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@Gili Trawangan People usually say that something is not logical when it does not match their worldview. Word logical is highly misunderstood to mean something which is easily understandable, but it depends about how accurate your current worldview is. Everything is logical which means it is consistent. If material world is logical to you then all spiritual things are illogical, but you need to remember that only the wrong worldview is illogical, because there are some assumptions that are here without any logical reason. Illogical and counter-intuitive (against common-sense) are different words.

@DrugsBunny It is, because in this community people mix relative and absolute level perspectives with each other. If you would ask which football team is better Real Madrid or Barcelona some folks could come and say that they both are equally good, because they are imaginary or that they do the best they could. So the problem is that people try to answer question which is about content of situation with answer which is about structure. When being in this forum you need to work your skills to spot troll answers like you are imagining that there is problem in that we use word imaginary and they laugh their ass off to you being confused . The reason people do that is, because they want to sound like mystic or some wise (wo)man, but actually they make themselfes look like total joke. Also it can be, because without humor spiritual work could be at times little bit boring so joke here and there does not hurt too much. So shortly there is no difference in absolute perspective, because everything is one based on concept of oneness, but at the same time there are diffences in relative level like some objects are blue colored and other red colored. In absolute level both objects and colors are just perceptions - so they are the same. For example I always try to answer as directly and without being too poetry, because it doesn't help no matter what others say, it just won't. People have this toxic mentality that when we confuse someone long enough (s)he will go and find the answer themself, but I don't think that is really mature approach. With love -joNi-

@Loving Radiance Many people say the same that some things such as feelings aren't rational, but of course they are. When you see your favourite food you may start crying and people think that it is irrational, but only reason it seems like that is, because you don't know the rationality behind it, which could be like that you have sad memories about eating it in the past. All I said was just to make you think where that belief comes and when you know that you can start working with it. Yeah, of course I could have just said do that or have this mentality and I could have been lucky and it would have been just what you needed to hear to fix the problem, but I don't want luck to take place in my helping style and that is why I progress calmly when I help. Hope you understand what I meant .

@Loving Radiance 1. What means that you are not good enough? 2. What means that you don't deserve something? 3. Who said that you are not good enough and what is the argument? I would start this journey to unwrap this case by first contemplating these questions and only after that I would start thinking ways to help the situation. Before change can be made the thing which should be changed and to what should be clear, because without that you don't know what you should do and you most likely would make mistake in that. Understand that you are doing as well as you could with that which is being given for you. It is not your fault, if you didn't have life needed to act smoothly and friendly towards others for example. You can only do best with the resources you have and therefore actually you haven't made any mistakes in your whole life, because every moment you did that which you thought to be the best possible choice or otherwise you would have done it differently. That being said you are good enough, because you couldn't be better. I can explain this as well and as broadly you want, but I will leave it to that, because I don't know how deep analysis you want to this situation With love -joNi-

@mo_v + forgot to say, but actually psychedelics use have very little potentiality to become addiction. The probablity is basically zero, if we don't take consideration that people could use them to escape their life, but actually you could do that with great music playlist or netflix serie, so I wouldn't take that as valid argument neither. Almost everyone who has tried psychedelics have claimed to them helping them with their meditation practises and life problems. I would suggest you to try them, if you think you are ready and then come to talk again. I drop 2 videos you could watch, if you are interested in understanding psychedelics.

@mo_v Good tasting food increases dopamine levels like amphetamine. The only difference is that people say that eating good tasting food is awesome experience that you can have once in a while. So they are not any different; change my mind. As you can see everything can be phrased like you just did, but it isn't valid argument to prove anything. First of all psychedelics help you have mystical experiences like no-self, god realization, infinite space etc. which "other drugs" don't do at least on the same level. I haven't personally tried them, but the difference for me is like between day and night.

@selfvalley There are many things you could do including learning to accept that you were hurt and therefore you wouldn't need so much anger to cover the damage that was taken, showing yourself as independent and not caring about other people criticizing and just straight telling your own opinion and if they do not participate in mature conversation, you could just say that, no thanks I don't want more opinions to this thing. Just remember that you shouldn't make saying "no thanks" your new way to defend your ego from good criticizing, because without that you couldn't ever grow as human.

