Applegarden8

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  1. I think that this approach is good. Have you had people not giving loans back? Have you got in trouble with police due to a "friend"? Is your friend holding back you from what you really want? I think less is more in this case. You will feel lonely even when all kinds of people are near. But too much investment in friendship is also a problem. I have this problem, so some variety of different and unique people you meet is important. They own have a different story to tell. I have few needy friends who cant seem to have somethig going for them. And they want attention because they are lonely. But for that you need to spend some time alone and self-reflect. Filter definately you should have! You can't let all kinds of people or even most in your life, they will drain you dry. But that doesn't mean you should completely close up. Chatting up is also needed. I hope you find some insight from my nonsense.
  2. My problems would be periods, violent men, maternal instincts and i would have to wash more. But I like being a man, although i am a very feminine guy.
  3. You need to spend time by yourself.
  4. @ivankiss btw i have noticed that some women in my workplace are very flirty. And I know they have bfs husbands even, they have a ring on it. And it's sometimes SO visible, that something I do, say or express turns them on or they choose to express that they are into me, but it may be not even the case. I a cannot underestand a lot of times why those women give the signals they do. Are they bored? Are they in low quality relationship? Doesn't the attention from their relationship suffice them? I underestand if you are single. I don't want them to feel guilty about it, but when you give me the clues that you are attracted, look at me, talk to me i will just smile and laugh it off, because i don't know what are you hoping for and i am just not taking you seriously. And I love it when they act very flirty and play the boyfriend/husband card in a conversation. You will not tell if they have a partner by their behaviour, really. It's so strange. Do they secretly hate men? Or like having positive validation too much? Or they know something is not fullfilling them (which is truw for all people) andbsome try to substitute with attention? Or they don't know what they want from life and react to whatever impulses they have? I don't know. I can accept how you are, but you are wasting your time flirting with me, i will just switch to a work related topic, because that's why I am there.
  5. I will tell you what my collegue told me when shit hits the fan. Go drink some cofee and relax. It will take time to resolve whatever has hit you.
  6. Let's go then.
  7. It cannot be. It's a product. You can obly use it to the extent that you can and try to.
  8. Guys, guys. Let me tell you a motivational speech. I know life gets hard, and you feel like its time to rub one out. But not rubbing one out can make you the hardest guy on the planet. Those round cheeks though, that beautiful voice, especially when she is singing. The beautiful hair she has, the quality of softness a woman has, the maternal instincs she has. The emotional connection you can have. All of that is beautiful, but you may not even need it. But if you are young, sexuality is something you are fighing with, me too. If you do rub one out, at least really go into it and enjoy it, don't hurry too much, you know.
  9. absolute open mindedness is total inner sielence
  10. Don't worry. I also got rejected, because i am too slow. Or too autistic that I only want to focus on music. I don't care acctually. I am a hermit. I don't want a relationship, it will definately make me slow on doing the things I really want to do. It may not be the same for you, but don't go too hard on yourself. If you want, get better at it, if you don't, let it go.
  11. First of all you are not those unfortunate people (like your bullies) who project their insecurities and fear of getting rejected. Because they absolutely get rejected. And mald over it.
  12. Cool man, i am very happy for you!
  13. Other pursuits in life, especially for hardcore spiritual people, very creative people or people that just view life differently or are on the spectrum.
  14. Has general body/neck stretch or yoga helped you, does humming hurt? I would try to hum very softly for like 15 minutes a day and see if it helps. If that didn't help i would try to honey fast for a week. I know, quite extreme. Hope you will find a solution.
  15. Long story short; to pay the bills.
  16. A good man contemplates his answers before replying to topics on forums. Def not what I do. Basically any time when there is a "real man" discussion, i want to answer i am neither a good or real man, because i feel this is a pointless discussion to have and is a "only you have to think how to improve, not me".
  17. I am an unhealthy man. I am a hermit. I don't give a shit about pretty much anyone but me. This is a truth most of us live in. Regardless of gender.
  18. time to become breatharian guys
  19. Sigma? Male? We only give greek alphabet names for analytical equipment and some concepts in math and physics and that kind of stuff.
  20. It is not. I see we have a little disagreement. Let's have debate, vote and prepare 100 page document for world health organization for review.
  21. Gigachad, take it as a compliment and don't take it too personally I guess.
  22. I am so much of a narcissist that I don't think my narcissism can be measured by any method invented as of now, so I refuse to take this test.