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@Leo Gura

All these games mess with me Will the chase be the death of me? It's 3 AM and I'm tryin' to forget you I'm so lost, I don't know what to do Every time that I lied I just needed to be free I was dumb, it wasn't me You know, you know I was young and afraid Always looking after me But I think I finally see it all I should've treated you better Should've treated you right 'Cause the grass ain't greener on the other side I should've treated you better Should've treated you right 'Cause the grass ain't greener on the other side I should've treated you better Should've treated you right 'Cause the grass ain't greener on the other side I should've treated you better Should've treated you right 'Cause the grass ain't greener on the other side I used to hate your stubborn ways But now I don't want you to change All your love was all too much But now I need to feel your touch Every time that I lied I just needed to be free I was dumb, it wasn't me You know, you know I was young and afraid Always looking after me But I think I finally see it all I should've treated you better Should've treated you right 'Cause the grass ain't greener on the other side I should've treated you better Should've treated you right 'Cause the grass ain't greener on the other side I should've treated you better Should've treated you right 'Cause the grass ain't greener on the other side I should've treated you better Should've treated you right 'Cause the grass ain't greener on the other side

Jordan Peterson agrees.

@Virtually Thanks mang, learning something new about the forum little by little

To me Owen says the same things Leo talks about in his Social Matrix episode. It never even occured to me he was into conspiracy talk.

@Space Here's a better alternative:

Have a good birthday you talking head

Orgasm without ejaculating is not what the average person is doing, I doubt they would even know that exists. You say to stop telling people they shouldn't masturbate yet you're essentially saying a should yourself (you should masturbate only in this non-ejaculatory fashion). Besides that, if what you're saying is true, then most people aren't masturbating healthily anyways, how many people do know this orgasm-without-ejaculation technique?

That's funny, because fapping once a day is my own minimal goal for reducing my streak. If there are days where I do not fap at all that's a bonus for me. Back when my Internet addiction got really bad I'd have consecutive days where I get my release 3-4 times day, I think my hottest day was seven. And I been in communities of people who done just as much if not even more than I have. So count your blessings if you're only jerking off once a day, there's worse off things you could be judging yourself for, nor do you have to judge yourself for your hair fetish either. Everybody has their own unique tastes

Hey buddy I think you got the wrong door. The Spirituality section's two blocks down.

@Husseinisdoingfine Wow, on second thought, yeah, you should join the army. Godspeed dude ? /sarcasm

@Antor8188 I think that's mostly for gay men brah https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Handkerchief_code "The code was most widely used in the 1970s in the United States, Canada, Australia, and Europe, by gay and bisexual men seeking casual sex, or BDSM practitioners." "The hanky code was a semiotic system of sexual advertising popular among the gay leather community of the United States [10] and cruising scene more broadly."

You wouldn't be tempted if you were around when that mod-who-must-not-be-named went on spamming that Neo-Advaitan nonsense ?

Mini Habits and Elastic Habits by Stephen Guise are also books focused on tiny habit change.

There's a weekly checkup thread in the Journaling section, you can post there. Or you can post a dedicated one in this subforum. To video chat what exactly? If you want to show something you can use an MP4 or upload a YouTube video.

No one's stopping you from creating accountability threads or friendships through PMs. Otherwise it's best to keep this community seperate from real life. From the proportion of total posts this is primarily a spirituality forum, and the dangers of cults is not to be understated.

This should help, I remember Leo made a blogpost about this: https://www.actualized.org/insights/solo-retreat-supplies-checklist

Oh shit they're talking about us back now, truly we've gone meta ??

I just checked and apparently Adeptus Psychonautica is actually defending Leo from some of the accusations being made against him, the discussion there is that bad. What ironic kino, the one person Leo and others called a "troll" and dogpiled him on about here is actively trying the clear the air for him ☠

And what if your true nature, with all the love and good intentions in your heart, is to murder someone tomorrow? ☝️

Friendly reminder that someone got banned because they questioned about Leo during one of his strict retreats lol

I think you'll largely benefit from an entrepreneur's perspective on meditation. Meditation helps your concentration and focus, Leo has also mentioned using dedicated concentration exercises to aid your meditation, but obviously that could also help you with your attention and productivity as well. Cal Newport also has his own spin on meditation to supplement his deep workflow:

As long as you don't use death grip you should be fine. Just masturbate less often as others have said and use a grip that's just firmly around your girth, nothing tighter.

Are these posted from his Twitter? I think tweets can be embed on this forum