet for 4 years (mainly meat, fish, eggs). So I am the last one to judge anyone. But then I watched Yurofsky speech : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U5hGQDLprA8&ab_channel=GaryYourofsky and movie Dominion (Highly recommended). And I just cried. Even though I already knew at that point that there ultimately is no suffering. That all of death and life is just a beautiful dance. That there is no good vs bad. But still with that in mind it made me shed some tears. And I stopped eating meat and went vegan the next day. Now I am vegetarian because it is so much easier to start a day with some scrambled eggs for me and I totally know that I ignore the pain of those beings just to be a little more comfortable for breakfast. Maybe I could be considered more evil than average meat-eater, because of being totally conscious of the pain but still eating my eggs. Everyone has their ignorance bar at some level and I am no different. It is not even about killing and eating. It is about the tortures that these poor souls go through in these farms. The legs of chickens are breaking because they can not withstand the fast growth. The mother cows cry for their children ( they have a very strong matternal instinct/love). They do not ever see sun. They have the same emotions that cats and dogs have. Cows and pigs for sure. Yes. Plants are also living being. Also can feel pain of some sorts. But if you care for plants too you should stop eating meat. The 80% of plant production is just for meat production. 26% of global water consumption is wasted on meat. Only 4% of calories that we feed animals is then consumed by us in the form of meat. We lose 96% of calories we would have had from plants. It is extremelly inefficient process. Kurzgesagt video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NxvQPzrg2Wg&ab_channel=Kurzgesagt–InaNutshell So if you think that plants are living beings that also should be respected then you should have even more motivation to resign from meat. Or if you just care about environment. So if you are one of those lucky people like me, that do not need meat to feel good, to be healthy - because totally for some it is needed (for example Bentinho Massaro tried to be vegan but it quickly deteriorated his health and he said it was a really powerful catalyst for him to understand the dance of life) - if you are one of those lucky ones please consider decreasing you consumption. Love ya.
  15. Yes, I totally agree it would still be huge and thats what we should focus too. I also do not eat meat at all to inspire others in a way. If maybe my family sees that I do not eat it for many years maybe it will be enough for them to deacrese consumption by 20%. Thats the function of being a change. There is nothing to disagree - I just said that it would be a treshold for me that conceptual 20%. For you it is maybe 1%. For some highly ideological propaganda vegans probably 50%.
  16. What is the best way for you as awakaned consciousness to make the world (that you are imagining) a better place? Is vibrating high frequency more beneficial to the world than doing? Who is doing more good the one seeting in a cave in samadhi or feeding children but with a low conscious mind? Are there aliens in a world that you are dreaming? What do you like more Sun vs Moon and why? Also bananas vs strawberrys and why?
  17. I think he is critiquing Solipsism from perspective of still being indentified with the Ego. Not True Solipsism. Anyway thank you for that video. I resonate with his vibe and will check him out.
  18. Are You Infinite Blackness or Infinite Whiteness?
  19. Guys. We need more stage yellow thinking here. It is not so simple. I was on keto/omnivore for 4 years and I felt really good and I liked a lot of things about it. I was also purely vegan for over a year and had great blood results and I like many things about it. There are people that would be malnourished by vegan diet. I am not one of them. There would be a lot of people that would be miserable on carnivore diet. We really need to start to realize how much optimal eating is dependend on each individual. There are a lot of 10+ years vegan that feel great. There are many long term omnivores that feel great. But if we can why not deacrese the amount of suffering. Also if I would feel worse lets say 10-20% because of not eating meat, I would probably still not eat meat. I am just a kind of person that would do that kind of sacrifice for less suffering. But lets say that my specific body would feel 50% worse. That would actually not be the price I am willing to take and I would eat meat again. Lets not judge anyone on each side. I would not eat meat even if it would be produced in harmony. Part of my personal journey is to learn to see the Creator in each being and feeling more campassion. But it is just my mission. There was a study in which a child were to choose to kill a human vs dog. On average kids valued 1 dog life = 2 human lifes. We are conditioned with advertising that eating meat is so loffy-duffy. Each chicken and pig in an advertisemnt smiles and is happy to be eaten. There is no blood. There was a Carefour (supermarket) that on some occasion decided to sell ducks with feathers on its meat compartment. There was a huge outburst that it is unethical to sell such animals with heads and feathers. We are so conditioned that average person does not even see meat as part of animal, a corpse, muscles. It is just meat in their minds. It is not natural for most people to hunt for an animal. We are deeple detached. Love ya.
  20. Why is there Evil? Is Evil made of Love? Why did you as God imagine evil things?
  21. Infinity was/is not aware at first. In perfect, quality-less state. And then it wanted to know itself. Consciousness arose just as first imaginations were imagined.