@cjoseph90 You make your own rules, moralities and exceptions and those should be done so you are happy by yourself. This is not game who does best that which Leo or someone else says, but it's game about who is the happiest one. Remember that you find balance only by first being unbalanced, because that tells you when, how much and to what direction you need to do the adjustment. This being said continue what you do and change it only if you by yourself really feel like it and if not don't do anything, my friend : )

@zurew When I talk about happiness or being happy I mean exactly being fulfilled about the present moment and accepting it completely. Actually giving "back" to the universe is also one more game that should at some point be fulfilled so you do not need that anymore. I don't say that you shouldn't do that, but there is no reason to do that except you gaining happiness out of it. Also having own footprint is more games. People need to understand that life is meaningless except while living it and that is why you should just love BEING

@zurew I usually explain this thing to people like everyone has games they want to play and games in this context mean things you like doing and getting better at. One game could be health and another helping others, but what all games share in common is that they give you happiness. Happiness is accepting present moment as it is. If you would be in situation that you need to choose between doing great at game or being happy, you should always choose happiness over the game or otherwise you are negatively addicted to your game and it has blinded you from the real reason you do it to begin with. There is nothing wrong trying to optimize how you play your game and actually that is the whole purpose of the game to be good at it, but people should see the bigger picture that all games are for and it is happiness. I said what I said, because it seemed that @cjoseph90 is between choosing to do great at her game - health - and happiness and it sounded like she is doing "wrong" decision and that is why I wanted to come here and tell my own opinion. That is actually the only thing you need to answer and based on your own answer, which changes throughout your life, you lead your life to that destination. I stress being happy so much, because that is the most important thing one needs to have, because it is point of life. Next time someone asks you what is point of life just dance to him/her, smile and hug him/her and you got it <3

@zurew I would add that healthy and natural goes hand in hand and therefore I would say that unnecessary calculating and stressing about which is healthy and which is not is act which is unhealthy. Healthy to me means thing which is working smoothly and effortlessly, isn't that what everyone wants - to have life which you don't need to think about too much, but still being able to love it. Healthy lifestyle, what many people dream having, is that which is freeing and aesthetic and therefore making normal human act too theoretical is not good for anyone. In comparison, do you go and measure lenghts of your orgasms, if I would say that 15min is optimal.

@cjoseph90 Think it as the same way as charity - when you give money - so someone could be happy - you get happiness out of that and also you see that you aren't too poor, because you are able to give something away. Next time you are having drink see it as you are so healthy that you can give little bit to someone's enjoyment and it is yours. You get happiness by giving that happiness to yourself so you get happy x2 (receiving and giving) and also you feel more healthy, because you see that you can play with it little. Also drinking in that amount you said only does good actually. Point of being healthy is not to be healthy, but to be happy and being able to do things. If that goal prevents you from doing basic things such as having drink or two then you actually act as unhealty - not able to do things - while being healthy. Point of life is to enjoy it and there is no reason to do well just to show that you did well, but actually you should aim to maximize your happiness overall and having small amount of alcohol is part of life, I would say. I haven't had drink for a long time, but actually I don't see problem in having it, because it is the big picture which makes the difference and you have that painted beautifully so continue doing, you beautiful : ) With love -joNi- <3

@Tudo Point of life, spirituality and living is to be happy which equals to you liking to exist exactly NOW. Ask from yourself that even, if life would be more "real" somehow then what would that change and wouldn't that be equally useless? Tell me what changes when you realize that moment being dream. Also struggles cannot be denied, but you could change your mindset so that you take them as challenges and things to do. Your life is like sudoku and there is no reason to complete it, but it is just for its own enjoyment : )

@PenguinPablo Straightforward answer for your guestion is that, what reality is, is this present moment right NOW. Actually, if you imagine there being something other than "reality" - this moment - then you are not touch with the reality. Reality is that which is the case even without thoughts - you need thoughts to other people povs or things that are not happening right NOW to happen right NOW, but you don't need thoughts to keep this present moment HERE and NOW. So whenever you seek what is TRUTH, the tip I can give is that, it is always that which is happening right NOW.

