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    @samijiben

    When you are working 45 hours a week, currently 3 weeks on no days off, and the rest of your hours are spent trying to start a business, exercising, or relaxing.  I already know I am god, I had that realisation in 2012. It doesn't unmake the reality I am experiencing. Can you not step outside your own micro perspective for a second and actually BE the reality you are experiencing in this message? Here i'll show you, and i'll do it for both of us.

    I am god. Everything I experience I am and that is all I need. There is only observation and experience, it is the only constant in the universe. - Your perspective. Reality is me, I don't ignore it, I am present with it, this is the current reflection of myself I am experiencing - My perspective. These are both the same thing. Collapse your own duality rather than fight it, because you are not telling me anything I don't already know.

    Just saying I AM GOD, does absolutely nothing practical. I still have to go to work tomorrow, I am still single, I am still living pay check to pay check, I am still not experiencing what I would like to experience day to day. Why the hell i've generated this argument inside myself is a question I will meditate on but so far it was just frustration being reflected, rather than an answer if the universal laws were worth studying again! lol

    Here'll i'll reflect again.

    Stop resisting your own experience because this message is currently it in this moment. So that would be both of us then, and if you don't realise that you haven't accepted all of yourself yet.

     

  2. Posted

    Here are two speakers giving you the same info

    https://tealswan.com/resources/articles/relationships-and-the-six-human-needs
    https://www.tonyrobbins.com/blog/do-you-need-to-feel-significant

    While if I have a point of reference, I can experience a memory of this (if I was lucky enough to experience some), that's not being present with who and what I have incarnated into. I've tricked myself all my life into filling the void of loneliness, I am an expert in what you suggest, but its not being present with the current emotional state generated by my own reflection. The reflection I see in the environment around me.

  3. Posted · Edited by BlueOak

    2 hours ago, Wilhelm44 said:

    He's actually pointing towards the truth. Playing with childhood memories helped me a lot. For example, think of a beautiful moment from the past. Lets say a lovely day at the beach as a kid. What if you were not just one character in that scene ? What if you were actually all the characters in the scene ? And what if you were actually the entire scene ? 

    I understand you can generate any emotion you wish. I understand we are the reflection; I've been saying that above. 

    There are basic human needs that all of us in this life experience.

    No amount of solitude fills loneliness. 
    No amount of stagnation means growth.
    No amount of self-reflection gives contribution.

    etc

  6. Posted · Edited by BlueOak

    8 hours ago, Wilhelm44 said:

    Yes, its important to have those aspects for a well functioning life. Just notice though that you have still linked happiness to aspects 'external' to you. What happens when connection, or purpose,  or growth,  or friendship,  or health, or abundance, or security, or comfort, or love, seem to disappear for a while ? Will you still be happy then ?

    The outside world reflects who and what I am, overtime matching me more or less to it. I tend to think we harmonize with our environment and it to us, so it's a two way thing. Which is why having a good peer group or nice environment to live in changes so much about a person. So 'external' is not as clearly defined as we often state, the lines are a lot more blurred between internal/external than we consider.

    When the six human needs, or more succinctly, what I consider important needs/wants, are not met, I will be unhappy. There is nothing inherently wrong with unhappiness; it's just not a desirable state to remain in, which is why it pushes you toward changing what is wrong.

  7. Posted · Edited by BlueOak

    17 minutes ago, Wilhelm44 said:

    I hear you, it's just that the things that people generally try to manifest with these techniques, will definitely not fill the void, they will only meet physical needs and desires.

    True. I think most of us here, understand more though. For my part, I would say manifesting happiness is above all important, which to me is connection, purpose, growth, friendship, health, abundance, security, comfort and love etc.

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    A good 12 years ago I did some reading on the universal laws, but its been so long that I haven't paid any attention to them because I never saw the results I wanted long term. While I could effect short-term changes, for example, going out in a state of unconditional love and seeing that reflected, and I do recognize that the world roughly aligns with who I am over time, I didn't find them filling the voids in my life, and thus it remained largely where it was.
     

    Willing to give this another run, what do you think about this particular universal law, in regards to things like financial abundance or a general uplift in your state of being?

     

  11. Posted

    On 07/03/2025 at 10:10 AM, Twentyfirst said:

    Well ya Americans are obsessed with money and materialistic consumers. Still funner hanging out with them over boring stingy Europeans 

    I don't think you've spent much time in English nightlife culture. That's where they take all the emotional repression and let it out in a few hours. Similiar things in other European countries.

    Its not healthy but its how its done. Sporting events also.

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    On 02/03/2025 at 10:14 AM, Twentyfirst said:

    I met a French guy with a million bucks in the bank complaining how expensive $120 nike shoes were and I was like what? That's a normal price

    I am not talking about the economy but the mindset. They aren't as ambitious, see building a business as some chore rather than a fun way to live, avoid money or talking about money, hold onto their euros out of fear, negotiate with 3rd worlders selling a trinket for 1 dollar on the beach, etc etc 

    I have been to poorer countries with better money mindsets. The internet is the globalizer why aren't any Europeans making massive money online like the Americans are. You know what Americans do during a recession? Spend themselves into oblivion using debt lol

    Even most Americans struggle more than Europeans when growing up but then escape poverty and move up classes out of sheer hard work and will 

    Can I speak plain.

    Because money is less of a god here. This is not an insult I have no other word that would substitute. If I said cultural differences, that's too weak a definition. Almost every decision Americans make seems to be based on money. I am somewhat like this and I have a great friend saying things like, just go with the flow, that I overthink it.

