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Number 1# benefit is massively reducing the guilt related to your sexuality. You are not a mindless animal that has to have it. You don't need to think about women that are in relationship or you don't know to cope or escape from something in your life. To some degree it's still there but like 5% maybe and I am working to untangle it. I am feeling much better. You just basically own your energy. There is gravity to it, you are not spilling it daily, you can think and feel straight and in relaxed way.

Your vibe attracts your tribe sooner or later.

Playing civilization 3 always teaches me something, wether about history or how the reptilian brain works or how leaders rule.

I think you will figure it out. The best you can do from my experience is spend 1 day per week to only solve diet, health, physical activity, mental health (relieving the worry), mindfulness and improving your routine topics. It will make your day to day life much better.

Truth can severely reduce your life span if you really desire it. Such people leave their body prematurely, but we are not those people probably.

Same here.

Ok, if you change ur mind I could do my or your ideas or the mix of them on the rythm guitar. I feel I am more to collab than ever.

Do you want to collab locally or you want to collab here maybe?

By dedicating time to improve your own life, developing systems that help you and others. Researching what other people need and researching for new effective and convenient solutions that will help people solve their problems is one way. Open a Google doc and start writing, start inquiring. When you have something, make it as a business plan, then look for connections, start a company. Tough you need some experience with entrepreneurship. It will take years to get from A to B with fails, but you can. This is one way. Big things don't come easy, there's no shortcut. What do you want to enrich the world with?

I would argue that it's not the point, but it's one of the side effects.

I want to write/record an elaborate series about it. I have some answers and techniques that helps me relax from the projections of society. The "Grow up" criticism comes from a very insecure place. It signals that if you will fall into place "like everyone else" you will be safer and will not be considered a threat in a violent group think society. This is not the meta or status quo anymore. That's why we have more degree of freedom and possibilities to live our lives. "Grow up" is guilt and fear based conditioning. There is no such a thing for grow up. I was told "that I am a grown adult" and should do or know something because of it many times. Trump also is an adult, Putin also is an adult, why not criticize them for their short-sighted and childish ideas about how the world should be governed and if they truly wished the best for the world they should just resign. "Grow up" means "I don't have time to internalize why you do the things you do and I don't have an individual and holistic solution for you, yet I am insecure about what you do or how you think and I don't want to associate with that, so I want to change that within you so you are more like me." Also "grow up" means, the person who criticizes you are not in tune with their emotions. This tells you that there is more nuanced less materialistic way to be happy. You don't need a lot of stuff "grown people" have, "so please don't disturb me by entertaining an alternative narrative" that you can look for happiness by exhausting your desire of sex, playing video games, eating something tasty, living by yourself, not having children, etc. Of course some of that is delusion, but some things truly resonate individually to you as to what you should do with your life. And making other people feeling guilty about their own life is not productive at all and makes them an undesirable companion or friend. I have some people in my life that project a lot of guilt in this way and I should absolutely call them out for it if possible in the same sarcastic and shady way they comment so they understand what they are saying and I will do it more and more. Telling people to "grow up" is the most disgusting and shameful thing you can do in a life or reality with no reference point or abslute guide as to how you should live your life where you have different resources and experience than every other person alive today. The solution is to remind yourself to not feel guilty about who you are and when you need to you are going to quit whatever is not serving you anymore and trust your own innate intelligence. That is a major downside of relationships. There can be somebody who constantly nags that you should be something you are not.

If you do it, you will know it.

So the problem of OP is that he doesn't want to see projection of fear to a degree of realm of suffering. I can underestand that. I would tell people here to stop using the @Nahm argument when you don't have anything reasonable to say in a discussion, just say we are all one and don't provide any practical solution to a problem or question at hand. Just say something vaguely spiritual to stop arguing. That's like a a person coming up on stage and saying in a very passionate voice "everything is energy" yet few people really have healed something from energy healing and similar practices. Why? Because the solution is specific, not vague. The "you are already free" or "everything is one" is not enough I feel at least for most people. Even that has to be understood in what context you use it, what your thinking should be based in and time to integrate this concept and see the results in your meditation. So I hate these vague truths. They are truths, but they are impractical.

God bless this man. Been digging sc and sc2 scene recently.