Day 22 and 33 I had lot things to do and I didn't purposelly dance for couple days and NOW I finally did one session of dancing. I feel extremely confident dancing and my hands start to feel very smooth doing all kind of shapes and moves. I would also say that I pretty much have good coordination just dancing without any reason or plan. I let my body completely do that which feels right at the moment and that is way to go. I learned to isolate and spin my chest to other direction aswell, because for some reason that was hard to do at first, weird. I have showed my shuffling to couple of people and that has been benefical for the dancing, because that increased my confidence in what I do, regardless that I didn't have any confidence problems to begin with Overall I have felt like king for a week at least and I have been in this state slighly in the past, but NOW it skyrocketed, because of personal life situation that I won't open here too much. Time danced: 11,5 hours

Hello everyone! This journal is about me learning to dance like a crazy. Point is just to prove people that everything is possible as long as you want it enough. I will track the amount of hours I have danced and moves that I have learned at least for a beginning. First I will just share videos that I use to practise this heavenly skill of expressing oneself to the beautiful universe. When I think I am good enough I will start to share videos of me actually dancing, but I can't say for sure how long that will take so at least for NOW there will be only talking until I decide to start showing results. I am spontaneous person and that's why I decided to make something new only based on one thought. Thing is that I have never danced if moving randomly like a madman does not count. While I am writing this I am almost laughing to stupidity of this whole thing. I mean best things in life happen accidentally and by not resisting yourself. Allow yourself to feel and do whatever comes and suffering only happens with resistance. I absolute love challenges so I am actually making something incredible happen and my passion wouldn't let me fail anything I start. Point of life is enjoy it and that is the only thing I will ever say and there are just no reasons not to do something unbelievable. So please make yourself comfy or take dance position and lets dive into this magical journey <3 BELOW ONE VIDEO THAT PRESENTS CRAZINESS OF THIS JOURNEY

@Michael Jackson I just said this to explain that you do not specially need to do anything specific to be happy, because to be happy is to accept present moment as it is - but you know this already based on our long conversations : )

@Michael Jackson There are sex therapists to help couples or individuals to reach orgasm, so I wouldn't use that as argument of not talking to others simultaneously with your own journey. If there would be no use to talk with other people why Leo would have made youtube videos and forum particularly to discuss things. The thing that I have said earlier is that you need both intellectual and actual understanding to get spiritual stuff. Without intellectual understanding you may interupt the experience with your false beliefs, but without actual experience it is just concepts, I agree. So the problem is not talking about these things and, if your whole life would completely get fixed only after one trip then wouldn't that be pretty hardcore frustration, because the thing which makes life interesting is that you have all the times something to do and to learn. Yeah of course you could do as I have done to just be happy and lay at your home, but is that what everyone else wants? It may or it may not and that is the part where you want to have your own experiences, because it is your own dream life.

@machiavelli If you care about truth and lets only assume - at this point - that solipsism is true then that means you need to care about solipsism aswell ?.

@Michael Jackson The blind man who gives a map is more useful than the one capable of seeing, but not guiding ?.

@Zeroguy I mean let him/her still think we are real even when we have gave him/her so many pointers . Better question would be who is (s)he thinking (s)he is talking to ?.

@machiavelli Everything you said is exactly correct and actually every part 1 - 4 said same thing in different way - only thing which exists is the moment you read this HERE and NOW. Haven't you noticed that even thoughts about something outside of this present moment happens within this moment Also only things you "know" about anything is that which is "experieced" from your "pov". Think about smiling unicorn right NOW - that is as real as your thoughts NOW about other people "povs" or things behind your walls.

@machiavelli You are NOW a bear, and I am that empty rabbit suit you will jump to when you die, and no one is conscious right NOW, but you. Haven't I said that clearly many times Accept that you are all alone and understand that this is best thing one can imagine, because everything is "yours". To be clear - it is just you and your own "pov" right NOW in present moment.

@machiavelli Understand that even the place you are right NOW does not exist, but only the "snapshot" of it from "your pov". Even our conversations never happened, but you just imagine that they did, because only this moment exists and that proves it false. This is what people mean that "you can't die", because this movie which is happening right NOW will never go away, because it must always present something, even if not, then it is movie about no content and, because that is without content then it kind of will be "skipped". It's completely same that which happens when you "didn't have any dreams at night" - you just "skip" to next morning feeling like it last forever and nothing at the same time, because you just restarted whole "universe".

@machiavelli Yeah, how does that make you feel?