  14. Posted · Edited by BlueOak

    On 28/02/2025 at 8:57 PM, Twentyfirst said:

    Europe is only good to live in if you are from America lol

    American money, mindset, and upbringing going to Europe is a deadly trifecta 

    I have rarely been impressed by the lives of Europeans they seem to waste a lot of time doing insignificant things and they hold onto money like there isn't an infinite cash printer...boring

    Because there is a recession on. Nobody wants to say it because they've realised on some level that it creates a worse version of it. People spend less, they act in a more conservative way financially and that means cash doesn't circulate.


    So we'll say we are coming out of harder times. I honestly believe we've gone over the hump, despite the fact some price rises are yet to come.

    *If anyone has an above average income, they will never fully understand that 50% of the country is having a harder time than they are. That's a huge chunk of the culture, politic (foreign and domestic), social dynamics, etc going on. Always raise the base and average up if you want a more stable society. This doesn't have to be financially either, financial assistance or betterment alone tends to just decrease the value of existing currencies, which doesn't help long term. Its everything else you can possibly think of.

  17. Posted · Edited by BlueOak

    There is part of the human psyche that still needs addressing in children in many households being reflected a lot. I've been seeing different examples in what people have told me they've been interacting with recently, both in their young children, and in adults who didn't have that part of themselves parented. It's in a lot of people. 

    That is the part that does things because it isn't given attention, acts out, and has a desperate need to be noticed.

    Here is the practical stupidity.

    They could have done all they've done. Changed the hand signal to something else. Not identifying themselves with Nazi's, white nationalists etc using a different word, whatever, and a large number of people would still kiss the ground they walk on. What you get instead is this 'oh we are not really fascists or nazi's' despite the fact they embody most fascist principles. This bending of reality that people engage in is why I carry so much hate. The other half of people bend it the other way, to try and fit their own definitions.

    Its just putting your fingers up at people for the sake of it to get a reaction to stay in people's focus.

    Politics are a ridiculous reality TV show. Don't give it too much focus. Oh did he didn't... he did.... let's make 500 videos on it speaking about the man. Waste of the human species time.

  19. Posted · Edited by BlueOak

    14 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

    Idk about that man, you can't really start a music career online can you, it's best to start locally so you can build from something concrete. Can't really give you a guide obviously as none such thing exists but from my observation. Tiktok seems like a shitty platform for anything. Idk why people are using it. I see legit zero benefits for anyone

    I follow people that do. One guy produces music that is about a minute long and does it each week to build a following over a few years. I'm sure they do other promotion too, but online seems a significant part of it. He advocates for short songs precisely because of what you are describing, and it brings him more money when people go through the different songs on the music sites because they are short.
     

    I doubt he's making much off his youtube or tiktok videos but the point is just to send people to the songs.

  20. Posted

    If I were to critique something negatively, with the ideology you have, you would have resistance to hearing it, whereas the next guy might just shrug and say meh whatever, he'd maintain his state and you would get stuck in that downward spiral construct you are speaking about. I do this in a certain way myself, usually by viewing the wider world and seeing things I hate it in, which alters my state into lower ones obviously.

  21. Posted · Edited by BlueOak

    This is also a constructed way of thinking. Saying X = Y is a construct. I'll not say what I perceive as bad things so only what I perceive as good things happen is a very rigid construction of your mind. Then I'll not allow others to say 'bad things' is even more rigid. If you want infinite love or the higher parts of your charts as a daily experience, you'd have to love what you currently push away, as exampled here.

    Its standard mentoring in this field to push at your constructs, ideologies, beliefs, etc.

  22. Posted

    Your self could want for eternity and never get that want. It just tends to be in these more loving states that you describe that people have accepted who they are, aligned with life, got out of their own way, healed themselves, and improved their lives in many ways that things happen for them. They are also happier with simpler things often, so they are happy to start with. It doesn't necessarily mean it's easy even then to achieve something great.




     

  23. Posted · Edited by BlueOak

    4 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

    Views on Tiktok mean nothing, that's why everyone gets a lot of them. You can't really monitize views on Tiktok and neither can you divert that "audience" on some other platform because, once again, they're all just zombies zombieng. They haven't watched your content or followed your channel because they're genuinely interested in it, they're just scrolling mindlessly. Views on Youtube mean a hell of a lot more and thus it's much harder to get them

    For music I am not convinced of this. Because it's all about how much someone or a group of people hears a song.

  24. Posted

    1 minute ago, Butters said:

    What I mean is: Leo has said for example "Trump is a narcissist". Well, by speaking that into existence, Leo has created that. 

    Why?

    When I asked him about his political positions, and why he doesn't advocate for strategy in his answers as I tend to, he answered it was because he doesn't want people stuck on different stages of awareness. So he'll critique socialism because it helps move their political positions off stage green, I would assume the same is true here to get people off whatever stage they relate to in their politics.

    Generally speaking its good to get your political opinions pushed at, so you don't get too set in your ways.


     

  25. Posted · Edited by BlueOak

    When I hear this I wish I could remember the group in India who specifically were angry all the time but were highly conscious. Maybe someone can remember the name.

    I say that to bend this construct on emotions you have a bit. I like the charts but they are not an absolute, for one by how many different charts people have lol, and for two the vibration of your life goes up and down naturally in your experience. Anger for me is incredibly useful in the right context for example, and when I need to get angry I hope I always am, but I am getting off track.

    What of yourself sitting here now believes that hearing something that disagrees with you is unpleasant, and hearing things that agree with you is pleasant? That's probably the most useful point I can raise.

    *Sorry for double post my internet is lagging